Base is too big

My Dom has me using an anal plug every day for at least 30 minutes. I love the feeling inside but the base of the plug hurts! It is a jelly one and I'm thinking about cutting off or cutting down 2 sides of it so it's a T shape and isn't so irritating. How do I do that without making "sharp" edges or just plain making it worse? Or should I just endure it?

The simple answer is to use a different plug!

The simple answer is to use a different plug!

What he said.

Don't cut the plug or dildo. Even without having "sharp" edges, the lack of smooth edges and roundness will be irritating.

Get a smaller plug.

If you have to, tell your Dom to fuck off.

But I like this one! And I have a limited budget. :-(

My Dom doesn't know. I was trying to fix it myself before telling him. He's not unreasonable.

But I like this one! And I have a limited budget. :-(

My Dom doesn't know. I was trying to fix it myself before telling him. He's not unreasonable.

If you like it, you can use the one you have AFTER you get used to a smaller plug first.

If he really is a good guy HE will buy you a smaller plug to practice on. It's not like dildos and plugs are prohibitively expensive.

An expensive designer plug or dildo could cost the same as a dinner in a restaurant--and there's no equity in a dinner--it's just shit in the end, a plug you'll have for a long time.

Are you saying that the cost of a butt plug is too much? You don't say what country you are in, but I know from what my wife has shown me in her own search for a butt plug that they don't cost more than a few dollars or pounds. They are not expensive.

Couldn't you look for another plug that has a very similar size and shape but with a base that you find more acceptable?

@Switchablesusie is right. If you were to cut down the base of the one you have, what is left of the base wouldn't feel smooth and would be irritating.

I have to disagree. I have cut down the disk big end an a few dildos to get a t-shaped handle instead. Having rough-shaped it with a knife, I take rasps, files, and sandpaper to give it its final shape. This makes for a comfortable fit. The thing to be aware of, though, is that the t-handle is long enough that the whole thing does not disappear inside of you, which could be a source of difficulty and embarrassment. To be safe, put a solid string around the stem the first couple of times so that if it does go in, you can pull it out yourself or your partner can do it for you.

hankb

I have to disagree. I have cut down the disk big end an a few dildos to get a t-shaped handle instead. Having rough-shaped it with a knife, I take rasps, files, and sandpaper to give it its final shape.

Is that really worth the time and effort? Isn't it better just to select something that is an acceptable shape to begin with?

DrZ---Sometimes I cannot find exactly what I want or it costs too much. Sometimes I have something that I think would be more enjoyable if slightly modified. Sometimes I want to make something and enjoy the challenge.

But mostly, I enjoy making things using my hands and various tools and take satisfaction in looking at something that I have made. Other people do not enjoy such things and seem to be happy and satisfied with what is commercially available.

hankb

Ah, so you actually enjoy the work of customising and modifying. Okay, I can see there is some satisfaction to take from doing that. I wouldn't personally have the time to put into it though. My wife has had to choose something standard and commercially available.

My first anal plug was like this.

I got a piece of inner tube from a bicycle, cut a section of it and then put a hole in one side and used that to pull the base narrower.

I left it on thinking it would always need it but after a few years, it broke but the toy retained the change so success