How does urge incontinence feel like?

I don't mean to be disrespectful to a serious medical condition: overreactive bladder aka urge incontinence.

But being a somewhat different AB focused on humiliation and accidents, I'm wondering how it feels to lose control like a helpless toddler. Not the complete absence of bladder control i.e. when you wet without feeling any urge, but a short intense struggle you are bound to lose. As an adult, I feel like my bladder would burst inside rather than let go without my control.

#2 (if I'm allowed to discuss it at all) does force itself out caused by an enema or certain medicine like Bisocadyl.

I am also curious about the tickle. Can it really force a healthy adult to pee him/herself? Assuming you have a full bladder.

Urge incontinence is just what it sounds like. You get an urge to urinate followed by leakage to some extent. It has nothing to do with the bowel (enema or laxitives), it's all about the bladder and urinary sphincter(s).

I don"t know about others, but my over active bladder is a pain in the butt. I can be standing there and all of a sudden I feel urine down my legs. I get no warning, not one warning sign. I talked to my urologist and he gave me some drugs. They somewhat worked but the side effects were terrible. We tried 3 different drugs. All had the same side effects.

I have tried Depends, which I have worn for a number of years. My urologist gave me three more alternatives. Some sort of electric stimulation which seems to help some people, botox injections in the bladder and an implantable device in my back which helps control the stimulation of emptying the bladder.; I think now I will ask more about the botox injections.

I have been using a large catheter to control my sudden emptying of my bladder. I don't mind my small leaks, but then after a while my bladder empties more and I get some urine burn on my privates and have to wash that area off frequently. I have a shower shot which I use all the time.

In the summer I can wash myself off easily and I can empty my bladder without any problem. Wintertime it is much more complicated.

I have never had any problems with any laxatives or an enema. I can say they not given me any trouble.

Overactive bladder is a pain in the butt.

I have tried Depends, which I have worn for a number of years.

@Czorro I do not suffer incontinence or an overactive bladder. However, when I first started wearing diapers to satisfy my pee and DL kinks, I used Depends for a short time. I experimented and ended up using Tranquility Premium Overnight pull ups for a long time. I recently switched to a new brand I like more - Dry Direct pull ups. My medium size diapers have a total capacity of (IIRC) 94 ounces and 36 ounces under pressure. The leg cuffs are tighter (on me anyway) than the Tranquility brand and I never worry about a leak. I have easily had 36 - 40 ounces in them with never an issue. Do a google search and you will find them at parentgiving.com. You can order a sample pack (2 diapers) for $2.00 (plus shipping, I believe). They may help solve your issue.

Peesalot,

I will check them out. Thanks.

Czorro