Forming a plan to tell her

I've been into diapers for years and one thing I want to do is continue to use them when I feel the urge to do so. Now I found an awesome girl that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. We have been togeather for a long time but since I work overseas I only see her every 4 months for a few weeks at a time. Every time I've seen her going back over a year and a half now I've peed the bed at least once during the few weeks I'm with her every time. She doesn't seem to mind at all, and laughs it off like it's nothing and jokingly suggests I need a diaper. I'm going to call her on it in the near future and introduce diapers into the picture. I think worst case is she will think it's a joke and i'm 100% sure she wouldn't say anything if I slept in them next to her every night. She doesn't seem to mind waking up wet when I pee the bed. So I think it's time I just bring it up and do it already. The only problem I'll have is if I ever make a mess in them. I think that would be hard to explain but that's what I love most about wearing diapers. I love to mess in them. I guess I could just mess in the morning and act like it happend at night... Anyone know how I should bring that up? Or should I just keep that a secret? She might be a little freaked out about that.

Well i would say to her "ive got something to tell ya i wet the bed at night have my whole life not every night but every now and then and i use diapers to protect the bed". "I didnt say anything before because i didint want ya to think of me as weird or a baby because i love you and i couldnt imagine living my life without you". This way she gets used to the idea of you being in diapers at night and then down the road just say you know we can introduce this as a fun way to have sex and fun with seeing i need them why dont you put them on me tonight. see how she reacts and if positive go a little further next time tell her hey let me nurse off ya or somehting like that. but be carefull about the pooping thing because even real mommies who love there babies dont like changing a poopie diaper lol. oh welll hope that helps ya out

I don't understand why, if you have found a wonderful person who might accept you wearing diapers, you want to push it straight to pooping.

Is it only yourself you are thinking? Relationship takes two.

Perhaps you could in some later stage of your relationship, when she has already become familiar with your diaper fetish, ask her what she would think about pooping.

Diapers dry or peed could be accepted easily by an open-minded person who loves you.

But for pooping, think twice!

I think your right with the pooping. I'm going to have to keep that to myself. :'(

I finaly sat down my wife and in the terms of 'total honesty' explained about my fetish. She was a bit surprised... but was very supportive. This past weekend she even suggested that we both put on diapers and have a night on the town. Needless to say it was a fantasy come true. I think all you can do is be honest and see where it goes. If they love you, they will understand.