Is it naughty to wet and/or mess oneself?

Years ago when I was of school age I would often put off going to the toilet until it was too late and would end up having an accident. My mother and or father told me this was not how to behave and that I was a naughty boy.

Now that I have grown up and have taken to wearing nappies and plastic pants is it still naughty to leave going to the toilet until it is too late?

It certainly is! But I doubt that there is anything on this site that is not naughty, or even vile and disgusting, in the eyes of many. That's why we are all here - to celebrate the inner child, who is often a brat, and to support and affirm each other as we do so. So embrace that little boy, and wet and mess to your heart's content. I will do the same.

Of course it is! And that's what makes it so much fun!! Accidents are fun, but knowingly and intentionally wetting or pooping in your pants or your diapers is the kind of thing that a naughty four year old would do, and that's one reason why I love it so much. Wink wink.

Naughty? Yes. Is that what makes it fun for you? I feel some things that happen in childhood that felt good sticks with us and we would want to recreate it. Some of it I think was because I didn't know even after puberty didn't know what normal sex was all about. Parents left me ignorant. I knew wearing a diaper pooping and peeing my pants felt good to me. I knew after the age of 4 I shouldn't do that any more and didn't but still thought about it.

Of course! That's one of the reasons most of us do it. At least that's one of the reasons I love it so much. For me, it's not so much about having an accident, but rather, the intentional act of pushing a large, soft, squishy mess into my diaper, and luxuriating in the feeling. To me, this is even naughtier. And this fetish permits me to be very naughty with no one the wiser. And, of course, it's also so sexually exciting.

I used to wet my self a lot as a kid. I loved having wet or pee stained pants and revelled in the naughtiness of what I had done. My mother didn't care if I wet my pants.Once she even told me to wet my self and stop complaining about needing a wee. But my bedwetting annoyed the hell out of her.

For myself that is part of the fun is being naughty and the shame and humiliation of getting caught in poopy droopy cloth diapers and Fetware pink or yellow Cloud XP plastic panties.

It is naughty specially if you were told not to do it. Butt then again that's the excitement of it, doing it and then getting caught. Because after Mommy or Daddy cleans your mess up then it's their turn to spank your naughty bare bottom and or give you an enema to make sure you are cleaned out and won't do it again .

Of course it's naughty. That's why you like to do it!

If your mother TOLD you to masturbate daily would you disobey her and NOT do it . . . . ok, that was a bad example . . . .

Who wouldn't want to fill their diaper! A heavy wet diaper, or wet and messy is tremendous, and we all know we shouldn't be walking around like that at our ages(adults). Imagine deciding to wet and mess our diapers like toddlers! Here's to being naughty!

Why would it be naughty? You are wearing diapers. You are literally at the toilet.

When someone says "a loaded diaper" does that mean it's wet?

Full of shit.

Yes very, thats why it feels so good.

I would agree it is naughty to mess or wet yourself unless you cannot control it. If you are in diapers and you have been told not to wet or mess being naughty is half the fun. When I was young and had problems I would purposely mess or wet my diaper during punishment time just to get changed by my mom. I can remember pooping my diaper and hiding til she found me. I would then get checked for wet diaper or mmessy diaper. I would get a swat on the butt and then get changed by mommy. This made the naughtiness all worth it.

I can,t always make it so have been in diapers for yrs plus if I made a mess in our house that would upset her to no end.

I did that a lot when I was a kid. For whatever reason, I'd hold it until the last minute. Sometimes I'd make it to the bathroom in time. Sometimes I didn't and sometimes I'd get there but it would be occupied. I can't say for sure why I did that. But if I ended up going in my pants, it was into diapers right then and there. I remember once just making it to the bathroom but Mom was in there. I ended up going #1 and #2 in my pants in the hallway. Mom told me to stay right there and brought out all my night diaper stuff. I stood on my changing pad while she got rid of the mess, and then had to lie down and get diapered. All the while being told, “naughty” or “If you're going to poop your pants like a baby, you can wear diapers like one.”

It is definitely naughty ….but fun to be just like a toddler who should know better than to make a big stinky and try to hide being naughty.

No, I don't think it is naughty to wet and/or mess your nappies. After all we are babies and that is what babies do. It is what nappies are for. II only wet mine and go potty for number twos.

Mom would always remind me, what a diaper was for. Then tell me to use it or else.

Well if it's ok.for me to be incontinent and use those things to mitigate the social and environmental consequençs,why can't you choose to do the same voluntarily?

Basically I lack sensation and awareness of the actual need or event ,until there's a major change in my diaper (as in.bowel movement in progress when I feel poop on my penis and the front of my diaper filling up)

You choose to ignore senation and awareness until your body has no ability to retain.it any longer .it asked it reminded and now it's telling you no matter what ite now.

Obviously use of a diaper.facilutates this for you like me .if you needed a diaper and wouldn't use it ,I would question.your mental health.however no matter what people may think.of adult diaper as kinky or fetish.i see them more practically.

People expect and assume i.use them ,and don't have a problem with that .so if it's acceptable for me to.use them,why would it be anything less for you.

Look at it this way.,the current mindset in society.is I am "incontinent" that covers a world of “Sins” as being ok. You are."inconvient" rather than my “I” word ,because they have to think rather than just accept.

Yes it naughty, and that’s what we like about it. I def had plenty of real accidents as a kid. Even a few at school. A lot of my wetting and mostly messing was on purpose and done somewhat secretively though.

Peeing was mostly accidents and happened when I was younger. Pooping on the other hand I got away with secretly for years. I lived in an open wooded area as a child. I would be out playing sometimes and feel the urge. Instead of going in, I would just poop right in my pants. I would take off my undies and hide them some where, or throw them in the bottom of our outside garbage can. I did this so many times in my youth. Not sure how my Mom didn’t notice my undies disappearing. Maybe she didn’t really care.

Many times, if I thought I could get away with it, I would do it in the bathroom too. I’d go in, turn on the fan, and pull off my shorts/pants. I’d bend over and watch in the mirror as I pooped my undies. I mostly wore tighty whiteys so there was usually a big yellow pee stain in the front too. Then I’d dump them out, clean up, and hide them in the trash. I think I was getting sexual pleasure from this before I knew what that even was. I knew it was bad, but I liked it.

I even did this sometimes when playing with other kids. I’d be at my grandmas, playing kick ball or hide and seek with my cousins and some neighborhood kids a lot in the summer. We‘d be outside most of the day. I’d just Shit my pants and go on playing with everyone like nothing happened. I was only found out a few times, but no one ever told on me. When we would go in I’d dump the load out in the toilet and hide my undies in the garbage.

As I got older this stoped. I would only do that kind of stuff in private. Makeshift diapers when my parents were gone and such. This carried on until I got my first depends around 16. I was in heaven. Especially when I got my girlfriend involved. Naughty indeed.

Of course its naughty, very naughty to wet or mess myself. I do have control so when I do its intentional, on purpose, and big boys aren't supposed to do that, only children. But I'm way past being a big boy now, I'm an old guy and I still like to behave like I did when I was a kid whose mom had to keep him in diapers and rubber pants because he was so slow to potty train and stop wetting his bed. Of course the older I was the more method there was to my madness. I discovered the joys of getting a woody under my diapers, when mom got me ready for bed every night and I played with it until it spurted wet, sticky stuff into my diapers. Once that was revealed the world turned upside down and I thought the more I wore diapers and wet or messed myself the more I could play with it and make myself feel good. When I finally left home for good and was on my own, my mom let me take all of my diapers and rubber pants with me knowing how much I liked to wear them so when I had some spare time, a weekend or a day off from work, I'd pin some diapers on, pull up my baby pants and wet and mess myself as soon as I could. After a big mess, I'd play around in my mess, feel it squish up my ball sack and wiener, and up the back of my butt crack, get in my car and drive around. Sometimes, I'd go to see an adult movie, back in the days long before the internet or even VCR's, sit down in an already wet and messy diaper and push more poop out, filling the front of my diapers up above my pee-pee. I'd get so hard and excited I'd ended up cumming more than once during the movie. By the end, I was over all the excitement and I'd feel so naughty, ashamed of myself and humiliated and afraid someone would notice what I had done, I run out to my car, race home and clean myself up. I'd swear this was the last time I'd degrade myself, but of course a few weeks later, after fantasizing most every night about diapers and jacking off, I'd do it all again. Here I am now, in my 70's, married, in diapers and rubber all the time, diapers wet most of the time. My wife changes my diapers for me now, I still get a woody every time she cleans me and pins a fresh diaper on and of course tells me what a bad baby I am and how I not too old to be spanked. But even still, I find myself wanting to do the naughty and make a big mess in my diapers, but my wife won't allow me to do that, except every few weeks when I'm really nice and ask for her permission. When she lets me mess my diapers she makes me stay in them all day, and I love it until I finally get so hard I can't hold it any longer and tell my wife I need to cum and do so, knowing she will be mad at me for not being able to control myself. I know I'm in for a spanking for disobeying my wife and not waiting to cum until she gave me permission, and I swear this is the last time, but a few weeks later I'm back being really nice and asking “mommy, can I mess in my diapers today?”