Wearing diapers in a bar

Well about 3 weeks ago some friends and me, went to go try a new bar. A kareoke bar if you will anyways, There was a cute short haired waitress in there, that I had been noticing alot. Now I was pretty well padded, a cheaper disposable, followed by a pretty thick stuffer, and one attends. I had a longer shirt on so you only saw a lil' bit of my butt. Well this cute waitress, while I was singing came behind me and smacked my ass, kind of hard, of course I couldn't feel it like that. She had to have known, anyways I went over to her, still in shock and asked her if she just smacked my ass, she said, yes, she sure did. I said, why did you do that, she said, she was bored. So I tried talking to her more, thinking we were breaking the ice, at one point I asked for her number, but she shot me down quick, and said, nope. I should of said, could you tell I was wearing a diaper? Hun' Well I didn't get her number, but that smack was enough for me that night, I got really turned on when she did that, it was also fun not knowing for sure whether she knew I was diapered.

If she noticed and thats why she shot you down she is an uptight judgemental person who is not worth knowing anyway

She probably did noyice and thats why she smacked your ass!!! just to make sure and now she knows and dont worry shes at home thinking about it right now probably and you got her attention so relax and go again in a week or two and i guarantee she will be more freindly and probably ask ya about your diapers just be honest its kinda of a curriosity killed the cat type deal shes curious and wants to know more about why and who you are

Girls are funny like that...

I go to clubs at times pimpin my pampers as usual and it's quite obvious that I'm wearing a diaper.

Anyway what an ice breaker 😶

Do we have a little bit of a double standard here? I mean most of us guys like a little attention from the opposite sex.

But if girls get annoyed. They call it sexual harassment. See how far you'd get by slapping a waitress on the butt?

I'm really not up on bar etiquette these days but I don't think waitresses are supposed to molest the customers unless they're interested. So I'd go back another time and chat her up a bit.

Fun! Too bad you didn't feel it, you could have smacked her ass back when she went by! 😎

Wearing diapers is a good thing in a bar because you can drink as much as you want and do have to worry.

But when eventually you leak - that's another story

Then you ought to ask me, sitting only a few meters from you, for a diaper change 😉

With some of my friedns, we wear diapers in bar... it's good when you drink more than you need.. 😃 and also you know the problems in some bar's that you will find there very messy toilet...

I dont go out to the bars and clubs i might go to a pub for a meal or a drink i do wear my diapers and it is so much easyer i dont have to worry about find a toilet i go in my diaper.

On my 21 birthday I did I went out with my boss and a few of her friends she is a incontinet woman so it was fun diapers sere do make peeing a lot easer

I was at a bar once standing talking to some friends wile wearing a diaper when out of the blue a girl walks by and grabs my ass on her way to the bathroom. When she came back and sat down with her friend they both were looking my way smiling

If I had to venture a guess that would be more rational than some that I've read here, I'd say that you may have had slight potential in her eyes but killed it with one or two things: The fact that you questioned her about slapping your ass sounds like a socially inept conversation attempt and borderline creepy with a hidden agenda (which there was, no denying); then there's the fact that you were wearing a diaper that she probably only discovered upon giving you a swat and then decided, "No thanks, not for me."

The second, and even more likely scenario is that she was simply bored, like she said, you were in a karaoke bar where people have a tendency to get a little wild, in the midst of the high energy and drunken excitement she wanted to see what she could get away with. Most girls working in bars have had to put up with probably the same amount of shit they do when girls come into these type of forums, they start to callous after a while and consider swatting your ass for their entertainment not such a big deal considering the other night they were harassed non-stop. Get my drift?

I believe it's not illegal to wear diapers whilst at work although one must be care-full because sometimes it may get you fired if your employer finds out, I work at a bar abroud and spend many hours standing up whilst serving customers and taking orders for drinks.

Although in my case I have to wear diapers due to my continued disabilities which are life-long and make me partially incontinent and I can't always make it to the toilets on time so having a bit of protection between the legs is bouth a reassuring and soothing thing that can help me to live my life to the fullest extent and not to worry about embarrassing accidents or problems again for the day.

I usually have a rucksack with my spair diapers in it which I keep hidden away from praying eyes and I think since becoming dependant on diapers for only the second time I my life has improved the way I have come to live because they are something that I have gotten used to having under my clothing.

And although most days I am dry in terms of avoiding any accidents I can't take the chance because I have little to no control over my waywerd bladder due to permanent and irriversable damage to my nervs controlling it due to past epilepsy that I fortunately don't suffer from anymore.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888

@Chinababe889 I don't think any employer would fire someone over them wearing diapers as most people wear them for need and to fire someone over that would be a lawsuit waiting to happen

I've gone to a bar a few times in diapers. Well, not really diapers, but a pair of thick adult-sized "heavy wetter" training pants and plastic pants over those, then shorts / pants / sweat pants over everything. Nobody noticed that I was wearing them. And nobody (including the friends I was with) seemed to notice that they each got up 3-4 times to go pee but I never once did. Wink wink.

I wear nappies whatever I am doing and wherever I go so yes if I'm in the bar I'll be in a nappy.

I have a regular bar that I go to, I've gone there for years and know all of the staff and most of the regulars. Every year they have big parties on Halloween and New Year's Eve. I've always been really tempted to show up on Halloween night wearing thick diapers, plastic pants, a baby onesie and a pacifier on a ribbon around my neck. On NYE I would look more like the New Year's baby. Either way I'd be well-diapered, in a situation where the nature of the holiday would justify it.

I really think they'd all say "Wow that's a great costume!" and get a kick out of it. After sitting around drinking for a while, I'm sure I could get away with "accidentally" wetting my diapers and everybody would have a good laugh over this. They'd never know that I was getting off on what I was wearing and the humiliation.

But I don't think my wife would like for me to do this. She's always allowed me to wear my diapers and baby clothes but she only wants me to do this with her. Also I think she'd be wary of anyone who saw me there telling her "I saw your husband on Halloween in his baby outfit!" So, alas, it will probably never happen.

It is kind of funny to run into this post, I just posted in another part of the discussion page about being caught in diapers at a tiki bar

Having been required to wear diaper due to urinary incontinent for over 20 years, I have gotten used to wearing diapers and don’t overly worry about who notices the fact that I am diapered, in fact I make the best of the fact that I have to wear diapers. Most of the time, I am in a Dry 24/7 or cloth diaper and plastic pants with just shorts and a T shirt on.

This past weekend, weather was beautiful in Florida and I decided to go to a local tiki bar on the Intercoastal Waterway. I applied a good coat of baby lotion followed by a dusting of baby powder and changed into one of my thick and trusty dry 24/7 with blue carousel nursery print plastic pants covered by cargo shorts and a T shirt.

When I arrived, the place was packed and parking was hard to find. I stepped up to the bars, said my hellos and ordered a drink. I have to say, the first one went down easily and I had forgot or ignored the fact I was in such a thick diaper when I went for another drink. I was just over a half through with the second one when a friend Rachel walked up to the bar. Every time I see her, she is always happy and full of life. I have to say had it been in different times I would have made a move for her. She greeted everyone with a hug and a kiss as I went back about my business of relaxing and people watching. About that time, Rachel came up to me and asked where her hug was as she gave me a kiss on the cheek and said "you smell nice baby" I only heard baby and blushed as she patted me on my bottom and whispered "you might need a change soon."

I stood there blushing and scared wondering how she figured out I was wearing diapers. I started to worry that she might tell everyone as she walk

ed away towards the bathroom. I thought to myself, what I would say next and how I would explain my overly thick diapers due to incontinence to this beautiful women.

I saw her coming back out of the bathroom and head straight towards me. She walked up and looked at me and said, “I always wondered why you had such a cute puffy bottom and hardly ever went to the bathroom. She continued with her curiosity and asked if I was really in a diaper as she lifted the hem of my shirt, squeezed my thick diaper and patted my plastic pants. Hoping no one was watching, I replied, obviously I was and I asked if she wouldn't tell anyone. She told me “It will be our little secret for now.”

I told her I was incontinent from an accident and had to wear diapers. She continued to lift my shirt and pull my shorts out, when she noticed my blue nursery print plastic pants sticking out the top of my shorts and asked “why are you wearing baby pants then?” I told her, they are not baby pants, they are just plastic pants. She laughed and said,” I’ve never seen an adult in baby blue plastic pants with little characters on them, so they must be baby pants!” I pulled my shirt back down and asked her to stop as someone may be watching.

She continued to ask "do you use your diapers for their intended purpose? Do you need to go right now? Do you need a change yet? I was floored, a little embarrassed and nervous all at the same time. By the time she was done asking her questions I noticed drinks had gone into effect on me and I had to pee adding to my already wet diaper. I couldn't lie to her now about using my diaper so I told her I did have to go and I do use them for what they are made for. I added, “in fact, I am already wet.” She giggled and got a huge smile on her face.

Some people, heard and saw what she was doing, but luckily no one I knew heard every word or saw her checking my diaper. We stood out at the tiki bar saying hi to friends as she kept patting my diapered bottom and listening to it crinkle all the time smiling at me. She whispered in my ear, “You know your loving it, I can see your diaper starting to poke out in the front,” she was right, I was loving it!

By this time, I had enough to drink and was thoroughly soaked. I told Rachel I had to go home and change as I did not bring a spare on with me. Once again, she pulled the back of my shorts out to perform a diaper check as I prayed no one was looking. She snickered, patted my bottom again and said, “I think somebody has a very wet diaper and needs his little diaper changed.” I paid my bill as well as Rachel’s. I turned to say goodbye to her as she gave me a hug and squeezed the back of my diaper while saying “you better bring spare diapers with you next time or I will tell everyone what a sissy diaper boy you are!” I quickly walked away thinking what had I got myself into this time?

DLBiker - You might have to take Rachel in hand, her suggestive playfulness could say she has her own lil "secrets"

I gotta agree it sounds like she is "in the know". Just be open and have fun.

Most girls who work in bars have seen everything--drunks, fights, etc. And they're constantly being "hit" upon by many of the men. I'd imagine that they'd think that one of us sitting there in our diapers was non-threatening, cute, and kind of amusing. I could even see me saying "Give me a free beer and I'll show you my diapers!"

The big question would be, do I tell them that I have to wear them because of some sort of injury or physical condition? Or do I just come right out and tell them that I do it because I love it? And who knows? Maybe if I offered a big enough tip I could get one of them to change me. LOL.

Thanks for all the nice comments. We will have to see in the coming weeks if I run into her again and what she does next!

Yes I've worn diapers to the bar/pub before, the thing is to act normally don't worry so much about what other people are doing there probably too busy talking or drinking.

It's nice to go out with friends if you have them around you for moral support, I've never once had any problems with people teasing me if someone asked me why I wear diapers and I was on my own I would simply awnser that I am disabled.

The thing to remember is anyone can wear diapers at any age for any number of reasons and it's no big deal, If your worried about being self conscious I would recomend you wear dark clothing or baggy cloths don't ever skimp on wearing protection if it's needed.

I also know some restaurant staff or bar staff wear them too depending on the situation due to long shifts when they can't always take breaks, also alot of seniors wear diapers too so don't get too embarrassed.

Yours sincerly

Chinababy888.

Its great fun wearing a nappy when going out for a drink. I meet my abdl mate regularly and we are both wearing our nappies. No one notices. Its also a great feeling stood at the bar wetting your nappy while ordering the next pint

I've never worn my diapers to a bar and had any kind of suggestive behavior on anybody's part. I do however enjoy wearing them to a bar while visiting and chatting with my friends and wetting as I do. Seems a little taboo to be standing there like everything is fine meanwhile I'm busy letting the pee flow and filling up my already soggy diaper. Weird huh?? lol.

It's never happened to me in a bar, but early in my loss of continence when I'd just started bedwetting, I came out in my sleeper and a friend smacked me on the butt. They took their hand away quickly like they'd been burned but I think they knew about the diaper.