Using a Punishment Book

Any couples keep a punishment book to record their spankings? I was in a relationship where we both agreed to accept a spanking for misbehaving. A maximum of 12 smacks was agreed, either with the hand, a kitchen spatula or hairbrush. They could be given over clothing or the bare bottom. The book would record date, misdemeanor, implement used, number of smacks given, where and in which position.

Reading it from time to time made excellent bedtime reading! Once a week we would each have practice spanking sessions, to keep our hand in as it were! These were for some sexy fun rather than punishment.

No but I write about really memorable spankings in my journal

Any couples keep a punishment book to record their spankings? . . .

We don't use a book to keep a record of anything.

We remember the memorable events, the good (98% of it is good), the bad (bad pain, minor injuries, the accidents) and the funny (funny, at least in retrospect when our daughter walked in on a severe S&M scene; when I had my husband tied up and told him to just "fart out" his gas--and it wasn't gas; and when I lost control and couldn't hold it anymore as it all ran down my legs because my hands were tied to a hook in the bathroom ceiling and there was nothing I could do to stop it!)

When my husband and I are dead, our equipment room will be incriminating enough in the eyes of vanilla people who might see it if our daughters who know about it don't promptly take it all for their own use. I have no doubt the older one will want every leather and latex suit and every last foot of rope and chain.

I have an extremely good memory. It pisses my girlfriend off that I remember everything.  😁 😁 😁 😁 so no punishment book for us.

Though it's a good idea to just go back one day and look at all records 😃

We can have a book because I won't remember everything you do I'm not part of the .08% of the population 😁

What will happen if we have book  you won't get away 😁 😁

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No record book here but it sounds like an interesting idea. Not sure I would want my kids to get a look at it though.

This is the kind of thing you should donate to the Kinsey Institute in your will ... might make for interesting study material.

As a couple, we have never written down our punishment details in a book. interesting idea, though. But, I'd bet that, if my mother had kept a punishment log for our misdeeds, it would be the size of, "War And Peace"!

This sounds like fun! Also good to remember transgressions encase you repeat them ?

Sounds like it would be an interesting read

I love that idea. The only drawback is if the book is later stumbled upon and read by someone you would not like to have read (such as your children, parents, or friends). That would be such an embarrassment and violation of your most innermost private moments. Karen

We kept a book of infractions and things we were supposed to do and forgot to do. You would add them up to spank each other on a Friday night if there was no work on Saturday. Sometimes it went 2 weeks for a red bottom.

One possibility, in light of worries about who will find such a book after you're gone, is that you keep a punishment book on a computer or other device, with a strong password only the participants know. It's not written down anywhere, or in such an obscure place their heirs would never think to look there.

They can access it while either is still living, and when they're gone, it's unlikely anyone inheriting the device and all accounts would be able to break the password.

@PinotNoir Anyone finding the book would only have seen lines. 4 lines with a diagonal line equaled 5. The pattern used to keep track was one line of counts on top of the other. One line for each partner. No one would ever be able to tell what it was used for. You can keep the same thing in a spreadsheet or word processing document.

Oh, I get it. Let their heirs assume they were counting servings of fruits and vegetables or something equally innocuous!

@PinotNoir Or we have gone senile and were counting imaginary things

Far from keeping the log private, I know of some who make it a point of publishing their offenses and corrections on public blogs. I've lost track of some of the ones I enjoyed reading. I'm sure that the sense of punishment is enhanced when others are able to read and comment on the offenses and consequences.

Far from keeping the log private, I know of some who make it a point of publishing their offenses and corrections on public blogs.

Sounds like a natural thread topic here on Zity.

“Your Offenses and Corrections”

A great idea....a punishment book...sort of lke a spanking or punishment diary.......maybe keep a diary for enemas too!! lol I will introduce this idea to my husband to see what he thinks as I am always looking for ways to enhance our "close" moments together and to keep the interest high. Denis

Sounds a bit like the Spencer Plan, where a married couple agree by contract to receive punishment from their partner, if their partner considers they require it.

A good way to reduce grievances in a marriage plus add a little erotic spice, maybe!

I like the idea of both parties experiencing a spanking from their partner, each knows what it feels like, they can talk about it together, which can be a very intimate experience.