Harnesses

My girlfriend and I are in a sub-dom relationship. She bought me a butt plug-cock ring harness with wrist restraints that I have to wear a lot. I had been wearing butt plug a lot for her. At first she had me wear her thongs to hold them in place and then we moved up to panty girdles. Then she got the harness and it works best to keep the plug held tightly in place. Sometimes she adds ankle restraints. The most recent leather item is a leather harness that holds a butt plug in place. Its attached in front to a chastity device....a metal cock cage that attaches to a cockring and then is locked. The harness straps attach front and back to the special cock ring. I have to wear the cock cage pretty much all the time but when she unlocks it and takes it off for me to jerk off in front of her, the cock ring always stays on. If we go out she usually makes me wear it and often it shows through my pants. If she decides to unlock me the cock ring always stay on.

You are soooo lucky...

Rob83, yes, lucky man indeed. Can you help me with a purchase? I am a straight male but take a lot of enemas and wear several butt plugs a lot. Can you recommend one of the harnesses you wear (don't need wrist restraints on it) to act as a good plug holder (i.e. to help firmly hold in my plugs so they are in as deep and immobile as possible? I have major erection problems, so don't need the cock ring part of it, though if I can just ignore the ring that would be fine. What do you suggest?

Thanks,

Eric

My husband likes making a rope harness on me. He has a couple of them ready to go with a couple of well placed knots starting in the center of the 100 foot ropes so the harness is easy to start and stays symmetrical.

I was just recently in the tack shop buying a halter for my horse. My imagination certainly runs a bit wild with the smells in there. As a kid there was a shoe repair shop in the small village that I lived in. It always had "the smell" of leather. That never leaves a soul.

I have a locking plug harness. We got it from Mr S Leather in San Francisco. It has 3 locks one for each side of waist strap, and one for back strap that goes from bottom crotch area through butt slit to waist strap. They also have different size plates you can get for plugs with no flared base. I wear it with larger plugs to keep them in.