Spanked as an Adult in Front of Someone of the Opposite Sex

Could members please share their experiences or fantasies (or terrifying fears!) about being spanked as an adult by your significant other in the presence of someone of the opposite sex? Was it royally embarrassing, or exciting, or both? What was the reaction of your witness? If it had been a fantasy and then actually happened, are you excited and glad it did, or are you mortified it happened and did it make your relationship with your witness weird?

Although I have enjoyed being both the spanker and the spankee, I have never experienced having a female witness (or any witness for that matter) be present. It is a long-time fantasy of mine, however and I have a long list of very pretty female friends and acquaintances I'd love to have witness my embarrassing bare bottom spanking. .(gulp) at least I think I'd enjoy that. .might I die of embarrassment first ??

Never been spanked in front of a witness as an adult but was a kid at school. Never really bothered me much except when the witness was a teacher who taught any grade higher than the one I was currently in because I was afraid that I would have them for a teacher later on and they might remember watching me get spanked. Don't know how I would react now to be spanked in front of someone else. Might be scared out of my mind for anyone else to know!

Yes, it happened once when i lost a bet with my GF. She had two of her kinky nurse friends come over and they took turns spanking me. I was blindfolded and to this day I don't know who they were though I have suspicions. It was a very embarrassing yet erotic experience.

It is a fantasy of mine that my hubby would spank my bare bottom and have me stand in the corner afterwards in front of his friends but I am hoping they would be men I did not know.

My younger brother, his wife, and I have our birthdays within 2 weeks of each other. Every year they make the trip from Michigan to our summer home at the New Jersey shore. Birthday spankings have always been a tradition in our family, so it is the perfect place to give/receive them. When it's the appointed day to get our pants taken down to the tune of, "Happy Birthday", one of us gets it in front of the others.

In addition, there are other family/friends who give us their "Warmest regards". Present are, my other sister-in-law (my husband's sister), my parents, my cousin-Tara and her husband, my daughter and my neighbor Denise. Sometimes, there are more or fewer people. So, my birthday spankings are given in front of- and by- three members of the opposite sex, my dad, brother, and my cousin's husband- Kevin. I'll be 52 on August 14th, so I'll be getting 52+2 handspanks from at least 6 people. Do the math-OUCH!!!

I must ask you Ruth, are these spanking over pants, underwear, or on the bare bottom?

Bare bottom! Every one of them!

I should add that they are done with a degree of modesty. Pants (or whatever) taken down to the tune of, "Happy Birthday To You!", then over the knee, undies pulled down, and birthday spanks given. I was 51, last August, so i got 51 birthday spanks, plus one to grow on. Undies are pulled up and I have to stand up for the next person's lap, to repeat the process. This August, it will be 52 spanks, plus one to grow on and one for good measure- to even it up! However, my brother and his wife both have their birthdays about a week before mine. Their birthdays are 4 days apart. So much for not marrying your astrological sign! LOL!

I have been spanked in front of our neighbors numerous times. They live 2 houses down and we get together almost weekly for drinks and dinner. The first time it happened my wife told me to tell them about our FLR. When I said I didn't want to, she said well obviously you want them to witness your punishment. I was then made to pull down my pants, diaper and plastic pants and bend over the chair where she snakes me until I was in tears. I was then allowed to pull up my diaper M's plastic pants and sent to the corner until I "composed myself". It was extremely embarrassing the first time. Since then it has happened when I get "mouthy of fussy" They really think it is great that she has such control over me.

I have not been spanked in front of another adult of the opposite sex but have been in front of my best friend which was very embarrassing. And I am sure when mom paddles me now the next door neighbor guy and his wife can hear sometimes I am sure. So it might as well be in front of them both!

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And I am sure when mom paddles me now the next door neighbor guy and his wife can hear sometimes I am sure.

well well well ..who's been a naughty Gurl. .do say !!

Wow SDB wish it would happen to me! Although the 1st time not diapered! 2nd time I would have to wear only my diaper & onesie, trying to be good to avoid another spanking, but knowing that I would also be spanked anyhow!

I fantasize about being given a really good spanking, preferably within earshot of witnesses,that would definitely add to the effect of the whole event.

I say earshot because it allows the spanker to say that I have earned a spanking, go through the act of taking me off to another room, all the while lecturing me. When my pants are taken down, mention could made about my diaper and how I need to be changed anyway. When I'm taken over the knee, begging loudly not to be spanked, my spanker would then start and continue lecturing while soundly reddening my behind.

When the spanking is over and I'm crying, I would be led to a corner for 10 minutes, allowing my spanker to rejoin whoever would be in the other room and obviously all of this would be talked about. After that, I would be re-diapered and brought back in to face whoever was visiting. I get excited just running this scenario over in my mind - imagine what it might be like in real life.

WOW! ME TOO eddyj!

Madam Cane and I were sitting in a bar-restaurant and I slipped up and called a patron at the bar a "total a-hole". Turned out to be a friend of hers, she lectured me about my foul mouth and then announced to her friend that I would make amends by submitting to a bare bottom spanking in front of the friend. She asked her friend if that would be enough of an apology? The friend said we shall see. She and her friend led me to the friend's condo around the corner & as soon as we got in the door, she put me in the corner and left me there for 10 minutes while the Friend, whose name was Abby, discussed my punishment.

Turned out that not only did I get a long bare bottom spanking from Madam Cane but 6 very hard strokes of the cane from Abby. I screamed me apology and promised I will never call anyone an "A-hole" again (unless of course it might result in this sort of "punishment"). So to answer the question posed, yes I have been spanked in front of another. And it was very pleasurable to submit like that, I especially enjoyed listening to the two of them discuss my punishment anticipating everything.

How do you feel about this news item? http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-china-36583486 . Is this kind of treatment retrograde or enlightened?

How do you feel about this news item? ... Is this kind of treatment retrograde or enlightened?

Retrograde doesn't even begin to cover the situation and practice. It is something of a mix between practices from both feudal times and the Cultural Revolution along with a bit of personal gratification thrown in for good measure ...

Never have but sounds like something I might be interested in

While growing up my mom would always witness when my stepdad would use his leather belt on me but as an adult my husband always takes me to our bedroom and shuts the door. Even if no one is home to hear they can always tell when I've had it because I always wear a long t shirt with no undies after getting the belt.

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I was spanked only one time by my mom, with witnesses present. Those witnesses knew that my mom spanked me as needed, so it really didn't bother me that they were present. All of my other spankings were given in private.

I’ve never spanked or been spanked by a partner in public as such. However, I have done both in front of an audience, though it was in a controlled setting when I was 18 years old.

The local working man’s club on a Sunday afternoon, for just £5 you got entry, a pint, a pie and peas, and entertainment in the form of a stripper. I only went once with my mate and his dad and after enjoying my food, beverage and a game of snooker it was time to enjoy the aforementioned main entertainment.

We all set in front and watched the stage as the theme tune to Grange Hill blurted out the PA and then out came a rather buxom lady (who I’d guess was in her late 30s) in a school girl outfit. After, prancing up and down the stage a few times and doing her thing she ventured into the audience to select a victim to go on stage with her. Seeing as my friend and myself were about 20 years younger than the majority of the clientele it was always going to be one of us who she selected and that day belonged to me.

So onto the stage I went and after a lap dance and some very intimate breast play I got to spank her knickered and then fully naked bottom whilst she bent over my knee (though she whispered to me not to go too hard). For the finale she spanked my bare arse with my own belt and she didn’t hold back and it actually hurt a lot.

My only regrets were:

That it wasn’t in private

Or that the entire audience weren’t female

Had this been the case I’ve no doubt that the experience would have been a lot more enjoyable.

Ever since I was young I had this fantasy

I am the only girl in a class of 10

My hand writting has always been very untidy to say the least but this day the teacher took real exeption to it and ordered me to vome to the front. I got scoldrd for my sloppy attidude and needed to learn a lesson.

He made me stand in front of the class and for every word he could nor read easily I had to remove an item of clothing.

First my left shoe

Then my right shoe

Next came my tights

Followed by my cardigan.

Before too long I had to hand him my blouse and my skirt.

Standing in front of the class in my bra and white knickers , the bell went.

I tought I was rescued but ih no.

I had to stand in the corner with my hands on my head until break was over.

When everyone was seated back at their desks after the break he continued and this time he told one of my class mates to remove my bra for me.

Then another boy was told he could take down my knickers.

The teacher then came to sit next to me and before I knew what happend I was across his lap and had my hands pinned behind my back.

I was given 10 smacks with his bare hand on each cheek in turn.

Then I had to bend over the desk whilst each class mate was given the right to come up to the front and smack my already red cheeks .

After this asault on my bottom I had to stand up with my hands on my head facing the class.

The teacher then told the boys to come close for a lesson in biology as they studied my wet pussy and why naughty girls get wet pussy when they are getting punished. If course my body betrayed me even more under such humiliation.

One of my hot fantasies.