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Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

What makes us to become Submissive or Dominant?

I wonder how we become submissive or dominant. …

Dominant Women

I don't really "get" me. I had a good family li…

Amusing fact on ladies and ball gags

Two different ladies are my bondage models. The…

When you're into BDSM kink but partner isn't.

I have been married for 35yrs now to a wonderfu…

Turned on by hearing that someone was going to be spanked.

I was watched by different families after schoo…

"therepeutic" spanking and stress reduction

OK, kinksters, here's a twist. I have been havi…

What does a real spanking feel like?

I have been into give and getting for many year…

How do I tell my boyfriend my submissive sexual desires?

How do you approach the subject with a partner?…

Men Watching other men getting spanked

Can a man, enjoy, or get turned on by watching …

Eroticism and control

Do people think this statement is true, care to…

Unwanted School PE Nudity

I am writing this from a UK Schools' perspectiv…

Did childhood spankings cause a fetish?

Do you think that childhood spankings developed…

Chastity without use of devices?

I have read with interest many posts / threads …

Differences in sex drive between partners

Hi I am happily married to a lovely man 22 year…

Adults finding shame and embarrassment amusing during childhood

I was talking with another Zity member about th…

Colourful rooms and their feelings

Hello everyone. I wish to share with you some s…

What's wrong with me?

WARNING: Pity party ahead So I'm 37 and it's …

Relationship between Sadist & Masochist verses Dom & Sub

I'm curious if there is any difference between …

Keeping BDSM stimulating by yourself

I'm curious how many of you are having trouble …

Use your safe word

A Necro-thread on ‘would you allow someone you …

Why BDSM is good for you

I'm not a religious person, but I think Paul in…

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

"Freezing" moment during sex, "Catatonic" response ?

Hello everyone.. You know that moment during se…

Texting my wife that i might need a reminder to behave

Well just before leaving to see our daughter, s…

Diaper as a sort of chastity device

Does anyone here enjoy that feeling of lack of …

Humiliation

How do you humiliate your sub ?

Play advice: First time with new partner

We'll say a friend of mine (M) has been corresp…

Humiliating anal insertions

I just wanted to see who else loves having obje…

Trial By Ordeal?

We meet at the my place as usual and you are dr…
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How normal was my 13 yo BDSM fantasy involving my homeroom teacher?

I am asking for opinions on how normal or abnor…
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For me pain in anal sex was security in college

I am now in my early 60's so that you understan…

Your Ulterior Motive for your fetish

I saw a video of a man tied naked, about to hav…

Flashbacks

Last week I had a most remarkable flashback to …

Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go…

Edgeplay

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-pla…

Doesn't the sub actually control a Dom(me)/sub relationship?

In your experience, who actually controls a rel…

Why we are the way we are

Have you ever thought about why we are the way …

Communication skills

Do you and your partner have good communication…

How do I get my husband interested in BDSM again?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you..

Helping her embrace her natural dominance

I want my secret lover to embrace dominance. I…

Guilty About Fetish

I have some guilt or maybe some uneasy feelings…

Am I sick?

Hey, my name is Amy. When I was small, my dad a…

The anticipation

A friend who is heavy in BDSM teld me once the …

Hot button words

Wasn't sure whether to post this in the Medfet …

Therapeutic interventions

I'm new to the board but an experienced psycho-…

Newly Dating

Alrighty I need some advice I am 25... and newl…

Your reaction to witnessing the infliction of severe pain?

In two instances I have observed reactions to w…

Is it really so simple for all?

I've been a member here for a while now and als…

'Asking for it' in a roundabout way'

About 20 years ago I was dating a woman and one…

How would you approach...

How would you approach your partner to bring up…