Ladies, did you ever talk about ANAL sex with your mom?

@Dita

Thank you very much for sharing this.

she turned red as a beet and acted like she didn't hear me. ... A couple of weeks later in one of those mother daughter talks, she finally discussed anal intercourse.

Could please give us some further details? She obviously was surprised and very embarrassed at first. Did she try to somehow "justify" to you that she was engaging in anal intercourse? Because I think this kind of sex was more or less a taboo at that time. Or did she give some hints why she was doing it, for example that she may find it pleasurable for herself or to please your father or because she did not want vaginal sex during her period? Did your grandmothers, sister, aunts or female cousins ever talked about anal sex, too? Did your mom give you some practical advice how to anal sex the best way or something? Or did she say that you don't have to be afraid of it? If your mother is anal erotic, too, at which age did she discover it?

@enamelpeter

Anal sex was practiced much more by previous generations as a means of birth control.

Anal wasn’t rare at the time Dita’s mother was sexually active. It’s probably not practiced as much now because of the state of birth control gadgets and medications.

@Real_Screamer

You may be right. But I'm not sure. Remarkably, in the 1970's some sex educations books for married couples mentioned anal intercourse as variant of sex life, like for example Claude and Dorothy Nolte. And the Nolte's were not the only ones at that time. However, it seems to be at least that very most people didn't talk openly about this topic even when they practiced it by themselves. There's a reason why her mother turned red when Dita asked her. And, as Dita also mentioned, in general her mother was quite open about sex. She even bought her daughter a vibrator. However, I'm always interested to hear or read regal life stories from real people.

@Dita A very interesting recollection! Did she by chance explain if she did it to please her husband, or because she actually liked it?

My mum is fairly relaxed about sex , she and my dad used to be hippies but even so, that would be a step too far for me lol

Definitely not !!

I do talk with my mother about anal sex she is very into anal herself

Most definitely not! My mom was a very private person when it came to subjects such as sex (anal or vaginal). I learned much of what, at the time, I knew from my girlfriends!

Deb