Pegging your guy

@Wolfgirl66 ...I'm in Illinois and would love to be your pegging test.

I've wanted to try pegging with my husband for some time now, but he's definitely not comfortable with it and I respect that. So I don't press the issue. He's perfectly fine having me give him enemas and colonics, or take his rectal temperature. Or when I stick my finger up his butt to massage his prostate, or use a prostate massager on him. What bothers him is anything that represents sexual activity with another man. He's not okay with me pegging him because the strap-on dildo is too much like being sodomized by a man, even though I'm a female and his wife. When playing with toys, he also doesn't want anything representing a penis anywhere near him, such as realistic looking dildos. Some may think he's insecure or too vanilla, but our love of enemas and backdoor play dispels this. Everyone has their limits for whatever reason makes them uncomfortable. He loves for me to give him anal sex, and I know how important it is to him, and how good it feels to him when I let him do me anally. It's not my cup of tea, but I'm not so uncomfortable with it that I won't let him have anal every now and then, though not often. It's a little uncomfortable, but he's never injured me during sodomy. But I understand why many men don't won't to be placed in a situation imitating the act of being sodomized, even by a woman.

He's not okay with me pegging him because the strap-on dildo is too much like being sodomized by a man, even though I'm a female and his wife. When playing with toys, he also doesn't want anything representing a penis anywhere near him, such as realistic looking dildos. .

In a way I can understand not wanting to use a penis shaped dildo. Not because of any connotation to a real penis and male, but because it does look rather silly as a strap-on and mainly because the shape itself isn't very comfortable. I've dozens of dildos and a few are penis shaped, but none feel comfortable, too many bumps, ridges, exaggerated coronas (not the virus obviously) and edges.

Maybe something soft and smooth and not overly large might be less of a downer?

From my experience, a lot of women love the idea of pegging a guy as it gives them a sense of power that perhaps is sometimes missing in conventional sex.

There seems to be many reasons for this. I have not been pegged, but once a man I know told me about his experiences. His wife was offended by him and he could not apologize to her. Finally she put pegging as a condition of forgiveness. He reluctantly but agreed. She bought a strap-on, not very big. Despite his fears, the toy was used as intended. Pegging became the punishment followed by forgiveness. The man says that when the strap-on is on the table in the bedroom it is a punishment for his misbehavior. He says he prefers pegging to his offended wife for many days. He says the strap-on gives his wife a sense of power.

The man says that when the strap-on is on the table in the bedroom it is a punishment for his misbehavior. He says he prefers pegging to his offended wife for many days. He says the strap-on gives his wife a sense of power.

I wonder if he's doing a Br'er Rabbit and the briar patch thing.

Oh please don't punish me by using that strap-on … ha ha ha

I wonder if he's doing a Br'er Rabbit and the briar patch thing.

Oh please don't punish me by using that strap-on … ha ha ha

“OH, NOOOO!! PLEEZZEE DOOONN'T”… “would you hurry??” ("I'm getting hornier & hornier! I gotta have it! Now!!)

Not my woman but a friend of a friend one time. she knew I was a perv IIl guess that helped but she outright asked me I think you're an asshole. So you mind if I peg you ? She did 5 or 6times after that

@Wolfgirl66 Oooo, I bet that guy you never got around to pegging really regrets it!

@RichardAsni

I was ghosted, but I might ask him now that I think about it..😉