This is a topic I haven't encountered much or gotten to explore extensively. I am a Dominant versatile/bottom. But I love to dominate submissive tops and top/vers men who are straight, curious, bisexual or gay. I think it's interesting that you always encounter submissive men being bottoms and dominant men being tops. I think the role reversal is what turns me on so much.. dominating someone who is a total top.. tying him up, edging him, putting a ball stretcher on him, giving him pleasure and taking it away, putting him in a position where he has to work a great deal to get any pleasure, making him give me pleasure.. punishing him if he doesn't do what he is told, light flogging, rewarding him by giving him a mind altering orgasm only to give him post orgasm stimulation to the point where he is begging you to stop.. getting him hard again and milking another load out of his exhausted sore balls. It's also hot to me teaching a guy who has never experienced anal stimulation the pleasure that comes with it and showing him how much hotter having a real dick inside of you is rather than a dildo. I do love to dominate a straight guy who is a submissive bottom for me.. but I am interested in dominating top, top/vers guys as well.
I am the one man guy type though.. I play with only one person at a time. I don't like to have multiple sexual partners. I much prefer monogamy and trust and to be able to explore each other completely without fear of getting something. I'm a good guy who happens to be adventurous and sexually curious and open with the person I am with. I like to keep things interesting! I would like to meet a guy who is a man's man but secretly has always wanted to be dominated by a small framed creative type that doesn't look like the dominant passionate guy that I am. It's a true role reversal.
It is fun to give someone extreme pleasure and teach them how to pleasure a man even thought hey prefer women. It's also fun to give someone extreme pleasure but make them work for it. There is something rewarding about not getting what you want when you want it. We all secretly and or not so secretly want to work for what we want. The same goes for sex. It can be effortless and explosively passionately hot but it can also be sensuous, slow to start, a steady momentum that builds.. getting better and better until you reach the climax.
I want to experience more like this with someone open to being totally dominated and putting their trust in me to rock his world. It's unbelievably hot.
Do any of you guys out there secretly enjoy being dominated but prefer to top? I would love to hear your thoughts on all of this! I read some great forum posts from other members who are bi and married.. haven't ever been dominated by a guy but want to and I want to hear more of your fantasies! This is the place to be yourself and connect with others that share your interests!
Thanks Switchablesusie!!