Larger women and enemas

Hey all.

I'm starting to explore enemas again. I tried yesterday (and managed to take one), but im having a hard time introducing the nozzle.

This was the first time that I used my new bag, so it could be part of it, is just playing around.

I am a larger lady, and so I know that plays a role in it. Any suggestions?

Try lying on your back with your legs bent..Introduce the douche nozzle from the front...That is sometime easier to insert that way and the douche nozzle is longer...Hope you have success..If not message me and I'm give you other suggestions....

Michael2

If you are able to wipe your butt, you can insert a nozzle.

You might try a stiffer one or a slightly longer one to help get around your curves.

Softer flexible nozzles like balloon nozzles may be harder to insert especially if you are really large.

I find a butt plug type nozzle gives my anus something to grip to hold the nozzle in.

Any number of folk here would be delighted to "help" you if within 50 miles from 'em. (Its just a suggestion since my Lady wouldn't let me be the one to help ya.)

the boxcar

"pushing" as though trying to expel a stool works by causing the anus to open, somewhat, by reflex.

So, it may help to "push" a bit, to cause the anus to open a bit more.

As some others have mentioned, a longer, stiffer nozzle such as the douche nozzle, might be easier to insert. And "bearing down" will help push out the anal sphincter. Also use lots of lube (vaseline preferably) . that way when you are searching for that little rosebud with the nozzle you won't hurt yourself jabbing around back there and when you do make contact with said rosebud it will slide in easier.. Just remember : WHERE THERE'S A WILL , THERE'S A WAY !!!!!!!!!

Will read these all tonight, but thank you for those that have responded and haven't made me feel dumb or just tell me to loose weight. I was very worried that would be the response.

I had tried laying on my side, but that wasnt working. I did try squatting, which it did go in, but slipped out as i tried to adjust to start the flow. I have sat on the toilet before, to introduce stuff, but didnt try this time. I did not try laying spread eagle.

It was my first time using this nozzle, so im sure, with practice, it will get easier.

As for anyone helping me, i havent found anyone close and i live with a roommate that we are pretty much on the same work n home schedule that it wouldnt be the best option.

Try a nozzle that has a bulge on the end of it.

That will help it stay in while the water flows.

It will give you something to clench onto and hold in position.

And don't forget to use a little lube. Not a lot.

Hi huggs, I think this is a good question and it will surely help someone else too. I think lots of lube is best even if you need to hold the nozzel in at first. In my experience, it could prevent an injury. Like everything else, this takes some practice/getting used to as you discover what works for you and what doesn't.

In my mind, size doesn't matter. It's just takes some trial and error. At least it did for me.

Sitting on the toilet is good if it works for you, but you may want to try laying on your back with your knees raised. I prefer Simms ( laying on left side). If you bring your top knee up towards your chest while leaving the bottom leg straight this may work well also. Otherwise, stay relaxed as much as you can and take deep breaths. And keep trying. I've been giving myself enemas since I was 12 and I still have some problems.

I know lube is important when inserting, for many reasons, but the slickness of the nozzle (at that point it was on the whole thing) almost made it worse because it was so hard to hang on to. Would i be better to just put alittle on the tip?

@ huggs

Yes, just put some lube on the tip of the nozzle. Once again i recommend vaseline since it's thick and won't run down the nozzle like KY will. If the whole nozzle is slippery and your fingers are slick from the lube, you will find it almost impossible to hold onto the nozzle and navigate it to it's intended destination. Good luck in your quest.

Hi Huggs,

Sorry if I gave you the wrong idea. Yes, the tip is where you should have your lube. As you've experienced, having too much lube on the entire nozzle will make things difficult. So it is a balancing act. Vaseline is one of the best lubes to use and what I usually go with. There is some trial and error with this so don't get frustrated.

If you have any questions, there are lots of knowledgeable people here. I don't claim to know everything, but you can feel free to ask me anything and I'll give it my best.

Next time, I will try not putting on as much. If that doesnt work, Ill get some vaseline and try that. This gives me a few things to try.

Thanks all.

Have you tried lying on your back in the bathtub, or is it too difficult to insert that way?

I'm 5ft11 about 180 so I qualify as large

I have absolutely no trouble at all in the Simms position. Of course I'm only just approaching 30.

In another 20 years, when I've lost some flexibility we'll have to see what happens.

Next time, I will try not putting on as much. If that doesnt work, Ill get some vaseline and try that. This gives me a few things to try.

If the nozzle is latex, vaseline will degrade it. A water-based or silicone lube is better.

For silicone nozzles vaseline is fine.

I have a green vinyl retention style nozzle (often seen in many older enema vids) that is every bit of 35 years old which is still in perfect condition, and it's had Vaseline used on it many many times, but I don't put the thing away after each use uncleaned. I good washing with dishwashing detergent (Dawn, Polmolive, etc.) and warm water after every application of Vaseline has maintained it perfectly. If I use Aloe Vera hand lotion (or some other water based hand lotion) as a lubricant, a simple washing with hand soap works just fine.

Mines a hard plastic....

Get on the floor on your left side

use your left arm almost fully extended to hold your torso off the floor

that will shorten the distance your right arm needs to go from shoulder to anus

use your right hand to insert the nozzle.

It's time to do it

Another option for you may be to put one foot up on the edge of the toilet, lean forward and come at it from between your legs from the front. Works for me when my knees don't want to cooperate with floors.

Good luck!

Regardless of position, be sure to lube your hole and the area around it first. I find it is better than just lubeing the nozzle itself.

hankb