The Spas with Private Rooms

I've been to a few and haven't yet seen a rectal douche area set aside in the shower room. The ideal would be toilet fixtures equipped with bidets. A good quality bidet can be used to irrigate the rectal cavity and cleanse the perianal area. Warm, filtered and soapy water is infinitely better than toilet paper. The objective is to wash away waste, not smear it around. In the meantime, I rely on a douche bulb to clean my rectum, followed by a soap and water scrub to my anus. Then I am ready for penetration by a well-lubricated penis.

If most bottoms put the care into cleanliness that you do, i might actually BE tempted to try anal sex. Kudos to you for being that way.

cadet happy said

. . . . A good quality bidet can be used to irrigate the rectal cavity . . . .

Who makes that bidet? I would love to try or buy one.

In our house we have had Kohler bidets and changed them over to American Standard bidets. We presently have two American Standard bidets, I'm talking about REAL bidets, not the crazy toilet seats. We have one in our bathroom and another one in the bathroom our two daughters share. We like the American Standard because you can have the water flow through the rim to warm it up before sitting on it and turning on the spray. NONE of the bidets we ever had would spray into the anus to fill the rectum.

I travel to Japan, Korea, and China often. Recently, one hotel had toilets with the "bidet" seats that were strong enough to get water into my rectum. I do not remember the brand, it was NOT one recognizable as marketed in the US. I have not experienced any of the ubiquitous Toto seats that had that much pressure.