Epiphany Anatomy Lesson

For almost as long as I have known him, my husband has loved being fisted and he likes it to my elbows.

We have both known that when I am masturbating him, he particularly likes the sensation of anal hooks and other toys like the NJoy Wand fully inserted putting pressure against the anterior wall of the colon, but the distance internally that he especially likes it is beyond the prostate, even though we both know he also likes the sensations from the prostate. After passing the prostate gland he has a sensory "neutral zone" where he feels pressure, but not the same sensation as the prostate delivers and then this other area comes into play.

As a side note, he does not have an enlarged prostate.

I decided to do some investigating so I pulled open the anatomy books to find exactly what has been giving this pleasure and have discovered that what he really enjoys, and also results in considerable fluid emission upon placing pressure on the area is NOT the prostate. About four or five inches inside the anus (too far to reach with fingers) against the anterior colon wall are the seminal vesicles. We both always knew that firm pressure on that spot rewarded both of us with his smile and moans of pleasure, but not until this morning when I looked it up, did I discover that it has always been pressure on the seminal vesicles, NOT the prostate that he has loved so much. That also accounts for the fact that he has loved being fisted (greater depth with anterior pressure) much more than merely sticking in a few fingers.

There's two, just superior and lateral to the prostate. They contribute the majority of the ejaculate. I reach mine with the Theracane. Massage inferior and medial will express the most fluid.

Thanks for your response.

That's interesting about the Theracane. I never knew Brookstone sold sex toys! 😁 I looked at their website and they have a video showing it being used to massage various areas, but the areas reached by anal insertion were conspicuously missing! 😁

I'm not going to tell my husband about it because I don't want to be replaced by something made of plastic, metal and/or wood. I know he'll keep me around as long as I perform a service he can't perform himself!

Seminal vesicle stimulation does feel good. I've never seen anything hinting at health benefits, so when I go for that I just have to accept that I'm kinky and a little twisted. I'm getting more and more OK with that. I like it all, anal, prostate and seminal vesicle stimulation. I'd love to have my wife try and get a bit higher even, but she's not comfortable with that yet.

Susie - if you want a discussion on internal Theracane use you can look at A Headache in the Pelvis. Even those authors don't have the balls to discuss using it for fun, though. It's all about pelvic floor dysfunction and pelvic floor massage.

You should know well enough that Doc (and any man with sense) will choose his partner over butt-jerking with a toy any day. Warm fingers and hands sliding inside you, someone you love caressing your deepest recesses... there's no contest. Even if you're using a toy to do it it's still so much better with the person you love.