How do you get used to a butt plug?

One day at the doctors office I had to have an anal exam after much lubrication a finger was inserted in my ass I enjoyed it but wished it was bigger I'm afraid to try a butt plug how do I go about using one for the first time

What is your point?

Get some lube and a couple of butt plugs, start with a smaller one and after you are comfortable with its insertion move up in size.

Wiggle it around and pump it in and out in ways it makes you feel good.

This isn't rocket science.

You get used a butt plug by wearing one.

Just make sure it is safe to use, that means it has a flared base and is made of body safe material(glass, silicone or stainless steel). Start with a smallish medium silicone - Mood Naughty medium of Doc Johnson is a nice comfy starter plug (though it says medium is not that big). When you're good with it, try some made of harder material - whole lot different sensations.

Welcome to the buttplugging addiction, that's how good it is...

Pepsi, there's nothing to be afraid of. Buy some real butt plugs and some lube. Start small and work your way up. I tried some silicone plugs first but I could never find one that was just right. I ended up falling in love my glass plug. If you go glass make sure it is borosilicate glass, it won't ever break unless you drop it. If you try stainless steel I love my njoy. The jewel plugs are very pretty, butt just not comfy. There are straight plugs and curved plugs. I prefer the curved ones. Unfortunately everyone is different and you just have to find out what your luscious butt prefers. Butt, that's half the fun! Enjoy!

And welcome to Zity!

Yes, everyone is different but I think that there is some general rules as a first advice, first of all listen carefully to your body, our desires are generally more weird than our abilities ... buy high quality material and use the right process to prepare your self for the butt plug adventure, an enema prior to the butt plug insertion and a lot of a slippery lubrication, believe me, makes everything easier, now njoy !

Just pop one in and dance around the room. Enjoy. Or should I say 'njoy.'

Patience and practice,,,and of course desire.

If you are not already into enemas, I would consider doing enemas first before playing with the butt plugs. The enemas can be small in volume and you're really only trying to rinse out your rectum to make playing with your plugs a clean affair. From my experience, my anus is much more relaxed and open making toy insertion much easier after a round of enemas.

Start small and you'll eventually go bigger. Butt plugs - you can't just buy one.

I started out with a one inch diameter plug. That one went in fairly easily so I went to a 1 1/4 then a 1 1/2 plug both hard silicone. Both of those went in with little effort so I jumped up to a 2 inch silicone plug. That one turned out to be quite the challenge. It took several sessions before I was able to get it in and when I did it felt amazing inside me. After all the effort getting the 2 inch plug in me I didn't think I would ever be able to get anything bigger in me.

I purchased a 2 1/4 inch plug that was made out of a softer material that my other stiff silicone plugs and I was able to get that one inside me in one session. that plug was too long to keep in so next I tried a 2.4 inch plug also made from a softer material. That one proved to be a challenge to get in but it felt great when it finally popped in after a few sessions. I then purchased a 2.5 stiff silicone plug which was only very slightly larger so I figured it would go in without a lot of effort.

I was wrong, because it was made from silicone which had much less give than the other it proved to be a challenge. It took several sessions before I was able to get it to pop and it felt amazing once inside me. I finally went up to the 2.62 inch wide colossus XXL plug and after about 2 weeks of trying I was able to get it all the way in. After getting that one in I have found it much more comfortable to keep my 2.5 inch plug in for extended periods.

Then I purchased a 2.75 inch silicone plug but after holding it in my hands and seeing up close how large it was I decided that the 2.62 would be enough. So I discarded the 2.75 to avoid any temptation to put it inside me. I have seen photos and videos of men and women putting 3 inch and larger plugs inside them but I cant imagine putting objects that large in their buts not doing damage or causing permanent changes to the anus so I will not be going larger.

TJM, I know what you are talking about. I'm also at 2.6 inch glass plug, and desire to go bigger, but intentionally won't get anything larger . I guess I have to use common sense and put a limit.

mbm is also right - in time you'll have a collection...

Happy plugging!

What's the best non-anesthetic lube or anal treatment to use to sooth an irritated anus/sphincter?

Thanks,

Dick/Eric

Hi!

I have some plugs that are odd/uncomfortable but I love to wear them! Yes, I can not go out or do much with them installed in my butt, but they give great sensations and are a welcome change from the regular ones. I have quite a few plugs and most of them get to be used sooner or later.

Make sure your plugs are made of body safe materials and your are good to keep them in as long as you can/are comfortable/think is needed to get used to.

Happy plugging!

I have to say also that the frequency of anal play and sex strongly influences how comfortable wearing a butt plug can be. It is going to take a lot longer to warm up and there might still be a bit of discomfort after a long anal brake, something that doesn't happens when wearing a plug in a regular daily schedule .

I have 3. A small, medium and a large. Right now as I type this, I have the small in. I am getting ready for later in the day when I can use the medium. It just takes time and patience getting use to them. There are times when its a little painful, but oooohhhh so good when you have it in there.

Well, ask your self. . .How much do I want to get used to the pleasure of a butt plug ?. . .and for me it is so simple, I want to get used to the pleasure of a butt plug as much as possible, It's my choice. The longer I wear it the more I want it.

There are plenty of other things that will give us pleasure but my first choice is a butt plug because it is just unbelievable what a feeling such a simple toy can give.

Butt plug addiction ? hopefully isn't illegal 😃

Butt plug addiction ? hopefully isn't illegal 😃

Good grief. I never considered the possibility.

So, lets see and go through the arguments: it is fun, probably beneficial health wise, they can easily be made in the home, they are sturdy with no moving parts hence few breakdowns needing repairs, they are a one time outlay with no recurring costs and very cheap to purchase and afterwards free for unlimited use.

Yup, all the classic hallmarks are there, definitely material for restrictive legislation or psychological shaming of some kind or another. Can't have people having fun at no cost without spending money ... ha ha ha

Butt plug addiction ? hopefully isn't illegal

That's right, I'm really sorry to inform you that you IP address has been recorded and the appropriate authorities have been contacted. Your un-coerced, free admission that you are addicted to butt plugs requires that you now report to the authorities within 48 hours. Once you are fingerprinted, and appropriate photos taken of rectum and your plug, you will be incarcerated in a cell with a large man who goes by the name of Bubba. He will gladly demonstrate other rectal activities that you can enjoy in order to wean yourself from your butt plug addiction.

I think I'm like Anne. The more I wear them, the more I want to wear one, as long and often as possible. But I found yet another fascinating element to this kink yesterday. I unexpectedly received two Square Plug Egg plugs yesterday I didn't expect until next week. It's my first SP toy, in their supersoft bronze model. Of course I immediately popped one in and went out very briefly for a quick errand. Then I found out the fun part of my new toy.

The (extremely) SuperSoft material really is as advertised, to the point where I had to sort of relearn how to put in a butt plug because it was so pliable. Sort of like learning to push in a latex DBC the first few times. Very different from easily pushing in a nice firm silicone plug like my Tantus Ryder, which I also love but feels and goes in totally differently. Now here's the really new fun part from yesterday. Not only is it a new experience to wiggle this plug in, it's a whole new experience trying to KEEP it in! I think I put in the medium size, and after getting it in, very comfortably and extremely fun and comfortable to wear and sit on (prostate heaven, anyone?), every time I got up and ESPECIALLY when bending over, I had to actively squeeze or even hand-push the plug in to keep it from feeling like imminent plug or sphincter failure ("fly out my ass" - see prior post) would occur.

Finally, it happened, and one bend too far caused plug exit and deposit in my underwear. I decided to put in the larger Square Peg Egg I had also received yesterday, which was even more interesting to maneuver into me. I kept that one in all afternoon until I changed it for my latex WBC about 11 PM to start my New Years celebratory enema. Those plugs are so soft that without a harness (which I'm searching for) I honestly don't think I could be out in public except very briefly like yesterday. I'd constantly be walking very funnily or having the crowd wonder what odd disease I had requiring constant butt scratching.

Every day, a new plug experience. I love it.

Eric