Harness/reins

I have some questions for you all. I have always loved the idea of harnesses and reins. I would like a purple harness the buckles in the back. This would have 2 shoulder straps that come down just below my underarms, a chest strap, and a triple crotch strap(two straps between the legs like on a climbing harness, then another strap between those two)

I would like either leather or nylon. What about you guys?

A harness with a set of reins attached would be great but I would want cuffs attached to restrain hands. There are very similar ones made by a guy named Wilf for a while. I don't know if he is still in business or not.

I have a number of sets of diffferant colors and styles

Luvs It.

He added a different styles since I had last seen his web page. I love the Danish Style Leather Harnesses he has now. Thanks for the link.

I have been to reincheck, I love their harness, and idea of the wrist restraints.

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If you're not sure you'd like a harness, then you need one 😄

I have one of the Danish harnesses, and I really like that one. I plan to get another one soon in a light color, as my last pair was black.

Luvs It.

My mom tells me that used reins on me to tie me to the clothes line so that I could run outside but not go out of the yard and in the stores because I would wander off alone and get lost. Maybe with all the the pedophiles out there it's not abad idea when you in the store/mall to use them on wandering kids so you can keep an eye on them

My mom used them on me when I was young, because I use to escape from the backyard, even with a fence! 😄 They had a zipper in back and could not be gotten out of. She got tired of the neighbors calling to tell her they saw me run passed free! So, in a harness I went, and a long tether to keep me close. This was also was used in the carriage to keep me from falling out.

I would love to have a harness and reins that would lock on then let some one control me as they like

Http://adult-baby-shop.de/ is a good place to look for harnesses and such as well as lots of other things, Miss has gotten a few items from there, with a little work She has made them all locking. when it it, i can not escape.

I love the idea of being harnessed. it sounds to me like it would be fun you should search sights like darknusery

I love the idea of being in a harness, the old leather type with the baby motif on the front, as these were the type that were common when I was a little kid, you can still get these for adults from a company here in UK called reincheck I have never favoured the use of croch straps with a harness though as I dont ever recall this being an attachment to any real child harnesses that I have seen, but I could be wrong.

Must wear multiple diapers under Noisy plastic locking frilly ruffled 'Pink' diaper cover !

Must wear locking (collar) dress with short hem line - all that much to see the diaper cover underneath. Or very short 'T' shirt that can not be tucked into the diaper cover waist band Rein/Harness must be locking and have matching mittens that also lock on ! And the "BIG MUST HAVE" lots of jingle bells ! Must keep track of Sissy Baby movements at all times ! Locks can be keyed or combination either way Sissy will not be able to use the keys or dial the combination; remember the locking mittens with jingle bells ! And if Sissy walks about then locking mary jane shoes with frilly ruffled ankle socks and more bells !!!!!

You can enjoy your fantasy but you are not going to go quietly !

I have a custom made pink leather harness with lots of bells. When I had a girlfriend some years ago, she would lock me into it and take me out to parties. Yeth it gave me a wonderfull security to her when she did it.

Love & Submit

Sissy Baby Angelica

I would love to have and wear pink leather reins with my name on the panel at the front

I would love to be taken out in reins with my mum or aunt holding them and people staring thinking what a bad child i was and me trying to hold my dress down so nobody saw my padded state encased in frilly plastic baby knickers

I like my harness but not used it out in public. I have had a wrist link on in public I was at the zoo with friends. At the time one off her children had to wear it so we swooped ends I had the children’s end he had the adult side .

He didn’t mind using it then and it was more appropriate that way asi was and am diapered

I would love to try wearing reins especially going out with someone holding them

I've never tried anything like that. But it sounds interesting.

My mom had one for me when I was really young and it always made me feel safe. She stopped using it around 6 or 7. I knew I was too old for it by then but part of me missed it.

In high school I hated being dragged around to stores and sometimes I wandered off to window shop on my own. It was never far enough to get in serious trouble but not close enough to avoid getting "the look". One time I guess mom had enough and she started ragging on me for being irresponsible and why is it so hard for me to stay close. In my most disrespectful teenage voice, I said maybe you should put me back in a harness. She got really quiet and I thought I was going to get spanked for sure. But she called my bluff and the next time we were out and I wandered away, she pulled out a special needs harness and put it on me. I was so embarrassed I wanted to melt into the floor. She only used it that one time because I never had a problem staying close by after that.

Years later it stuck with me and I kept thinking about it. I remembered feeling safe as a kid and how if I wasn't so embarrassed as a teen she would have kept using it. It's a silly thought because it was meant to be a punishment and it wouldn't have worked if I wasn't embarrassed. Last year we were at the mall and I wandered away to look at something without telling her. I'm an adult so obviously I don't need permission to go look at something on my own. When I came back she joked how I'm still doing that all these years later and I joked about maybe she should use the harness. We went on with our shopping trip and had a good time.

Later that night mom called me downstairs and the harness was on the dinner table. She still had it and got it out to pick on me for what I said earlier. But I kept thinking about it and how I wished she was serious. A couple weeks later I finally worked up the courage to ask her to use it again. She was a little freaked out but we talked through it and I explained how it made me feel safe when I was little. The next trip to the mall when we got out of the car she pulled out the harness and offered to put in on me. I should have said no because it's ridiculous at my age. But I let her put in on and we walked around. It was both super embarrassing and a rush.

Now it's normal for her to put me in it before we go to crowded places. She doesn't even really give me a choice anymore, she just pulls it out and tells me to step in. I get threatened with a spanking if I don't cooperate. The embarrassment has mostly faded and now I feel... safe I guess? There's just something about knowing I can't wander off anymore and she has to go with me like a child.

I don't think leather or nylon would be all that comfortable .

Today's more or less "state of the art" in approved harness/restraints is neoprene ,soft ,flexible,conforming ,can be worn day and night without injury or sores and can be gotten really wet or dirty without worry ,machine washable and stays looking. New.

I wear multiple harness ,toes,ankles,knees,pelvis and torso in my wheelchair in 2 weeks my current ones will be 6 years old and look brand new . If it's insurance/Government approved and paid for special nees

ds/disabled person you can count on it being safe for more average type uses ,I have more than tested mine in serious accidental ways.

My mom used one on me until I was 8 yrs old. I had a tendency to wonder off when I was younger.

I find Jenny M story interesting because I had a similar experience . I too wore a harness up to around age 8Both my parents worked so over the summer I stayed with an aunt. She had 2 girls,one my age and the other a bit older

When I was 12 I started to wander off on shopping trips,walks,and fairs. I recall my aunt saying”Billy if you don’t stop running, I’m getting you a leash! I promised to stop, but I just couldn’t. Long story short, she had a harness made for me. It was a brown leather one which buckled in the back. I was shocked and pleaded with her but to no avail.

I was so embarrassed for several reasons. First wearing the harness in public, second the teasing from my cousins.

Even in the harness, I could not control myself. I constantly tugged and pulled to the point that one time she pulled me back so hard, I fell on my bottom.

My cousins loved teasing me and begged to hold my leash. Thank goodness it was not allowed.

Sometimes I was leashed to the shopping cart. Often my aunt would shorten upon my leash to keep better control.

I hated that.

Then there were the stares and remarks. Clerks would say” He seems a bit old for a leash!”

The ultimate embarrassment was a trip to the state fair. We rode the bus and then spent the entire day at the fair.

My aunts sister joined us with her two kids, one a girl about 7 and the other 3. The 3 year old wore a harness as well.

It was the longest day of my life.

It turns out I was ADHD . But in those days, the diagnosis didn’t exist.

So I can share your feelings. I only had to wear it that one summer. Somehow as I got older I learned to control myself.

But the threat of the leash was ever present.

I like the idea of being harnessed with a leash in private but never in public. I do not agree with a harness and leash on a child. Use a stroller, it's just as safe

I like the idea of being harnessed with a leash in private but never in public. I do not agree with a harness and leash on a child. Use a stroller, it's just as safe

Everyone is entitled to do as they see fit, to keep their children safe. It’s your own business, what method suits you best, and what works best for your children. That being said, what do you do, if your child wants nothing to do with sitting in a stroller? Sometimes it’s not practical, or fair to strap them into one. And, sometimes it’s better for children to get exercise, and walk on their own. But, not all kids stay close by, no matter what you say, or try to impress upon them about any danger. Especially, if you’re dealing with children who have special needs, even slight ones. A harness and leash, is only as bad as what you want to invasion it as being. After all, a crib is not a tortuous cage, it’s merely a necessary safe place for your baby to sleep.

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I wear a harness with reins most of the time I go out of the house it’s always under my outside jacket.

I do this because it’s my choice to wear them but it’s not generally expected that someone that looks normal will wear them.

But my family and friends know this and how to grab the reins if needed.

Apart from that I also have a wrist link for emergency.

I always have to hold the shopping cart if I going shopping with them as well.

I do wander off all the time and that’s why I’m wearing them so they can just reach up under my jacket and grab them

As a jack, I was regularly put in a harness. It was made of very sturdy plastic with metal rings and they fixed it tightly to me. I resisted for a long time because I was so ashamed. But our governess insisted strictly.

Now I have a harness made of sturdy leather that I like to wear at home.

Leashes and reins are great at home in private but not in public ever