Newbie plugger questions

This is my first post so go easy on me.

I've always been anally erotic and started playing with enemas about 10 years ago. Now I would like to start plugging.

I jumped in the deep end and bought an njoy 2.0. Yep, too big for me now. I do have a medium sized regular plug but I haven't been able to get it in completely. I think part of my problem is that I have a fat ass and it's hard for me to get adequately spread to get the base actually to my anus.

I bought a set of progressive jewel type plugs but they're not here yet.

So a couple questions:

1. Any plug suggestions for girls with a lot of junk in the trunk?

2. Should I stick with the jewel type plugs or are there better plugs for working up to the njoy?

3. Anything else I can do to help get me ready for bigger plugs? I've started stretching with my fingers in the morning and at night and I can get 3 fingers in but again I'm hampered by the size of my ass.

Yes, I know this would be easier with a partner but I don't have one of those at the moment.

Thanks in advance.

You can get a couple of small and medium sized conventional butt plugs to start stretching.

The advantage of conventional plugs is you can lubricate yourself and the plugs and then slowly sit down on them--no hands required to reach around your ass.

What you will find is that at some point, the plug will pop in and you will be able to go on to the next larger one.

A second option is for a longish tapered dildo that has one small and one large end. Just keep pumping it in and out and you'll find it goes farther and farther inside you stretching your anus to larger diameters.

The njoy Pure Plug 2.0 is really massive! I like @Switchablesusie's suggestion and would try to sit down on a dildo with a flat base. In my opinion, butt plugs are not the best choice for stretching your anal sphincters. Your muscles will relax once the widest part of the plug has passed. I would recommend using dildos of increasing diameter instead. Personally, I like the MAGNUM from Fun Factory. And please proceed slowly - pain means that your body wants you to stop!

You may find that the jewel plugs irritate you if you try to wear them long-term.

To start, try a simple "jelly" plug, or several of different sizes. Since they're soft (including the flange), they may irritate less as you get used to them. They're also relatively inexpensive as you find the "right" plug for long-term use.

Jelly for long term use? No, no and no... Get a medium silicone one, preferably platinum cured, it's smoother and gets in less odors. There are lots of choices.... Happy plugging!

I had a small success last night. I did get my medium plug in for a couple hours. I wasn't able to sleep with it in. Too horny.

But I will try again tonight!!

I've been reading the stories here for years. I'm sorry I waited so long to find the forum.

It just takes time and patience. Start small and work your way up to larger ones.

Welcome aboard, Sunedee! You might purchase a set of anal dilators. These are a set of plugs with larger necks than a standard butt plug. There are five or six in the set,, from small to very large. By inserting one every night and sleeping with it in, you gradually stretch and loosen your anal sphincters. As each plug becomes easy to insert, you move to the next larger size and sleep with it. Over several weeks, your anus will loosen to the point that it will accept amazingly large objects. Once you reach the largest plug, I recommend wearing it nightly. Otherwise, your anus will begin to shrink back. Be very careful to go slowly, and start with the smallest dilator, otherwise you risk damaging your anal sphincter, and might leak constantly, requiring a diaper. I recommend wearing that #2 during the day, once you get it in. Aside from keeping you aroused, it keeps your anus open.

Any suggestions on where I can find a kit? Amazon is out. My parents use my account...

Eta: nevermind. I found one. ?

I had a small success last night. I did get my medium plug in for a couple hours.

That's great - I hope you enjoyed it!

And more success! I was able to hold the medium plug about 6 hours. Had an orgasm with it in and about 5 hours asleep. I took it out when i needed to pee. I was afraid I'd lose into the toilet. And yes, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Great to hear that keep stretching that tight hole of yours. Orgasms are the best part of anal play.

Yes the njoy 2.0 takes some time to take. I started with smaller plugs as suggested and then the njoy medium. I not take my 2.0 but I take my time getting it in.

I put the medium plug back in this morning for morning chores and a quick trip to Walmart. I did walk a little stiffly because of it but it felt similar to how I walk with lower back pain. ?

I don't think I'll ever be able to wear a plug in public for long. I nearly had to pull over to get off on the way home I'm so freaking horny. I may actually be able to orgasm without any clit stimulation.

Why did I wait so long?!? I've never ever been this turned on in my life. Even my hot, crampy enemas don't get me this hot!!

I really do need to find somebody to fuck my ass. I have no idea how to find such a man but I'll try!

Could be your man but my 7.5 and not that big in diameter could help. Sounds like you need something much larger. Would love to try and satisfy your cravings.

I managed 3 hours this morning and 5 hours this afternoon. I did calm down some but I also came about 10 times. Probably going to give my ass a rest tonight though I am feeling pretty empty.

Don't want you to stop now need to keep the back door loose. The Njoy still needs a home. How do you keep your panties dry.That is of course if you are wearing any.

I wasn't able to resist the plug last night. So maybe 5 hours plugged last night.

I did a quick clean last night with 3 glycerin sups helped along by my douche nozzle lubed with my beloved peppermint soap.

This morning I did go out again plugged. Driving plugged is wonderfully arousing. Back home I added some vick's so now I'm cool and plugged.

We'll see how today goes. Back to work tomorrow. I'm not brave enough to wear it to work. The anticipation will be interesting.

The widest part of the medium plug is nearly the width of the njoy. I might try it tonight depending on how I feel after the day plugged.

Sunedee said:

I really do need to find somebody to fuck my ass. I have no idea how to find such a man but I'll try!

Might I suggest

http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites

be sure to get a throw away email address just for on line dating use. Never use that addy for personal business of any type...

As an aside I have always put a condom on butt toys (when possible) to make clean up easy...YMMV