What to bring to a first meeting?

So, first meeting is always exciting, there is a lot of nervousness and anticipation. You do want it to be right for the other person. So what do you bring? You want to bring it all, do it all, but that's impractical. So, where do you start? If the first meeting is just sitting in a vehicle it can be very limited.Any hints, tips or suggestions.

. . . So what do you bring? . . . . If the first meeting is just sitting in a vehicle . . .

You bring yourself and money for coffee or a meal when you meet.

Save the enemas, syringes, rope, leather and handcuffs for after you know the person well enough to trust them for what you plan to do.

Your first meeting should absolutely NOT be sitting in a vehicle.

You need to have firstly meet in a public place and most importantly you need to have a phone as well as. You need to arrange to provide some type of photo ID that clearly provide their real name ( ideally before you meet , you will have a name and photo ) as well as some sort of communication with a friend to say that you have met and all is OK. Then you need to arrange a periodic check in with your friend to say all is OK . Anyone you meet who does not want to adhered to these simple steps you need to be wary of frankly I would avoid and terminate all contact forthwith.

The importance of personal safety cannot be underestimated when meeting a virtual stranger.

Meeting in a car? Is this a Craigslist hookup?

Seriously, just go to a local diner, it can be out of town if you're worried, and have a normal conversation like 2 human beings. It takes 20 minutes to drink a cup of coffee...