I’m not sure this is the right place to post this topic …
I’m looking for some good tips for a BDSM scenario to surprise my girlfriend.
FYI: we have done some BDSM play earlier, noting to extreme
My idea is to catch her by surprise. After she comes home from work, there will be an instruction letter on the table for here with all the steps she needs to do before I come home.
My goal is that she is fully ready (bound to the bed when I get home)
These are the steps I already have in mind:
- Leave the door unlocked and go upstairs
- Get yourself cleaned and ready for some action ;-)
- Put a small butt plug in your ass (anal play is still early stage)
- Put on the lingerie set that I got ready for here (stocking and garter belt)
- Put the foam eartips in (the kind that are used in construction – for full silence)
- Put on the arm and leg cuffs (kind with Velcro and chain buckle)
- Go to the bedroom and lay on the bed (still not sure in what position?, ass and pussy accessible)
- Fasten your leg cuffs to the loops in the rope I put in place (spread open)
- Put on a blind fold
- Fasten your arms to the other loops in the rope I put in place (spread open)
She now is fully bound, can’t hear or see a thing, and is fully exposed.
Now comes the fun stuff for me … sins she did not lock the door, I want here to think that maybe someone else might be coming in the house and plays with here. (how can I make this as realistic as possible?)
- For starters I would keep here in that position for a little while not knowing I’m already looking at here. Just to get here a bit nervous.
- I can put on gloves and start toughing here …
- I know she reads a lot of erotic books about vampires, werewolves, dragons, … and I know it is one of here fantasies. So some kind of big penis sleeve with a dragon texture kind of thing could also be fun. And maybe would get here confused about who is in the room (not my penis she feels)
What else can I do to give her a good time and play a little with her head, not frightening here too much of course?
Already thanks for your kinky thoughts!