First experience with bondage

I've been a diaper lover for a very long time and I have always wanted to experience being restrained whilst wearing a diaper. I want to be restrained more than I want actual domination (I think) but I'm not sure what to expect.

My initial thoughts were to take care of the diaper changing/wearing myself and then just try to find a Dom who could take care of the restraints and supervise me - I figured it would be harder to find someone to look after both diapers and restraints.

What sort of activities would you recommend as part of a beginners course?

I'd love to hear your suggestions.

Can't speak for your part of the world but in UK there are some out there who are interested in tieing you up only, without the added "dom", "master" or "mistress" parts. It's a lot cheaper too. Maybe you could try that? Taking care of the diapering part yourself as you say.

I share your fascination with diaper bondage - they go together so well because of the certainty that you will need to use the diaper at some point. However, I have strong hesitation about doing this with anyone whom I don't know and trust. One option might be self-bondage; I have heard of several types of locks that will release after a period of time, most of them based on freezing them, and then having to wait while the ice melts. That would avoid another person altogether. Combined with a good dose of castor oil, or any laxative of your choice, that would create a period of time when you would be genuinely helpless while everything churns. What if there is a knock at the door ... The time of bondage can vary; I could imagine wrapping the lock in some kind of insulating material to extend it. Secure 3 limbs, then snap your hand into a good cuff with the other end hooked to this lock, and you're stuck. Recommending this makes me want to try it - if you do, let me know! I'm starting to stiffen as I type. If the interaction with another person as a dom etc. isn't important to you, this could be great!

I have heard of several types of locks that will release after a period of time, most of them based on freezing them, and then having to wait while the

This could be dangerous because if there is an emergency, such as a fire, your screwed. Restraint should always be done with a restrainer you completely trust that stays with you the whole time.

I have heard of several types of locks that will release after a period of time, most of them based on freezing them, and then having to wait while the

The phrase you didn't quote is the reason for freezing a lock

I have heard of several types of locks that will release after a period of time, most of them based on freezing them, and then having to wait while the ice melts. That would avoid another person altogether.

You only need the freeze if you are doing self bondage.

In other threads I have described methods of ensuring that the person doing self bondage does NOT get out prematurely.

The method I like best is to use a lock that can be opened by a key or combination like you may have had on your gym locker in high school. You lock yourself up when it is dark and no light is coming into the room when you cannot see the combination dial and wait for sunrise when you can open the lock via the combination. The key to be used in an emergency such as a fire. The key is to be placed in a deep container filled totally to the top with something like maple syrup, milk or something that will make a real mess when you reach your arm into the container to retrieve the key, causing the syrup to overflow and spill out all over the floor (hopefully carpeted) to convince you to stay restrained.

If you are doing bondage, use self discipline and stay restrained.

DON'T BE A WIMP.