Bathtub enemas and sexuality

About ten years before my wife's passing, we remodelled our bathroom to have a double size jacuzzi spa bathtub. Rather than have the usual faucet assembly at the foot of the tub, we had it placed just off centre towards the head of the tub at easy access level while laying back in the tub. There was an attachment to send the water flow into the tube going to the shower. Rather than the usual 4 or 5 foot hose, we added a "y" attachment which had a pair of 12 foot hoses installed. This way, two enema attachments to the ends (each with its own shut off valve) could be added. The toilet was located just beside the tub - luckily!!!

In preparation for some of our more outlandishly erotic role play sessions, we'd start by laying in the jacuzzi spa while allowing a slow warm flow enter both of us. We loved mutual masturbation, so we would take our time fondling each other. Often, we'd watch some erotic video on the tv that was installed on the wall opposite the tub.

Three, and even four or five sessions of 'fill the colon, empty the colon', would be the precursor to some very unbridled encounters. This developed our interest in having prolonged anal sex. Use of ever increasing sizes of dildos and strapons followed naturally.

Our love life never got stale. Oh how I wish I could find a new open minded partner like that again.

I often wonder how other couples get started with enema sex.

I got my boyfriend now husband started by ultimatum in college. I told him he couldn't sleep with me unless I gave him an enema. He took it like a champ and then fucked my eyes out.

I have come to realize that most couples do have some common ground in sexual interests otherwise most would not pursue the relationship. But I am guessing there is a significant sector while they share some common interests are not a complete match and one or both go wanting for something they aren't getting. One of the partners might express an interest in some fetish while the other says they have no interest leaving that person unfulfilled sexually.

So if you are one of the lucky ones who is in a super relationship where there is a strong bond and are in sync sexually with your partner, know you have something very special. Sensuality Shared seemed to have that with his wife. It's great to hear when it happens.

To me, maybe it's being 5ft 11 but I have so far been unable to find a not-too-uncomfortable position for an enema in the bathtub

My approach has been to lead by example. It started by showing a love of anal penetration and openness about how important enemas are to my enjoyment of it.

As a result, my wife's desire for anal sex has returned in very strong fashion. This is after 30+ years of being off limits! Now I just found out that she has been performing small rectal rinses, using a small nasal syringe. Her first divulgence of this information was her purchase of some disposable saline enemas to bring along on an upcoming hotel getaway. She knows I have enema equipment, including a nice standard bulb syringe. but perhaps she feels intimidated by it.

As part of her "Valentines/Anniversary" gift package, I decided to add her own personal pink silicone bulb syringe. I will find out if she is willing to let me watch/participate this coming weekend. I don't know if enemas will evolve into part of our mutual foreplay, or remain a private preparatory practice - but either way, I'm thrilled at our progress.