Anal Fingering and Spanking

Quite often when I am spanked anal play is involved too. Usually it's at the beginning, when spanked with bare hands, first fingering, either to lube me or both to lube and play with my hole, then plug or dildo follows. Sometimes, during longer spanking session, spanker goes for a quick fuck, then resumes spanking.

The earlier posts and arguments about what constitutes a sexual situation are interesting. For some people, spanking is somehow not sexual (it's very sexual for me). But I'll admit of course there are situations where a person is naked which are not sexual, like at the hospital or changing in a locker room or massage.

But I will say that during the 2 massages I've had, my mind was all over the place. I was not touched inappropriately, but almost, and so my mind was wondering if massage is about the physical relief or sensations, or is it about the mental relaxation or maybe stimulation... or maybe all of those things. I didn't have the courage to ask my massage therapist.

The body and mind are fascinating.

I think it can be all of those things @GraceT . I was a massage therapist for a number of years and clients have come to me all of those reasons at one time or another, according to some of them.

My dom has fingered me during a break in spanking. He hasn’t done this before or after the spanking… yet.

My hubby does that quite often.