Well it seems as if my gynecologist has given me a clean bill of health as are those in my little circle of friends who have also checked out clear of any STD's and such. I am trying to think of a name to call my friend the gynecologist and maybe I shall call her Dr. Betty in honour of Betty Dodson.
After work and her office hours I went to her for my checkup and exchanged pleasantries as she gathered her necessary items for my examination. There was the obligatory height and weight measurements and her quizzing me about any illnesses in the recent past as such. She explained to me that she would be giving me a proctoscopy instead of my usual anoscopy since it had been a little while since the had a look at my a little higher up. She was telling me this as she laid out her instruments and as I was removing everything below my waist and I declined the paper gown she was offering me. I never use one with her because it is usually after regular business hours when she accommodates me. We went to high school together and we became friends and were apart when we were off to our different universities eventually finding our way back to our home town.
She asked me about my diet before this appointment and I told her I hadn't eaten since at least 24 hours and maybe more except for some soup and fluids consisting of water and tea and not much else. She asked me if I had taken any laxatives as preparation and I told her I had not but I had an enema earlier this morning and a bowel movement about midafternoon that was 'productive'. She asked me if I believed that I had voided completely and I honestly did not know and told her that if she felt an enema would be in order to make sure that I was agreeable to such. She went to her supply cabinet and retrieved a disposable 1500 ml clear enema bag and I offered to fill it for her as she finished setting up her instruments. But first she took a swab of my rectum and placed it in a container and into a tray.
I filled the enema bag about 2/3's full and Dr. Betty was finished with her preparations and I held the bag as she took the cap off of the pre lubed tip and I leaned over the examination table as she inserted it into my bum. We have done this several times before and we chatted away about working with the public as she was giving me my enema. We are comfortable with each other and she would ask me how my enema was going and would either raise or lower the bag as we talked. She always seems to comment as to how I am very comfortable with having an enema administered to me and I told her I was an old hand with them and did not mind them.
Dr. Betty knows of my sexual history and I am open with her about it and not ashamed or timid about answering any of her questions. I told her at present, I have vaginal sex with my husband and six other men, three of whom are fairly regularly while the other three are only when the opportunity arises. As to anal sex I told her that my husband has me anally about once a month, if that, and I have friend that I engage in anal sex sometimes two times a month but it just depends on our schedules and such. As to oral sex I have one that I go down on at least twice a week and two others maybe once a month or every other month. And as to oral sex I do go down on three women but those are infrequent but do count as far as oral sex is concerned.
She asked me how many times I engage in sex of any kind and I had to admit that I don't usually keep count and I supposed that I have about three or four sexual encounters a week maybe a little less. She then asked me if I masturbate and that I do have a good idea of the frequency because it is at least once a day as a quick release but not so much a full blown rubbing one off. I told her that I am more of the stress relief masturbator using the corner of my grand desk most often. As she and I are friends I asked her about her sex life and I know it is not something she would share with a 'regular' patient but we sometimes went on double dates together.
We finished my enema and as we waited for it to work its way with me, she said that she has sex with her husband at least once a week because they schedule it with each other. She said that really worked for them and it was something she looked forward to as did he. In addition to that they will try to have a 'date night' when their schedules permit and while she will go down on him it is not a frequent thing for them and I asked her about him going down on her. She said that is a very rare occurrence and asked me if I had much experience with that. I said that the friend I go down on most often will return the favour and that he was quite good at it.
And then as I was through with getting, holding, and then releasing my enema and the results were satisfactory, it was time for my proctoscopy and she had me get on the exam table and onto my left side with my knees drawn up. She put on her gloves and lubed up my anus and worked it just inside of my rectum before gently sliding it into me. She explained to me what she was doing and asked me if, when engaging in anal sex, I used lubrication. I told her of my use of lube shooters with water soluble lubricant injected directly into my rectum. She said that it look as though what I was doing was working and did I use enemas prior to the anal sex. I told her almost all of the time and told her that since my partners are regulars that we did not use condoms for the most part. She said that while she could tell that I had somewhat frequent anal sex, I was in good shape and better off than some of my earlier times she had seen me.
Then came time for me to roll onto my back and place my feet in the stirrups for her to have a look at my pussy. She asked me if I douched and I said that I do not and only shower and bathe my vulva and dab away any semen or other fluids after fucking. I told her that I let the old girl air out as much as possible and then I will wear cotton panties or something new to me, bamboo fabric underwear. She said she had heard of them and wanted to know what I thought of them and I said that my first experiences with them was favourable and they seemed to keep me drier and a little more airy. I have washed them several times and they seem to be holding up quite well and I may buy more in the near future. She then took a swab of my vagina and then a bit of a swipe deep and along about my cervix which I did not enjoy, I endured. She then worked her way out and swabbed my labia and marked them and put them in their little containers.
She looked around in the old girl and said that I seemed to be lubricating well enough and asked me if I was a bit aroused and that it was normal if I was. I told her I was a bit aroused and she said that it helped her get a better look at my inner workings as opposed to some women being deathly afraid or embarrassed by the procedures. I told her we were both too old for such modesty as she felt about my vulva and all those things taking up space down there. She did briefly brush against my clitoris and she apologized but she needn't have because well, just because.
Her last stop was my mouth and she was well advised not to probe too deeply with that sodding tongue depressor because I do have a gag reflex of epic proportions. She asked me if I swallowed and I said indeed I did and she looked a bit further into the back of my throat. Then there was that sodding swab at the back of my throat and she's lucky I didn't turn that bloody thing into a high speed projectile.
And as we were having a check up of me, I removed my sweater and bra and she did a breast exam as well as under my arms, the base of my neck and up under my jaw. She also listened to my lungs and palpated my abdomen and my pelvic region. That bit about breathe in and let it out slowly as she listened to my lungs from the back.
And then were were done and she told me that everything looked to be in good shape and asked if any of my sex partners regularly tested for STD's and such. I told her that she has seen and tested the women I have sex with and they had given me permission to disclose their names to her which I did and produced written permission slips of those who live here. She said that she would contact me with the results of her tests when she got them, which was today, and it was a clean bill of health.
She's a good doctor and one that I trust and with whom I credit for saving the life of a dear friend when he had some problems with his health. As he is one of my sexual partners, she did ask me how he was doing and I told her that he seemed to be doing fine, just a bit of stress at the moment. As I said, she is a good doctor and did not comment on anything to me about how he or my women friends results were and she kept their confidentiality.
When we had been speaking about my sexual history and practices, we were doctor patient, but she didn't hesitate to speak to me about her sexual habits and practices as one friend to another. She also used to be involved with my first ever woman back in my youth, by the name of Sarah. We have her in common and Sarah had both of us for some time until we left for university and became all the wiser of her. And we did go on double dates and spoke of our times and she is down to earth and someone I trust.
I highly respect her as a physician, a woman, and friend and I do trust her with my life. And yes I do find her attractive and I believe she finds me attractive as well, but it is a relationship we have where we do not want to complicate what there is between us.
And as it is late, I have been with @Cedar ❤️ this night and will write about our time together when time permits.