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What does a real spanking feel like?

I have been into give and getting for many year…

Attitude to spanking

In my childhood, spanking was the accepted way …

Men Watching other men getting spanked

Can a man, enjoy, or get turned on by watching …

"therepeutic" spanking and stress reduction

OK, kinksters, here's a twist. I have been havi…

Eroticism and control

Do people think this statement is true, care to…

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

Unwanted School PE Nudity

I am writing this from a UK Schools' perspectiv…

Did childhood spankings cause a fetish?

Do you think that childhood spankings developed…

Chastity without use of devices?

I have read with interest many posts / threads …

Differences in sex drive between partners

Hi I am happily married to a lovely man 22 year…

Adults finding shame and embarrassment amu…

I was talking with another Zity member about th…

Colourful rooms and their feelings

Hello everyone. I wish to share with you some s…

What's wrong with me?

WARNING: Pity party ahead So I'm 37 and it's …

What makes us to become Submissive or Domi…

I wonder how we become submissive or dominant. …

Relationship between Sadist & Masochist ve…

I'm curious if there is any difference between …

Keeping BDSM stimulating by yourself

I'm curious how many of you are having trouble …

When you're into BDSM kink but partner isn…

I have been married for 35yrs now to a wonderfu…

Use your safe word

A Necro-thread on ‘would you allow someone you …

Why BDSM is good for you

I'm not a religious person, but I think Paul in…

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

Have you allowed yourself to be tied up th…

I was wondering, for those of you who have, wha…

"Freezing" moment during sex, "Catatonic" …

Hello everyone.. You know that moment during se…

Texting my wife that i might need a remind…

Well just before leaving to see our daughter, s…

Turned on by hearing that someone was goin…

I was watched by different families after schoo…

Diaper as a sort of chastity device

Does anyone here enjoy that feeling of lack of …

Dominant Women

I don't really "get" me. I had a good family li…

Humiliation

How do you humiliate your sub ?

Play advice: First time with new partner

We'll say a friend of mine (M) has been corresp…

Humiliating anal insertions

I just wanted to see who else loves having obje…

Trial By Ordeal?

We meet at the my place as usual and you are dr…
2021.02.24

How normal was my 13 yo BDSM fantasy invol…

I am asking for opinions on how normal or abnor…

For me pain in anal sex was security in co…

I am now in my early 60's so that you understan…

Your Ulterior Motive for your fetish

I saw a video of a man tied naked, about to hav…

Flashbacks

Last week I had a most remarkable flashback to …

Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go…

Edgeplay

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-pla…

Ordering online

I just ordered a remote control egg to play wit…

Doesn't the sub actually control a Dom(me)…

In your experience, who actually controls a rel…

Why we are the way we are

Have you ever thought about why we are the way …

Communication skills

Do you and your partner have good communication…

How do I get my husband interested in BDSM…

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you..

Helping her embrace her natural dominance

I want my secret lover to embrace dominance. I…

Been so long

I am at my wit's end. I haven't seen my Dom in …

How to excite my wife about spanking !!!

Love to give my wife a sound spanking OTK. neve…

Getting turned on by being told off

Does anyone else experience this? Being spanked…

Guilty About Fetish

I have some guilt or maybe some uneasy feelings…

Teasing & denial staircase

Hello, today i'm testing on myself something I …

Am I sick?

Hey, my name is Amy. When I was small, my dad a…

The anticipation

A friend who is heavy in BDSM teld me once the …

Hot button words

Wasn't sure whether to post this in the Medfet …

How do I tell my boyfriend my submissive s…

How do you approach the subject with a partner?…

Therapeutic interventions

I'm new to the board but an experienced psycho-…

Switching Gears

Hey, not sure if this belongs here or not--but …

Newly Dating

Alrighty I need some advice I am 25... and newl…

Your reaction to witnessing the infliction…

In two instances I have observed reactions to w…