Why does MedFet Arouse you?

I've only briefly looked at the topic list on MedFet, so if you want to direct me to a particular search to discuss this, or move to another thread, let me know. I have ~4-6 distinct kinks, depending on how you count them - rubber, sneakers, anal play and enemas, D/s, and mild/moderate bondage. I'm a real life physician, but not aroused by MedFet. If I had a woman partner who wanted me to examine her because she liked MedFet, I'd be happy to do it for her but still the kink itself doesn't work for me. I once was invited into a threesome by a professional couple in which the wife asked for an exam, enema and PIV sex while the husband watched. I enjoyed being with this couple for an evening and really enjoyed giving her the enema and subsequent PIV, but the exam part was somewhere between boring and mildly interesting.

So I'm really interested in what MedFet exams (play or in a real doc's office) make you feel like and exactly what arouses you about this kink. Now, this may be as difficult as it would be for me to explain why I get so intensely aroused by a rubber suit or an enema, but I'm still interested in how this works.

Thanks,

Eric

What one feared most in childhood can become a fetish later in life - buttock injections in my case.

Having grown up in the era of penicillin shots, I hated what I deemed the childish humiliation of injections in my bare bottom, especially when I had to bend over the receptionist's lap for her to watch me get them back there. When sitting (or trying to sit) on the tender site afterwards, however, I experienced a curious arousal and even began to fantasise about the experience when no shots were imminent. Ever since adolescence I have been aroused by anticipating and even actually getting painful buttock injections from beautiful but strict nurses.

What arouses me about medfet exams?

First of all, I've never had an in-person play exam. I've written medfet stories, and done some cyber play exams, but that's it. As far as real exams are concerned, there are several aspects that have always excited me about them.

In no particular order:

1) The disregard for social norms. What I mean is that under normal circumstances, you wouldn't remove some or all of your clothing and stand in front of a total stranger for an intimate visual and hands-on inspection. That's not socially acceptable (at least with a total stranger unless it's in a sexual context). But when you receive an exam, that's exactly what you're doing. You've been told all your life that it's wrong to do that, but there you are in the confines of the exam room with a total strange doing exactly that.

2) Loss of control. This is a big one for me. Everyone likes to feel like they're in control over most aspects of their life. But there you are, being told what to do, what clothing to remove, how to stand, sit, lay back, etc. You must obey the commands from this total stranger,

3) Embarrassment. You're completely (or almost) nude while your examiner is fully clothed. That's embarrassing. Add a nurse chaperone, or conduct a group exam with other patients at the same time (think group sports physical), and the embarrassment factor is really ratcheted up. Multiple people in the room while you're nude. That's exciting. And get into an embarrassing position (bent over or on all fours for a rectal/prostate exam) and the feeling is great.

4) Physical contact. This could be the touch of the examiner's hands as she wraps them around your throat, feeling your thyroid. Or the touch of the stethoscope as she moves it to different areas on your chest or back. Or the feeling of her index finger as it's inserted into your inguinal canal. Or the slippery coldness of the lubricant as she penetrates your rectum.

I suspect others might have similar feelings.

It's the fact that someone can be so private, so covered up, so shy, so quiet, and then be completely exposed and at the mercy of their doctor, letting him or her do whatever they want.

I think it's the "White Lab Coat Authority" paradigm. Remember that expirement that is taught in all college psych classes, where the person is told to keep pressing a button, and every time they do, the person on the other side of the wall screams? White Lab Coat guy standing behind the button-presser, telling him to keep going. And he does. It's an interesting experiment, and also a great lesson in ethics. My point, however, is the authority a doctor has over your body. You're uncomfortable, but we've always been told to follow doctor's orders.

Repressed, thank you for sharing that story. I had forgotten all about that study. There was also one similar done back I think in the late 1970's at one of our elite universities but instead of doctors it dealt with prisoners and guards. Both groups were classmates, but when regular people were put in charge and others were in a truly repressed situation, or at the others mercy things went a tad bit crazy.

Anyway, thanks for the share. By the way, if I don't follow my Doctors orders, I get my ass beat, lol. So I try my best these day..........to follow them lol.

Mashie

The Stanford Prison Experiment. Yep. We're conditioned to not question authority (well, most people are. I question authority all the time... LOL)

For me, it's arousing to be seen, exposed, examined, touched. Physical/Medical exams are all about that. Hence my MedFet

It centers around being the subject to be examined. Unlike a locker room or group showers or a nude beach where several people are nude at once, here you're the only one exposed, because you are an object to be examined. You are exposed, not because you happen to be getting changed or are skinny dipping with your friends, but because you are to be looked at and examined with a hands on approach. It's a CFNM or CMNM situation, where the attention is on the one with the exposed body.

If I'm wearing a gown, the doctor may manipulate it to access and expose certain parts of me at certain times. If i'm wearing underwear and it has come time in the exam for a hernia to be checked for, or a genital portion of the exam, the doctor may choose to manipulate my undergarment to expose me. It's this rare occurrence of someone manipulating cover or clothing, and feelings of anxiety and anticipation that come with it.

I'm sure this has been mentioned here, but here's my take on it anyway.

Medical fetish is a classic case of a power/control fantasy. Doctors are authority figures; we're taught from a young age to listen to them and to do what they say, even if we don't understand it. Doctors are also a special kind of authority; they are allowed to instruct us to undress, to take various positions, even to touch us in areas that we are told are private or personal. It's part of their job. There's also the objectification aspect; it's not uncommon for a doctor to treat their patients somewhat impersonally, which can be a major turn on to some people. And then there's the taboo element, on more than one level; it's against most social norms to simply undress and allow a total stranger to look at you and touch you, unless it was in a specifically sexual situation. Medical examinations are, of course, the exception to this, but they aren't sexual in and of themselves. By actively making an exam sexual, you have a sort of double-flip; taking a sexual experience (nudity etc.), making it non-sexual, then making it sexual again.

If you're already the kind of person who derives pleasure from control, playing the doctor role is a logical extension. Same with the patient, if they already have submissive tendencies.

I wouldn't call what I have a fetish, just a deep fascination and interest in how the societal norms that we follow so carefully in our everyday lives are set aside when we visit the doctor. No other stranger other than a doctor that we encounter through daily life can ask us if we're sexually active, what our bathroom habits are like, our weight, etc. And we certainly wouldn't allow anyone other than a doctor to touch us all over including our breasts, genitals, and anus.

In a nutshell, it's the paradox of participating in something that is universally accepted and unquestioned whose components are something that would be considered unacceptable taken out of the context of medical care.

This will sound crude, but as a straight male, there isn't any other situation in my life where I will willingly pull my pants down in front of a married man and let him touch my penis and squeeze my scrotum... When put in those terms, its wild to consider what we subject ourselves to as patients.

Don't really know why. I have had a med-fet for gynecology as long as I can remember. It probably started when I was about six of seven. My two sisters and I often played doctor. After listening to conversations my mother and her friends had about their trips to the doctor, we tried to mimic the descriptions of what we overheard. Although we really didn't know what we were doing, we knew that clothes came off when a proper examination was done. We pretended to operate and did examinations on various body parts including the private areas. Although curiosity was a large part of our games, my favorite part was "examining" my sisters' bodies. Now, many years later, my med-fet for gynecology is as strong as ever - if not stronger. Fortunately, my wife is also into med-fet. Playing doctor with her and listening to her discuss her various medical procedures, are still some of my favorite pleasures.

Ever since I was a little girl I used to fantasize about non-consent/consent situations. A medical exam can be that. I also just love to get serviced and a doctor has this position of servicing his patient. The patient trusts the doctor to only do what is best for the patient. This all can be easily turned to a sexual situation.

My personal bias is that I am turned on by med-fet scenarios for much the same reason I like strawberry rather than chocolate and prefer certain cars and music and colors over others. I just do! Came wired that way. I don't personally see the point in trying to understand absolutely everything about everything...certainly not about personal preferences. In the end it just doesn't add anything to my experience. Many others...maybe most...will disagree. There's room for all points of view.

It's definitely the social misuse of power, the sensations and the way I can subject my partner - often without question - to anything I feel necessary.

That and latex gloves are super hot.

There are many things that I find arousing about MedFet, and specifically gynecological examinations. First off, I enjoy that gynecological exams contradict what a female is taught when young. When young, females are indoctrinated to be discreet, modest, and discerning about making sure they are properly clothed and about being very discriminating with relationships before it is acceptable to be seen naked by others. Although a gynecologist has the eminence and privilege for a woman to be compliant stripping completely naked, and to receive no opposition to being able to inspect her breasts and internally explore all aspects of her genitalia. I enjoy how gynecological exams constitute an abandonment of mores and it’s required for the female to subject herself to allow a stranger to investigate and probe their normally guarded genitalia. I like the power nuances of gynecological exams where the female is told to maneuver herself into a position on the table and she is then required to spread her legs wide in the stirrups in order to be indecently exposed. My MedFet arousal about gynecological exams is as much about the power, as it is about the woman’s vulnerability as she succumbs to having a speculum and fingers inserted into her vagina and rectum laying there tolerating the experience and embarrassment of it all.

For me, it definitely spun out from a real-life fear that I had of gynecological examinations and a deep-seated modesty. I did not lose my virginity until I was 18 and six months later, I got married and avoided the gyn altogether for a couple of years into the marriage. The first time that I went to the doctor's office that even remotely required that I uncover my private areas, I had been complaining of constipation and was requesting The Pill. There was something about the MD's approach that was very off-putting and I didn't feel comfortable at all; she was actually condescending to me, which I did not appreciate well and I did not allow her to proceed.

Looking back on things, I was of course very immature, but there was a lot about that office visit that did not work for me. So naturally, I avoided returning to the doctor - any doctor - for about another year or so. Then, when I started to have reactions to something in the condoms we were using, whether it was the latex or the lube or the combination thereof, it became clear that I was going to have to "woman" up and go to the gynecologist for real. Before I did, though, I went online to "research."

At the time, I did not even realize that medfet was a thing. I kinda stumbled upon it when I was trying to learn everything I could about it. And, quite honestly, if it weren't for some of the medfet exams I read about online (there used to be a really good script on Doublemoon Paradise that was very intriguing to me) that relaxed me enough to consider going in to the actual gyn. It built from there. That said, anytime that I have been on the exam table, I have never actually been turned on by anything that has actually happened in the doctor's office. Curious, yes - turned on, no. In fact, I've had a couple of procedures through the years that I would rather not remember.

As for my medfet, I have not delved much into the actual world beyond having been an on and off again member here. I am a nurse in real life and one job that I used to have gave me access to some supplies that my husband and I tried - but he is not turned on by this like I am. I enjoy being catheterized very much. I have never been administered an enema or a suppository and it was so uncomfortable when I tried it myself I do not see the point in including that in my "dream exam" (though, of course, it is still in that scenario). For the most part, I watch an exam video from time to time when I am by myself and if it's a good exam which may or may not be vanilla+, I enjoy the effects that the visual of it has on me. And of course, I have a scenario in my head I would like to experience. Then again, if I was actually approached with the opportunity to do so IRL, sans my husband (because, since he gets nothing out of it, he is not part of the fantasy) - highly unlikely - would I actually participate? I would like to, but I don't know what I would say if I was faced with it in reality.

So to answer the question in a very round about way, it was a way to deal with my fears. And now, it's something that I enjoy privately.

I think it goes back to undressing in front of other people, knowing this is going to happen, and you'll be touched in many different ways, and looked at as close as possible both inside and out. It's being, usually, the only one undressed in a room of other people. And, it's been the difference in how I'll be asked to undress, in stages, or down to underwear from the beginning, or (at childhood exam,) everything off except my socks, or just completely naked. I love the uncertainty of it, but also the certainty that I will be asked to undress. Like others here, I remember how I'm asked, and who asks me. It's how different each exam may feel depending on how it's performed, and those other factors. I remember feeling more exposed when I wasn't totally naked, (like with only socks on, or maybe naked below the waist.) It's those feelings that are mostly only felt in this situation, which we only find ourselves in for these medical settings. And, I think it's being know in such an intimate manner by these people, who have the ability to do such important things for you. For me, the equipment and all that are only really of interest because they remind me of these situations, but not really because the equipment excites me itself. But, the memories of the procedures, and the nervousness and anticipation I felt, that stays with me and encourages fantasizing endlessly.

Aberrant Doc and Medical Test Subject said it all. I can't add anything else.

I used to be highly embarrassed to be naked in front of others, be it the doctor, guys in the high school shower, or a girlfriend (boy friends came later), and somehow that got eroticized. Now I feel excited and turned on by being naked in front of others and doctors, who are supposed to just check out problems, are a major turn on. Play doctors, who want to see arousal happen in various ways, especially, not so much real doctors; I see them for issues that aren't sexual so it doesn't come into play

I cannot conclusively answer WHY I‘m turned on by medfet but I can tell you WHAT arouses me about it. For me, it is the discrepancy between distance and proximity. You go to a doctor you usually don‘t know on a personal basis but you have to tell him/her stuff not even your partner may know about and you show him/her parts of your body you usually don‘t show people. Another thing for me is the power gap. Up to a certain point, a patient always has to submit to the doctor (even though a doctor may only act within the limits of the patient‘s consent).

What did it for me must've been the typical school doctor's examinations you're forced to undergo as you're a kid in Belgium. The doctor always examines both boys and girls; and it's actually quite embarrassing and apprehensive. So we'd all be sitting there in our underwear, and one after another we'd be called in for the physical, sometimes a boy, sometimes a girl, it varied. So as a boy I knew what they did, it got me curious to know what they do to girls.

So in the end, it's a bit of a fantasy of what a doctor under the guise of medical necessity can do or fiddle with female sex organs. On the other hand it's also a bit the embarrassment and the lack of control over the situation. I guess this firmly places it in the psychological corner because in the end the gynecologist is a figure of authority and the turn on is both my interest in female genitalia, but then also the submission and surrender of the patient.

Not sure if it's MedFet that I am interested in. I enjoy anal play, enemas, insertions etc. A lot of Medfet activities are associated with anal play - and there are a lot of others MedFet activities that don't interest me. Having my temp/BP/HR taken or stethoscopes wouldn't do much. I'd submit to a medical exam that is based on anal and genital play - as a means to an end. I'd prefer to have a mistress give me enemas, anal insertions, pegging etc. in a non-medical environment. Also would like doing the same to women!

I think for myself , it's the equipment, scrubs and clogs, lab coats. Being told to strip down to underwear and have a seat on the table. Even at a young age , loved stethoscopes , the sound of the heartbeat. Had an EKG done once and it hooked me for life. Watched a lot of tv where medical exam situations were involved started the fire and as I grew older and had the time and money to start a equipment collection and talk to like minded people kept stokin that fire . Nowadays scrubs and clogs always seem to catch my eye . The internet exploded the fantasy that much more with sites like this, YouTube, and couple other sites etc etc . Have not had many real time role plays , but have had a couple of special ones that will last awhile I must say

My medfet stems from having 2 hernia surgeries when I was very young, about 5 years old. It was something about how scary that experience was and the that so many doctors and nurses had to focus on my genitals at such a young age. Then puberty hit and my medfet went through the roof. The rest is history.

My medfet stems from having 2 hernia surgeries when I was very young, about 5 years old. It was something about how scary that experience was and the that so many doctors and nurses had to focus on my genitals at such a young age. Then puberty hit and my medfet went through the roof. [...].

That was exactly my experience, too, Medman, only my childhood operation was at age 4 for tonsils. It WAS scary for me, and also I felt 'abandoned' by my parents and 'invaded' by Dr Shannon and his team. So I grew up with a 'mouth fetish' and with the arrival of puberty it really took off. For example, I sought out medical textbooks. To see a nice mouth and throat is still a big thrill for me!

- Ken

The catalyst for my medical fetish is almost certainly being examined intimately when very young. I suspect I associated a pleasurable/embarrassing feeling with a doctor. This was suggested to me by @Caz who I reckon hit the nail right on the head.

It's hard to put it just in one word.

I guess this comes from a collection of memories and feelings. All that embarrassment and pleasure during exams that I experienced back when I was younger, the submission to someone's orders, all the control that doctors have over you during exams... All eventually led me to different fetishes, one of them is MedFet.

I agree with many of the other members posting to this thread; as to how it all began —my medical fetish began at an early age, probably about 5 or 6. Since a visit to the doctor 70 years back almost always involved being undresssed to one degree or another, being poked and prodded, usually a rectal temp, and a “shot” in the butt, friends and girl cousins were almost without exception fascinated by what took place at the doctors office, and loved to “play doctor.” That, coupled with the love/hate emotions of the dreaded enema from my Mom or one of her sisters further fueled my fetish. My fetish cooled a bit during teen years, although I’d sneak a nice warm enema when I was at home and alone. I really didn’t have much opportunity to pursue enemas with like minded females until I met a few massage therapists who said they believed in them for health purposes. Some enjoyed a sensual enema trade, other were a bit more “professional”. At present, fewer and fewer younger women seem to be aware of the pleasures of a long, carefully administered enema, giving or receiving. As @Julio90 says, it is difficult to put in one word, even several words.

For me it's the intimate space that is opened up and allowing the doctor to enjoy this aspect of their job. I once had a doctor that I felt very comfortable with. Over the several years that was seeing her she gave quite a few genital exams. All very professional of coarse. I almost always would get totally hard in her hand but there was never any overt masturbation, She eventually accepted a position out of state and on my final visit to her she said 'it was a pleasure to be my doctor".

For me it is having to.expose myself to strangers and having control over another human being