Are older men more interested in being Bisexual

Im 69 and i wouldnt mind giving it a go,just to see if i have been missing out on something very good

I don't think there's any medical studies to support this, but I do wonder if hormonal changes take place in a man as he ages that in some ways plays into becoming more open to bi activity. As women age they become more masculine, so maybe men become more feminine.. OR is it that we just become more horny and frustrated that we can't do much about it women-wise, so we turn to finding ways to involving other men in sexual things; even if we really don't find a man sexy... Kind of like the desperation that takes place in prisons regardless of a man's age..

I believe as testosterone levels drop many men experience changes and become more bi or gay. Have seen it before. Nature doing its thing like bachelor herds.

I am a man who is in his 70's. as for my interest in being Bisexual, I first knew that I really was bisexual in my teens. All though I did not act on it until I was in my mid 30's. At 73 I am still interested in both men and women. I am married to a woman. I have been with other men before. The last one was about 10 months ago. I am still interested in being with other men at times.

I think men who explore bisexual encounters later in life has nothing to do with testosterone levels dropping. I would speculate quite the contrary. If a man's testosterone levels do drop significantly, he would be less likely to be interested in having sex with anybody. I would say the “older men” who are seeking out sex with other men have healthy levels of testosterone and that is what is driving them to want to have sex. As far as having sex with men, I think these men either at an early age knew they had bisexual urges and in some cases they suppressed those urges for societal reasons. Later in life sex with their wives declines and they start seeking out men for sex for reasons of practicality. Having sex with men is much easier to keep discreet thus reducing the risk of getting caught. Having affairs with women can become complicated emotionally and could result in a divorce if discovered.

I believe up through the teens most peoples' sexuality gets sorted out internally. Sexual behavior then evolves around that sexual identity throughout that person's life. Some do act on their bisexual desires while some don't due to societal pressures and the availability of opportunities to have sex with other men. I do not think a heterosexual man “turns into a bisexual man” due to increasing age, declining testosterone levels or any other factors. Heterosexual men will only want to have sex with women throughout their entire life. They are the ones that have affairs with women if they are still married.

I have been heterosexual all my life and never had any desire to have sex with a man. As I got older and afflicted with ED, sexual encounters with women dropped to zero. Being kinky, I am more interested in a person’s kinks than their sex. That opened the door to being heteroflexable/bi.

I think these men either at an early age knew they had bisexual urges and in some cases they suppressed those urges for societal reasons. Later in life sex with their wives declines and they start seeking out men for sex for reasons of practicality. Having sex with men is much easier to keep discreet thus reducing the risk of getting caught. Having affairs with women can become complicated emotionally and could result in a divorce if discovered.

Agree 100%. I feel exactly the same way.

I have been bisexual my entire life but now the older I get I am finding my sexual desires are pointing a lot more to men and less to women

I am not big or hetero flexible in the least. I am however, or was when younger, med fet and enema flexible. Dammit, just too old for it now. But I do miss it.

It's the fetish not the reproductive equipment that interested me.

I also have know that I am bi sexual from the time I realized that I was a sexual being. Any long term relationship that I have had has been with a woman but I have always enjoyed the times that I spent with a man.

Sometimes it was just with my zipper down, other times completely naked, in the shower, steam room, sometimes outside and of course naked in bed. I most enjoy being completely naked as to a wam bam blow job. More time to explore and prolong the pleasure. Although both are good.

As I get older I do find it easier to find another man to have sex with, once we know what will do we seem to know what the other likes and how to go about it better than most women do. I have had women give me a blow job, suck my balls, lick my ass and put their fingers in my ass and enjoyed it very much, however, when the same thing is done by a bi or gay man they seem to know just where and just how to induce that feeling and to prolong it better than the women that I have been with.

I started young and perused many venues in search of finding men who would be interested in having sex with me and at first, and for a long time, I was ashamed and embarrassed for this feeling, even stopping in the middle of a blow job and running off. However when I was in my mid twenties I came to grips with my bi side and excepted it and that from time to time I knew that I would search out another man to have sex with.

Well, that's it. I do enjoy being naked with another man and touching and exploring and have had numerous experiences and looking forward to some more.

Agree 100%. I feel exactly the same way.

@JimmyJohnson something tells me that if we were geographically close enough, we'd have had a lot of jockstrap oriented fun and sucked each other's cocks by now. And maaaybe even go so far as to be present during each other's exams with a stealth cam…..

I am a male just into my 50s, and I am feeling more free to explore both by homoerotic and submissive side. I have always had bi feelings, but there is something about being my age, and having experienced a lot, that gives me more ease with my homo/sub side.

I was a chubby, nerdy sensitive boy who was always last picked for sports, and always teased for my lack of athleticism and awkwardness. I had glasses and braces, which during the years I was a teen added to my awkwardness and teasing from more aggressive boys. I've posted elsewhere on Zity about my experiences as a boy having corporal punishment and enemas administered to me against my will, and the growth of my masochism, much of it deriving from all of these experiences.

As I went to college, I got more into working out, and got stronger, as my body which was so chubby groing up, I found could also hold muscle. So, in college, I did develop my more masculine side, but even though stronger and had more muscle on me, I was still clumsy and awkward and not very given to most sports. Although I did not feel like a sissy, as I understood that word, I was aware that I was not a dominant male. I've seen documentaries about apes and bears, where the dominance of the males would be ranked from the highest, the Alpha, to the lowest, the Omega. Even though I was stronger, and not really effeminate, I know I was more of an Omega than an Alpha, or even a Beta. I was still a short, stocky awkward guy, stronger and with some muscle, but still with some chubbiness and not coordinated at all . . . still awkward and an outsider to male games. If I was part of a primitive tribe, I may have been found useful for some physical labor, but I would not have been chosen with the top males to go out on the hunt. It was something I felt very clearly when I was around more agressive athletic males, or even those further down the ladder.

I think there was always a part of me that felt I had to balance between being as “regular” a guy as possible, yet was always aware of this submissiveness, wimpiness, and awkwardness in me. I always had a strong androphilic, side to me, always appreciating strong verile thick bodied men. But I stopped myself from letting myself submit.

But now, I am really letting myself explore more that part of me. I am now a chubby, wimpy, nerdy short stocky guy with glasses, now bald and looking every bit the 50 year old fat nerd. I have always had a strongly anal side, but I am now so much more deeply into it. I have a collection of buttplugs, anal toys, dildoes, etc… and I love using them on me… I love fucking myself with a nice thick dildo in the shower. I love gay porn, and love seeing a fat chubby guy or an obviously nerdy guy getting fucked, and I fantasize about taking thick cock up my ass. I fantasize about the big beefy agressive athletic guys I've known in the past fucking me and me sucking their thick cocks. . . me naked before them and presenting my ass to them, and them taking advantage. Although I have not sucked actual cock as of yet… not sure if that will happen. . . I have had the pleasure to have a relationship with a “bro”, who has allowed me to suck his toes, swallow his feet, and lick his fingers and nipples.

I am now a short chubby bald nerdy queer guy who loves being homo, taking dildo up my ass, and submissively sucking on a bro's male feet. I dont regret all the times in my life I've had to submit, and even when it was embarrasing or humiliating. I dont regret being a wimpy, non-dominant male, and indeed it even gives me pleasure now.

Well I can't speak myself because I have always been gay but I've been a lot of bi men's especially older married cuckolds I was there first man and usually that's exactly what they asked for if they want to be sissified. Wasl in my experience.

I'm done a lot of sissies just exactly like what you described.

I have a mechanic's uàniform with no name tags or anything and blue ni boxers White socks work shoes wife beater. I have a box of very cheap pink fishnet stockings in medium to 3x individually wrapped. Same with panties and thongs that I got off eBay for like 12 bucks a box. A school paddle.

Pick up my six pack of beer and couple cigars.

Make them strip then quite nastily scold them to get those fish stockings on maybe a SWAT or two.

When they suck me I'm very kind about letting them explore and take it slow especially the first time.

The whole idea an asshole husband.

While they're sucking me make them stop and go get me a goddamn deer and make me a sandwich and grab me those fucking waffle fries. Hurry up light my goddamn cigar .

I Can't tell you enough how popular that is it's hilarious

Me, Older, and always soft? fascinated by pix of people with huge, hards? whew. Being sucked? Sucking? male to female, female to male, all that stuff, very interesting. I have a new circle of friends in that T department, while married unsexually at home. Very confusing.

Since I've last been posting in this and similar threads about older and becoming interested in bi - I'm finding the proverbial pendulum has gone back the other way and I have now become very straight in my thinking! Also very horny for women.

I think the older we get, the more time we have on our hands realizing that life is going to pass by without exploring it. In my working years, I was busy with raising a family and working to pay the bills. There wasn't much time to think about exploring. Now that I'm retired and the kids don't come around I find myself constantly thinking about all sorts of bisexual/gay activities.

All i can say is, anyone mature man who wants to suck on my hard cock is welcome! LOL I have always been attracted to hard penis of any age. when i was a young guy i went looking for more mature men to teach me and mentor me. now that i am older i love doing the same for those horny studs. but, i can only say that my hunger for cock is as strong now as it was then. i hope it does get stronger as i age!

I am well into my 50's now and would love to have a cute twink to play with. I think the ideal age would be between 18 and 21. The idea of having a smooth 18 year old boy to play with absolutely makes my cock throb. At my age I really don't care for labels, we are human beings and that is the only label I need.

I would love to gently play with my twinks soft smooth body, massaging him and stroking his hair. Taking in every inch of his beautiful body. To be able to play with his cock and balls would be a dream come true, and if he allowed me to put my dick into his bum I would be in heaven. I would love to hear from anyone with similar interests.

I started exploring my bi-sexuality about two years ago at age 73. I immensely enjoy sharing sexual pleasures with other men. I'm a mwm bi-sexual bottom who enjoys giving and receiving oral and anal sex!

I have always enjoyed sex with cis women. I have always fantasized about being with a shemale/transsexual with a smooth body. In 2020 I became a nudist and all the different bodies both male and female are amazing. I was most attracted to the more feminine guys. Now that I’m a cross dresser and trans woman I’m fully pansexual. Sex with women is fun. Sex with men is fun. As long as there is attraction between two consenting adults what can be bad about it? I remember my first blowjob I gave. It was amazing and I enjoyed it as much as my partner did. I‘m not attracted to dominant hairy men. Just soft sexy and smooth like me.

Older men can lose their potency and male sex drive as the testosterone level declines. This makes us more likely to give into whatever tendency we might have had toward a bisexual orientation. It is a time of freedom - freedom to enjoy, possibly even love, a much wider range of individuals. No more constrictions on feeling weird for having a hankering for a good woodie in your butt in addition to your own in a lady's soft flower. Enjoy both, and the wonderful people attached to those attractive organs!!!

Nah. That doesn't work for me.

Older men can lose their potency and male sex drive as the testosterone level declines. This makes us more likely to give into whatever tendency we might have had toward a bisexual orientation.

I don’t buy this either. Don’t see a correlation in loss of sex drive resulting in an increased interest to bisexual activity. I would think that perhaps a loss of intimacy in a marriage might make some look for other options, but they would still have an active sex drive.

I would love to find a small group of men, aged around 55 and on up, to hang out nude with sometimes. Masturbation (mutual or self) okay/encouraged, “other activities” okay too, mutual respect to accept or decline.

I guess I won't be considered “older” by some of the Zity folks, but I'm turning forty-five next month, and I still have no interest in being bisexual. Good on those who do, though, as it leaves them more options.

I feel the ability to perform has no relationship to sexual preference. If you are a senior guy (or any age) and think because you can't keep an erection bisexuality is going to be your answer- think again, it probably means that you have been bi-sexual or gay for a long time and this just you an excuse to act out on it. What is the difference between not keeping an erection with a woman or a man?

I find my self attracted to male penises ( hard) now that I am older

Yes me too; especially if it's sticking out of a girdle or pair of classic full-cut women's panties. A man's body does not excite me otherwise.

Interesting thread. I am over 70 and have been a very content bi sexual my whole life. Started with a good buddy at age 12 or less where we masterbated together and I got regularly fucked which I learned to absolutely love. However soon discovered girls and still enjoy both. Still love having sex with my wife of 55 years but at same time absolutely love a hard cock in my ass. I just melt in a mans embrace. My ass enjoys attention and when I can't have man sex I enjoy a butt plug for hours. I just love sex LOL.

I would love to find a small group of men, aged around 55 and on up, to hang out nude with sometimes. Masturbation (mutual or self) okay/encouraged, “other activities” okay too, mutual respect to accept or decline.

Wouldn't we all? I'd like a group of guys and for me to be the middle of a circle jerk.

I think a few things combine to make older men now more interested in Bisexuality. Most grew up in times when male/male sex was either illegal or else highly disapproved of. The ‘bi curious’ woman was somehow seen as more sexual not less so; but a male partner who also had sex with other men was not something many women would tolerate. Even in this enlightened forum, certain users have told men expressing such leanings to ‘face what they are’ etc, as if ambiguity was not allowed.

Fast forward a few decades and bisexuality etc is far more acceptable. Plus their female partners, if they still have one, may not be nearly as sexual as they once were. They look around and find other older men in the same situation.