Parental Spanking into later Years

Scott

There isn't much info on your profile. You say your a male and your husband spanks you. Are you in a gay marriage?? If you've been spanked solely for health reasons, why go to a fetish site to talk about it? Have you looked for or joined a bulimia or anorexia support site? What are you lookin for here??

Scott

There isn't much info on your profile. You say your a male and your husband spanks you. Are you in a gay marriage?? If you've been spanked solely for health reasons, why go to a fetish site to talk about it? Have you looked for or joined a bulimia or anorexia support site? What are you lookin for here??

And why does your husband allow your father to spank you with a razor strop????

And why does your husband allow your father to spank you with a razor strop????

Scott

There isn't much info on your profile. You say your a male and your husband spanks you. Are you in a gay marriage?? If you've been spanked solely for health reasons, why go to a fetish site to talk about it? Have you looked for or joined a bulimia or anorexia support site? What are you lookin for here??

My husband would have a fit if he ever found out what my dad did that. I never told him. He was back at home with our daughter. It was supposed to be a bit of a bonding trip with my dad.

I'm transgender. I started in this world as a girl but I've started the process of transitioning. My husband accepts this about me. I'm a bit shy about it.

lol I get spanked for "health" reasons of course but I'm still in it for the fun. I just posted on this topic because I could relate to it. I love getting spanked and disciplined during sex. I mostly just get maintenance spankings from my husband at this point because I'm pretty good most of the time.

I've been on eating disorder sites before and it just makes things worse. I'm not in good health but I'm not death's door anymore so I'm living with it for the time.

Scott45 said

My husband would have a fit if he ever found out what my dad did that. I never told him. He was back at home with our daughter. It was supposed to be a bit of a bonding trip with my dad.

I'm transgender. I started in this world as a girl but I've started the process of transitioning. My husband accepts this about me. I'm a bit shy about it.

lol I get spanked for "health" reasons of course but I'm still in it for the fun. I just posted on this topic because I could relate to it. I love getting spanked and disciplined during sex. I mostly just get maintenance spankings from my husband at this point because I'm pretty good most of the time.

I've been on eating disorder sites before and it just makes things worse. I'm not in good health but I'm not death's door anymore so I'm living with it for the time.

Very interesting.

What does your MOTHER think of this?

What does your mother think of her husband, your father, spanking their daughter at age 28?

Very interesting.

What does your MOTHER think of this?

What does your mother think of her husband, your father, spanking their daughter at age 28?

My parents are divorced. They had been since I was around 13. Not sure when it was "official". If I told her she wouldn't care. Not the loving type.

My grandmother is the only one who knows about it since she overheard the end. She freaked out on him pretty bad and took care of me. I think she is only reason I didn't get it again that week.

You have a very unusual family arrangement.

@scott45 If you are not being spanked with your 100% full consent ( like sexually w/husband ) then it is abuse and assault, and therefore criminal!! No matter what, LEAVE! Never see that person again! Getting you to a treatment facility for eating disorders NEVER REQUIRES physical abuse or force!

I hope you can get some help from professionals, and with your husbands blessing. Anyone who truly loves you will want you to seek and get treatment!

This rates a 9.3 on my BS scale or a 10.0 on my dysfunctional family scale.

Don't mean to be rude - I hope things work out for you, Scott.

A razor-strap beating for having an eating disorder, for not eating enough? Wow, really enlightened. Instead of perhaps inquiring into which dishes that might entice you into getting an appetite?

Agracier, while I doubt a spanking would help things I have people with eating disorders in the family and it is not as easy as you make it sound. They're big and deep seated things.

Fortunately most of the ones in my family are and have been recovering for a while.

Agracier, while I doubt a spanking would help things I have people with eating disorders in the family and it is not as easy as you make it sound. They're big and deep seated things.

I'm sure that it is not easy with such disorders. But I am also certain that razor-strap beatings of 28 year-olds is not going to help one bit either. I doubt that beatings like that never help with anything.

Hey guys, it's a razor STROP --- NOT STRAP.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Razor_strop

Hey guys, it's a razor STROP --- NOT STRAP.

I guess we all stand corrected ... 😃

I was threatened with a spanking when I was in my mid-twenties. It was just a threat; neither my mom or dad followed through. My girlfriend at the time thought it was pretty funny.

Hey guys, it's a razor STROP --- NOT STRAP.

I guess we all stand corrected ... 😃

At least we can stand. After a good spanking with a razor strop (correct usage) or a razor strap (common usage), that's important because sitting is a bitch!

Even though my father stopped spanking me at 18, he still threatens me with one..

I had my last spanking from my parents at 24.

When I was 26, my dad threatened me with a spanking, and almost followed through. I had been fired from a job and needed money. He had me pull my pants down and put my hands on my shins. He took off his belt, yanked down my underwear - but never actually spanked me. He just talked and then changed his mind I guess

I had my last spanking from my parents at 24.

When I was 26, my dad threatened me with a spanking, and almost followed through. I had been fired from a job and needed money. He had me pull my pants down and put my hands on my shins. He took off his belt, yanked down my underwear - but never actually spanked me. He just talked and then changed his mind I guess

Any ideas why I might be finding this hard to believe?

@countryboy28 said

I had my last spanking from my parents at 24.

When I was 26, my dad threatened me with a spanking, and almost followed through. I had been fired from a job and needed money. He had me pull my pants down and put my hands on my shins. He took off his belt, yanked down my underwear - but never actually spanked me. He just talked and then changed his mind I guess

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DrZ said

Any ideas why I might be finding this hard to believe?

I have absolutely NO IDEA.

This seems perfectly reasonable to me! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

. . . . despite countryboy28's previous post claiming this

Moved out at 19 - no more spankings.

Moved back in at 21 - spankings resume.

Moved out at 24 - no more spankings.

Nephew's dad spanks me - 27

Yeah my bullshit meter is going off again.

Mashie

@Mashie There is less bullshit in the stockyards of Texas than in this thread.

That’s on par with my claim I ejaculated 22 times with 22 different women in a two hour period!! Really, it happened 😁 😁

in my dreams! Maybe two over a three day period is more believable!!

@countryboy28

One can only wonder what alternate substance you might be on from your posting. Please give the rest of us the benefit of being sane and not wanting this site to deteriorate to this sort of nonsense! Is there any other way you could think of to satisfy your need for attention maybe?

Spanking at age 22 (when it isn't consensual) is assault and the perp should be charged. I'm not even convinced it should be done on a minor of any age, except for cases of safety ie. when a toddler reaches for a hot stove, a slap on the hand might be appropriate.

I wasn't spanked after about age 12. Female, age 56.

I apologize if I was not clear - the last time I ever had to take a spanking from a parent was from my dad at 24. I just about did at 26, but he never ended up actually doing it. When it comes right down to it, I think he felt as ridiculous as I did even though he was pissed at me.

My sister's ex, who has spanked me since then, has done so as a good buddy helping me out. I have fought with myself over this a million times. I do not necessarily see it as a spanking fetish, because I don't have sex with the people who spank me. At the same time, I crave the discipline and structure from knowing that if I do not behave the way I should, I will be spanked.

You don't have to have sex with the person for it to be considered a fetish, quite the opposite actually.

Mashie

You don't have to have sex with the person for it to be considered a fetish, quite the opposite actually.

Now that is a statement that should be included in all books and articles about fetishes, especially about sexual fetishism.

Seriously? I didn't know that lol. I thought fetishes were things you did for sex? Good to know. Guess I do have a fetish then. Does that mean I should stop?

I see no reason you should stop. The questions you need to ask yourself are these: Is getting spanked an action that is helpful to you? Are you experiencing mental distress over them? I think you have already made clear these spankings are beneficial for you. Now as long as they are not causing some guilt loop where you feel bad for having been spanked so you need to be spanked again (spankings show be guilt cleansing not inducing). You are an adult and you have the right to put yourself in situations that others may describe as abusive. If a hard spanking improves your attitude, behaviour and i would suspect general mood (I tend to be very happy for days after i have got a good spanking, even a good half dozen swats leave me feeling very happy) I would say get spanked as often as you need.

I was spanked until I was 18 and sent to college. It was done the same way: OTK and bare bottom with a paddle

I don't disbelieve you guys about getting spanked at an older age (18,20,22 etc). I just find it odd that you would submit to it or that your parents still thought it was a necessary or effective form of discipline. Maybe a fetish. I wasn't spanked a lot - but after about age 12-14 my folks wouldn't stand a chance of spanking me.