New to diapers

I'm curious about wearing a diaper at night and peeing as necessary. I travel often and could do that when I travel. I'm afraid if I get used to it, I may pee at night when I'm back at home with family. Thoughts?

Try it out. If you happen to pee when asleep around family, then you can use that as an excuse to wear them and claim you need them.

I would give it a go. I love being dependant on nappies at night.

You might. Any sort of "untraining" you do can kick in well outside of alone time. Don't let that ruin your fun, though. Everybody has an accident on occasion, bedwetter or not.

While I don't have any experience, unless you have a medical incontinence issue, I don't think you can 'unlearn' toilet training, just like you can't really unlearn how to ride a bike, or unlearn how to walk. You've been peeing in toilets for 40 yrs, a few night peeing in bed on business trips can't undo that.

But enjoy those nights in hotels! When I've been on business trips I usually find something different and fun to try/do.

Don't worry. have a good time. Diaper up and enjoy a return to a bygone time. After wearing 24/7 for months due to prostate problems, I still have no problem knowing I have to go. It's just my plumbing needs a little tune up. Your problem if you've never played with diapers will most likely be, you can't go. That really used to bug me.

So diaper up and have a good time. Just don't leak. ....the management frowns on that....

Yeah, it's very unlikely that you would develop bedwetting issues from wearing to bed a few times here and there. Most people who "unpottytrain" take a good year or more of 24/7 diaper use before bedwetting starts to set in.

I would say that it most likely has a lot to do with your background. If you already have vulnerable continence (like, continence issues) then indulging for a medium to long period of time is more likely to break it down. I had chronic wetting accidents and occasional messing accidents before I went into diapers full-time and my continence has completely collapsed, but I know some people who had no continence issues and have been in diapers for longer than I have, and their continence is still just fine.

Personally, I know how you feel I've had problems since 2010, when as you will read I turned 30.

I think if you have problems at night the best choice for you is to choose a diaper that's more absorbent and can keep you drier at nights maybe look into getting a premium brand, yes there more expensive but far better fitting and comfortable than the cheap quality leaky ones.

Also, see a doctor and mention your problems he or she may be able to help you, plus don't ever feel ashamed or embarrassed as 1/5 adults under the age of 50 have this issue including myself not to mention those who have been born with it and are diapers for life, so you're not alone.

If you need a friend to chat with online I won't bite and I am no pedo or monster as I call them, I am 37 going on 38 and am a decent human being anyway got to go get up and shower for work so I will chat again later.

Ps- don't worry about the fact I use an assumed name that's just for my own privacy and protection from any bullies that may be out there U am not accusing you of cause.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888

I think you should do it at certain times so it doesn't become an involuntary issue.

My issue is I'd like to pee in my diapers at night in bed; however, I'm a sound sleeper and simply don't wake up during the night. Before I was wearing diapers 24/7, I did wake up at night on occasion to go to the bathroom; but, I can't recall ever waking up since I started wearing. If I did wake up now, I'd go to the bathroom because I now go to bed in an almost fully soaked diaper. To add to it in the middle of the night would likely overflow it. What I would do is change my diaper, go back to bed, and then pee in it before going back to sleep.

Active bedwetting is a slippery slope, you can't occasionaly wear and wet easily and conditioning yourself to do it occasionaly will erode you day and night control globally, until wearing a diaper is not optional .

So either you embrace the possibility that your fun will eventually cause you to need them all the time or don't try .if you wear them as recreation and keep ip toileting habits as usual ,your body doesnt care if your going in avtoulet or diaper ,but by trying to staddle the line of both worlds you will eventually fall on the diaper side permanently .if you like wet diapers wet them before bed and wear them to sleep ,no harm .

I'm in the same boat myself. I really want to try diapers out. Not all the time as i can't afford to have to buy them and don't want to lose complete control. But i would like to wear for a day or two every so often. Hoping that if i get the house to myself for a couple of days to give it a try.