Arousing Words

How many of you try and use the word enema when you are enjoying sex to enhance your arousal. What other words do it for you.

Redbag77

Love to hear her say I am going to give you a hot soapy enema while we are having sex ,or getting ready to receive an enema with the red 8 ounce bulb.

Generally, anything that is said will be said BEFORE insertion. After that, the less said the better. I have gotten into position and had to hold off a few minutes before inserting to let my gonads settle down. That's part of the relaxation process.

Both my wife and a past girlfriend knew that using the word "enema" during our lovemaking was my trigger. And using it frequently during our many role-play enema sessions was the ultimate enhancement. My all-time favorite.

LisaK,

I do not undetstand "gonads" you are female.......am I missing something?

Course

LisaK,

I do not undetstand "gonads" you are female.......am I missing something?

Course

"Gonads" - used for both male and female. organ which produces gametes is gonads. Be it testis or ovary.

Never knew that. Thanks

Course

It always is better when words like that are used!

When having sex the greatest words spoken, do me hard I am going to give you a hot soapy enema! Even writing the words have started to arouse me.

"come here you wittle, naughty baby. Let's give you an enema and clean you nicely" 😃 makes me go all gaga over him 😃

I am in the knee-chest position for my enema. My trigger is when my partner says, "I am going to enter you now."

My wife said, honey I know your not feeling well so I'm going to give you an enema. Being a nurse I will give you a large soap suds enema and you will feel better after I've finished giving you your enema. It may take two or three enemas to work. I'll use my douche bag for your enema and we will go slow and gentle. Lets go in the bathroom and I'll undress you and give you a gentle enema. By now my penis is erect and dripping as I lay on the floor getting a loving enema. During my third enema my nurse wife plays with my penis until I come..I now get enemas weekly. She also puts a diaper and rubber pants on for two hours in case I leak. I know love getting enemas from my nurse wife. The word enema is a very arousing word..

Even more arousing to me than the word "enema", is the word "rectum". Something about that word that just triggers my pre-cum to start flowing and anticipating all the erogenous feelings that are about to flood my mind and body at the same time......

Surf's up.

For me it is not so much the words that are said but the fact that I am being made aware of something before it happens. The anticipation is able to build if I am forewarned that an enema is eminent.

In addition to enema, one of my favorite words is rectum. They sort of go together. Pun intended.

I may think about enemas. Sadly my partner isn't a fan of enemas. Anal or spanking gets me horny.

"Enema" is definitely a trigger for me. It's tough, though, because while my wife will indulge me when we're making love, she's not into it. So I'm laying there hoping she'll say it, trying to lead her into saying it, etc. - all the while she's trying desperately to completely ignore that aspect of what is going on because it squicks her out. Lol. The compromise is that if I'm receiving while going down on her or during intercourse, I don't go there because I don't want to derail her enjoyment. But, if she's just being my naughty nurse and tending to me, she seems to be OK with mentioning the word "enema" occasionally. If she says something like "are you enjoying your enema, Baby?", the gear goes down and I'm on final approach immediately.

On a related note, the resurgence of "douchebag" or "douche" as an insult over the past 10-15 years has just about ruined that word for me. It used to give me butterflies and start the blood flowing south - probably even more than enema - but, alas, those days are gone.

On a related note, the resurgence of "douchebag" or "douche" as an insult over the past 10-15 years has just about ruined that word for me. It used to give me butterflies and start the blood flowing south - probably even more than enema - but, alas, those days are gone.

Interesting! I guess I have preserved the "specialness" of the d-word by compartmentalizing. When I hear the word used in the currently popular pejorative context, it is just not the same word that provokes those delicious naughty thoughts. A lady mentioning a douche or douching, the image of a lady douching herself, and, especially, assisting a lady in taking a douche, still do it for me.

My girlfriend and I were parked in front of her condo when she said you act like you don't feel well.She put her arms around me and said come inside and I'll make you feel better. I'm a nurse and I know what to do. I said no laxatives, and she said ok . I'm going to give you a large soap suds enema. Lets pretend your my patient in the hospital and need enemas to poop.She undressed me and got a large white flat enema bag out of her shower. I asked why it smelled and she said it was massengale douche.I douche twice a week and after my period,When I'm constipated I give my self an enema. She put a rubber sheet on her bed and covered with newspaper and paper towels. She had me lay on my side and pull my top leg up.

She said lay still and take deep breaths and I'll do every thing for you to get a good enema.She pushed her finger in my rectum several timed and than slipped a large douche nozzle in me. She said the nozzle sprays out the front and sides and will give you a better enema. During the enema she rubbed my tummy and penis.She also moved the nozzle in and and all around.After the bag was empty she put another pint of water in it. It took me thirty minutes to empty. After I finished she was laying on the bed top less, she had me nurse her and gave me a hand job.. She had me sleep with her and gave me another enema in the morning.WE also had sex that morning and she taught me how to douche her. We're now married and she gives me enemas twice a week and she never douches herself. Sometimes I have to douche her twice because I get excited & screw her after the first douche.WE have three kids and life is great.

I like the typical "dirty" words.

Never heard nor used the word "enema" during sex. My wife isn't into anal anything, so that's about the last word she would use.

"Enema" is a good word for me. When I was younger, I would get hard just thinking about an enema, and if I heard someone else say the word enema it would also trigger the same reaction.

When I got married I tried to find a similar reaction in my wife. Not so much. When I first whispered in her ear, "I want you to give me an enema." Her response was, "What???" When I repeated the request her response was, "Why, are you sick?" It took lots of sweet talk and some alcohol to finally get her to give me an enema, and even more of the same to get her to let me give her one. She never took to it. I still find it interesting to hear someone say the word, or see it written in a story, but I guess we are not all the same in how we react to it.

I often use "enema" and enemas related phrases for stimulation, especially when I have no opportunity for an enema but want to jack off. Things like "Please give me an enema. I promise I'll take the whole bag." Or, sometimes, just the word "enema", over and over.

"WE also had sex that morning and she taught me how to douche her. We're now married and she gives me enemas twice a week and she never douches herself. Sometimes I have to douche her twice because I get excited & screw her after the first douche.WE have three kids and life is great."

Whitetail, you are one fortunate man.

Once we are in the midst of sex, saying the word, "enema" doesn't do anything for me.

At that point, "FUCK ME, BABY" is what I want to hear.

Susie, I will deliver the magic words......lol....

For me words, sexy talk, and explicit dirty talk make my heart race, mouth get dry, hands shake with anticipation. I can be aroused aurally almost to orgasm with the right words, cadence, frequency of key phrases that were ingrained into my memory by my sensational mother who learned that enemas, bare bottom spanking, and threats of both always gave me an erection. She would tease me about it and tell me that when I get old enough to marry that I should find a lady who loves me enough to do the same to me.

I enjoy making a lady hot and bothered to the point of dripping wet with talk of what I am going to do with them in a strict voice, a loving voice, in a sensual whisper in her ear, or in texts throughout the day about what is waiting for her when she gets home. I like the same from a partner. Oh yes please, talk dirty to me.

Susie has a good point, I think there are words that are arousing, but only so within certain context.

Like several others......the word enema. In my past I have been fortunate to have gone with several women that were also into enemas, or did I get them hooked? One in particular would like to ask me, "Do you want me to give you an enema." At that moment the wood turned to steel. At seventy-five I dream of the past, and smile. I also wish I could go back in time, and do it "just one more time." Well, maybe more than once!