Gentle Nipple Play

I do not enjoy anything but the slightest touching of the nipples. Pinching causes pain. Why do men think that all women like it rough? Some nipples are just more tender than others.

I nursed two babies many years ago. I remember trying to toughen them up by massaging A & D ointment. I wonder if this would toughen mine. I don't think size matters, but I am a 38D.

I would love to hear from some ladies who enjoy breast fondling but only gentle nipple touching or sucking. There must be more of you out there than those who have posted about rough nipple play.

This may have been discussed before and I know what you are saying. Many men think perky nipples are there to be pinched and there are women (I don't know the statistics) who do not like their nipples played with except for very gentle contact. I generally like my entire breast to be fondled and NOT have concentration on the nipple except when I am being masturbated and having an orgasm when I like my nipples pinched (not too hard).

I doubt A & D ointment will help toughen your nipples. There are many sensory nerves there and short of a topical anesthetic like lidocaine gel or lidocaine viscous, I doubt you will get more than temporary relief.

I also think that once we have reached a certain age, our sensory preferences have been pretty much set by time. You could try squeezing or pinching your own nipples and ramping up from gentle to more firmly and see if that helps you tolerate rougher nipple handling--which is not completely unlike BDSM play where one would go from gentle nipple clamps to tighter nipple clamps as tolerance is built up.

YMMV tremendously.

For sexual activity, nipples are there for pleasure. Just as is the case with any activity, the pleasure is subjective to the recipient. Many men understand this, many don't.

My wife sometimes wants gentle nipple play and sometimes rough nipple play. She usually seems to prefer the rough nipple play only if she is on top, riding me. I usually wait for her to tell me to "pinch them harder" before moving from gentle to rougher. This does not happen every time we have sex. Only when she has gotten to a certain place in her mind and body.

Why do men think that all women like it rough?

I know that not all men think that but I am sure some do because I have heard about it. I have only been with my husband so I have not experienced any rough play with my breasts, no nipple pinching or anything like that. My husband is a bit of a tease with my nipples and he touches them gently. I really love what he does. Often he cups my breasts when I am reaching orgasm and that gives me a lot of pleasure.

When I have chatted with friends some have said they have had some rough treatment of their nipples and I am sure most have just not liked it. I have thought a bit about it and just a theory but maybe the men I have heard about who like their penises treated roughly think that rough is the only way to do it and they think it must mean that women must want their nipples pinched as well.

I don't like rough nipple play. I like it soft and gentle.

Agree with gentle nipple play. Even suckling should be gentle. Gentle play can take me to an orgasm and I don't want it any other way.

As with everything, women are all different as to how they like their nipples played with. One woman I dated yrs ago flinched at the gentlest pinching, so I backed off and just stroked them. My last sub enjoyed very rough play. When she was on top I would hold her breast in one hand and smack her nipple and breast as hard as I could with the other. The barbell in her nipple would really hurt my hand! She came buckets during this.

I've used clover clamps on a few women and most weren't able to take it at all or only for a very short time. However one didn't flinch at all - I even had to check the springs cause I thought they were broken! She liked them and could keep them on for a long time.

Every lover should find out a bit beforehand, or go slow to start and gauge the reaction. They should never start off with rough stuff.

I love gentle nipple play. It started when I first got serious with my husband. He unbuttoned my shirt and gently removed it. He then slipped his hand inside my bra and lifted out one of my breasts, Cupping it, he bent down and just flicked his tongue over the nipple. When he saw this was having the effect he wanted, he took my nipple between his lips and gently sucked. Never had I experienced such pleasure in my breast. He then slipped his hand into the other side of the bra and repeated his gentle stimulation of my other breast.

20 years later he is still addicted to my breasts, and I am still very turned out by his gentle nipple play. We have experimented with every conceivable position. Since my breasts are quite saggy, if I straddle him they hang in a perfect sucking position. I most enjoy standing or sitting up with him cupping my breasts while he licks and sucks.

We both sleep naked. If we are in each other's arms he knows just how to move his chest hair against my breasts to achieve a gentle nipple play.

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The girl who I hung out with at the bar as a friend liked having her back scratched. Given the proper circumstances that usually evolved into scratching her front. So often that scratch my back was a synonym for scratch my boobs. She always wanted me to scratch harder, so hard I was afraid I was breaking the skin and leaving real scratches. The first time she had me unhook her bra then wanted me to slide my hands around front I was avoiding her nipples while scratching until she complained that I wasn't scratching her whole breast. I don't know how she could stand that hard scratching but that was what she liked. I never played with her breasts or nipples pinching or slapping them was never part of the action. She was more like a sister to me so even though she was beautiful we were not sexually attracted to each other and the scratching was truly because she liked being scratched.

I personally do not enjoy anything about rough breast or nipple play. I enjoy my breast being played with at a slow gentle massage. I love to have gentle squeezing done til my nipples become hard and the my nipples either kicked gen tally or sucked on getally. I had a boyfriend once that thought it would be fun to squeeze them hard to the point of just about bruising my breasts. I was ready to smack him up side the head(Sorry it really hurt). He also was the boyfriend that bit one of my nipples not pleasant. I want my breast treated like a baby would nursing from mommy nice and gentle. I do like it when I am about to or if I am having a orgasm to have my breasts sucked on or gently massage during this time. My breast are precious and want them treated well.

Women are just SO SO different on this! I’ve been with women that love rough play, really hard pinching, clamping, and smacking their breasts to bruise them! And then others a slight pinch and they are cringing, saying it’s too much. And then others that don’t want much of anything done with their breasts or nipples, as in they don’t care much at all.

women are so confusing! Lol!

I am only into gentle. Light touch and teasing is the most arousing. The use of a feather, well you might have to pull me off the ceiling.

Anything rough does nothing for me and can and does actually shut me down.

I also love the gentle treatment of nipples