Ejaculation during a spanking!

I recall a Lad at school ejaculating whist getting a slippering in the gym,

Yes, uncontrollably

Having erections during locker room spankings was not at all unusual for boys starting somewhere between the ages of 11 and 14. It was somewhat embarrassing, but it happened to enough boys that it wasn't considered bizarre.

On a few occasions, ejaculations happened, which the coach would use as teachable moments regarding anatomy, nerve endings, and spontaneous orgasms.

The first time that I ejaculated during a spanking was after my first high school swim meet. I was a freshman and either 14 or 15 years old. I was the anchor leg of a relay and came from behind to win the relay and the meet. I was selected the MVS for the meet.

After swim meets the boys and girls swim teams, and the guard organization, had bonfire parties at a nearby beach. Unbeknownst to me, my "reward" for being the MVS was a hazing-type spanking from an upperclass member of the girls' swim team. Elizabeth (the captain of the girls' swimming and diving teams, and head female life guard) was the disciplinarian that evening.

I thought that I was going to have to bend over and receive some swats across my blue jeans with a fraternity/sorority type paddle. I was wrong!

Elizabeth sat down on a log and instructed me to strip down to my boxers. By the time I was stripped to my boxers and standing immediately to her right (ready to be taken over her lap), it was obvious, to all the boys and girls watching, that my penis was standing at attention inside my boxers. Elizabeth told me that "naughty boys with erections" get spanked "on the bare". And she reached over, pulled my boxers down to my ankles, and instructed me to step out of them.

So there I was, in my birthday suit, with a raging hard-on, standing to Elizabeth's right, with my hands in front of my penis and scrotum/testicles, with the boys and girls swimmers and life guards enjoying my predicament. Elizabeth sternly instructed me to put my hands behind my head with my fingers interlaced.

Elizabeth told me that, when she was done blistering my bottom, my penis had better be flaccid, otherwise she would give my naughty erection a good thrashing with a leather strap! Then she reached over with her left hand, grasped my erection firmly, and pulled my penis (and therefore me) down onto her lap. Once I was draped over her lap, she asked me if I was ready to receive a butt blistering. I figured it would be wise to show her a lot of respect, so I answered, "Yes ma'am."

I assumed that Elizabeth would spank me a few times with her hand. But when I received my first swat, it was obvious that she was using the type of hairbrush that is made for paddling bare bottoms! I immediately recognized the thud/sting because my mother still had one hanging conspicuously in my bedroom.

It was obvious that Elizabeth knew how to use her hairbrush to keep a boy sexually aroused. She had my erection and scrotum pointed down against the outside of her right thigh, with my feet and legs far enough apart for everybody to our right to see my not-so-private privates grinding and throbbing. She was expertly alternating intensity and rhythm. She could feel my rock hard erection grinding and throbbing against her thigh.

Finally, she bent over a bit and whispered in my ear, "Do you want to orgasm while I'm paddling your bottom, or do you want to have your erection whipped with my strap?" At this point, I no longer cared that the boys' and girls' swim teams were watching. All I wanted was for Elizabeth to whip my rock hard penis with her strap! So I begged, "Please whip my erection, ma'am!"

Apparently, this was the wrong answer, because she kept paddling my bottom, but she modified the intensity and rhythm one last time and I exploded, and kept exploding for what seemed like a full minute or more. Elizabeth didn't stop paddling me until about 5 minutes after I was done orgasming.

At first the other boys were teasing me that I had begged to have my penis whipped, but eventually Elizabeth winked at me and said, "Don't worry, honey. They always beg for the strap! Maybe next time!"

I would pre-cum often and leak for awhile which I was so thankful that did not happen all the way .But I was spanked still at 15 and 16 yrs. old . The first time it happened I was at me friends house and was staying there for 4 days because both Parents new one another and would babysit each other kids when parents went away .I was an only child ,my friend had a younger brother and sister. How it happened we were playing in my friends room and were told to put our Pj's on we were 13 yrs. anyways it was just his mother home ,his father worked shift ,we all of a sudden knocked the wall which hit a picture on other side of wall out in hall ,it broke ,his mother came ,we had not changed in PJ's and broke picture or whatever ,His mother pissed told my friend and I to get the Pj tops on DO NOT BOTHER BOTTOMS get down into Dinning room.so I asked my friend why dinning room ,said that where she always give spankings. We change and go down the stairs with our Pj tops ,but my friend is not wearing underwear ,I have mine on .

Get into dinning room his mother tells my friend to get into that corner face the wall put hands on his head ,she then looks at me tells me to go to that corner BUT first we do Not wear anything on the bottom when getting a spanking OFF with your underwear. Off comes my underwear and I go to the corner with hands on my head .

She calls her son first ,tells him to bend over the table ,place his head to the side and lay it down ,grab both sides of the table with your hands and spread your legs out wider than your shoulders. Now I am going to use Only the Wooden spoon ,lucky not the belt (if your father here) Both going to get 20 whacks each ,then stand in the corner ,face to the wall until I tell you to get up to Bed. Now count each one I give You .

So she starts and I can hear the slapping sound on my friends cheeks and him counting at about 12 his voice started to

tremble then at 15 starts to cry and really cry (and I am shaking ,but also I have a problem because I have a almost semi-erection ,not flaccid for sure) then I hear my friend say 16 not the thighs as he is sobbing so last 4 16-20 were on the inside of his thighs right near his scrotum by the sound . He was just Balling and saying sorry while crying ,his mother just said No talking get into corner ,

She call me over ,I get into the position she tells me ,as I walked over I use my hand to cover as best my groin area

since I still have this semi -erection sort of ,she tells me to take hands away and grab the table so I turn my back to her and then she tells me to lay my stomach and side of face on table ,now spread your legs ,more ,more , (I am shaking but also thinking I know going some where going to leak pre-cum always happens at home . I hear her say okay I want you to count (I can still hear my friend crying) Then the first one comes onto my cheek HOLY SHIT I just grab the table and say ONE at about 9 I am beginning to tremble bad but my Penis is still excited and I can feel the leaking starting

by number 12 I start to cry it is really hurting my ass it just burning Then at 15 it happened ,she hit me on my left cheek I said 15 oh NO crying holding onto table said again oh no first thought maybe I pissed but I could feel the pumping ,She did not say a thing ,she I am sure could see from behind with my legs spread wide my balls moving or could see my cum shooting or dripping am sure she say it on the wood floor undr the table ,all so fast I was still crying sobbing she hit inside of my right thigh real close to my scrotum 16 -20 on my thighs and I was really crying ,said I was sorry ,she told me over to your corner hands on your head. about 4-5 minutes maybe less she came to me and handed me 4 pcs kleenex said nothing walked away.

30-35 minutes she came said both of you upstairs get too Bed ,Do Not say a Word or you will be back here for another 20. I was so embarrassed ,I could not tell my friend until next day,My friends Mother must have cleaned up and never said a word to me ever.

It has certainly happened to me when I was a teen. It was not planned at all and kind of embarrassing. As an adult, it is part of the ritual and is planned and carried out in a planned manner

I've never had an ejaculation, but a bit of pre-come dripping is fairly common.

Spankings from parents don't normally last long enough to ejaculate.

Definitely still left a little mess from pre cum but that's whatever.

I had buddy growing up that was asked to pee, poop and masturbate before a spanking so there were no accidents. He had to be quick too or his dad would speed it up. I had peed once from getting spanked but this guy made a little mess in the back of his undies once. Wasn't there for it but his brother sure never let it go.

At a club in Brussels, I have seen a number of men and a few women have an orgasm while being spanked, really flogged or whipped, during S&M playing. Most do not orgasm just from the whip. I am talking here about orgasm without genital manipulation beyond the whip or flog itself. Some of the men remain flaccid during the whipping and the ejaculation is a dribble that continues for some time. Some of the flaccid group sort of dribble with each stroke. Men in this group say they are often unaware they are ejaculating and they don’t get much pleasure from the ejaculation itself. There is no body stiffening you would expect to see. Most of the men I have observed who have a full erection while being flogged, ejaculate very forcefully at some point in the process. Perhaps 4 or 5 big spurts with body stiffening that you would expect in a full blown orgasm and oral response if they are not gagged. The whip does seem to encourage a lot of pre cum in all the men.

A lower percentage of the women being whipped have an obvious orgasm. Of course it is harder to tell when a women is actually having an orgasm. Women also seem to respond differently when a male or female is doing the flogging. I know I do depending on the sex of who is using the whip. Another difference is that a small percentage of the women lose control and urinate and or defecate while being worked over. I have never seen a man lose control and urinate or defecate while being whipped.

One other difference is that men often request to be whipped. Very few women ever make an overt request. Women are usually forced in some way to submit to punishment.

This is an interesting complex subject. We should have some questions on the response of the person doing the flogging.

Dita

When disciplined via a palm strapping at school I always trembled with excitement while waiting and had a full erection during the punishment although I never achieved an orgasm but it would have been great if I did.

On my visits to a dominatrix I always have a full erection while being over her lap being hand spanked, struck with a leather paddle or strap. When released for boot worship my erection is maintained until I am allowed to masturbate into a wad of tissue. I have visited one domme who has me ejaculate on a plate which I must lick clean.

I have been spanked by both Females and Males and I always ejaculate while remaining flaccid. I try hard to not ejaculate but just can’t hold back. I find it very embarrassing.

Some men who have had their prostate removed can even produce pre-cum. i assume that some are unaware that there is a difference between pre-cum and cum. They are produced by totally different glands, therefore; we produce pre-cum when sexually aroused even though we may not have an erection. Nothing is as exciting to me as to the feeling wet underwear as a result of an erotic thought and having never gotten an erection. Glad it works that way. 😃

About 7 years ago I was dating this cute redhead with a slightly full figure. She was 24 or 25 and loved a good spanking from me. One day we decided to push past her normal threshold. She was naked, and up on her arms and knees, head buried into the pillow while I gave her a hard spanking with my hands. Suddenly she started jerking and moaning then said "oh God, stop" which was what she said when I made her cum and she was overstimulated. I asked her if she had an orgasm and she told me she had and it was amazing. That was just from hitting her ass. Was not even near her clit. Such a good memory

It is a little

scary butt you will get over it and deal with the higher pain level. The problem is friction. With you wiggling around you cause friction on your penis which in turn leads to a climax on the towel you are laying on covering the lap of your disciplinarian . That's a hard one to control.

In response to ejaculating during a spanking I experienced this during my first year in college. I had become friends and intimate with a graduate student who was clearly more mature then I was. She really liked anal sex while bent over and I would give her an enema before we did this. She would lay across my lap while I administered the enema and she would often request that I swat her butt. And by the way, since I was attending on a baseball scholarship I could really spank a butt to any degree! Continuing,,,, on this one particular afternoon she said it was "my turn to be given an enema" and although I had been given enemas while growing up I somewhat resisted but she soon persuaded or convinced me that it was "my turn." so to speak. After we showered she filled the famous Red Bag and then had me across her lap. While she was inserting the nozzle I began to squirm and complain and after a few verbal exchanges she promptly set aside the nozzle. She then proceeded to readjust me so my now hard cock was between her thighs and I heard her say, "I told you to relax and hold still Ray!" Then she proceeded to spank my bared butt and keep in mind this girl was an excellent tennis player so believe me that she could spank hard! I started to squirm around while being spanked but I could not help but become highly aroused. My cock became hard I then heard her laugh and then tightened her thighs slightly squeezing my cock. Soon I began to ejaculate and she then placed her hand down there and began to jerk me until the "happy ending" was completed,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Needless to say this was an experience that I will ALWAYS remember but of importance is the fact I realized that my sexual preferences were shall I say, not of the typical and usual?

In addition to my # 13 post, i was hard before & during my (Not Severe but still a spanking) spanking on the bed which caused my ejaculation due to my humping the bed, on our HONEYMOON! ( Wish my spanking lasted much longer even tough it would have no longer been pleasure but PAIN, loosing all my control to my wife!) For the 6 years prior I knew that we would be married as I had given her a paddle to use on me and she found that she got WET from spanking me 😃!

I have never seen it happen but have heard my mother talking about it when she had to spank my brother.. and she has brought it up since then I guess to embarrass him in front of his wife..lol

I regularly cum when being humiliated and spanked which usually means more punishment

It never happened to me.

But I read a story about this in another forum several years ago. A woman wrote that when she was little and witnessed her older brother being spanked, her mother put a towel on her lap before making the boy lie down. Then during the spanking she saw her brother suddenly move his hips in a strange way. It started when the boy was 12.

Once she asked her mother about it and she explained that his penis was making a mess.

Cannot imagine anything sexual taking place when I was spanked with the back of a hair brush. I hurt too much and I was never aroused.

Cannot imagine anything sexual taking place when I was spanked with the back of a hair brush. I hurt too much and I was never aroused.

Erections are not always sexual, they can happen for other reasons, and when they are rubbed things happen. Although this has never happened to me from a punishment, I have had a full erection before during a very painful paddling that made my knees buckle. It was a shock, but pain doesn't always kill arousal.

Cannot imagine anything sexual taking place when I was spanked with the back of a hair brush. I hurt too much and I was never aroused.

An ejaculation is not necessarily sexual. It can also be nothing but an uncontrollable physiological reaction to physical stimuli.

To take a gruesome but well-know phenomenon: ejaculations often occur when males are hanged. Not only do they loose control of bodily functions and void bladder and bowels, the same can occur with ejaculation.

This gave rise to all kinds of folklore and superstitions in the (distant) past. For instance it was believed in certain cultures at certain times, that the semen from a hanged man would grow into a mandrake plant, especially the roots, and be possessed of magical powers. It has also been theorized that certain sacrificial fertility rites using strangulation/hanging were linked to the resulting ejaculation from the victim.

Not fun stuff to contemplate. But it does show that ejaculation is not necessarily sexual in nature.

An ejaculation is not necessarily sexual. It can also be nothing but an uncontrollable physiological reaction to physical stimuli. I love this sentence.

It reminds me of riding my old Harley with my Ex on the back. Her uncontrollable physiological reaction to physical stimuli was at about 2200 RPM in forth gear. Mine too.

I've never cum during a spank but have often left wet spot of pre-cum on my spanker's lap. Some spankers have added punishment for that. Erections in response to a spanking and ejaculation from the friction often sneaks into my F/M fiction and is something frequently on my mind.

My first gay session was a spanking one . I was aged 25 and had been interested since school days , but it took me that long to buck up courage and fo something about it . I was on holiday in Bournemouth U.K. and had got in contact with this guy through the pages of Forum magazine . I can’t quite remember now how we arranged it but I do remember telephoning him and making arrangements to visit . We were to spank each other . .

anyway I turned up we had a quick dis ussion then proceeded to his bedroom . He sat on bed and put me over knee . There was a full length mirror at my head so I could look back and see him spank . He started over Jean then pulled them off . This was hugely exciting for me , no guy had done that before and here I was in navy blue briefs over his knee . He continued spanking . I was erect he could obviously feel it as he eased the waist band of my pants over my erection and pulled my pants off . I could see him in the mirror looking down at my bare ass cheeks and it was all I could do to stop exploding then . In fact after being spanked a good few times I think I told him I was close . We stopped for a while during which I stripped him , lovely white briefs with a blue strip I remember And of course bare assed . He then put me over his bed and started spanking again . At first with hand and then with plimsoll . That was really sore , but what with the agitation of my cock against his bedspread with every stroke I couldn’t hold it and came all over his bed spread . He wasn’t impressed ! I think he was disappointed I hadn’t lasted longer. But for me I was happy because the plimsoll was really sore . In fact I came out in bruises which lasted about a week .

so yes spanking can cause ejaculation

It has happened only once directly from a spanking and it was as an adult with my wife.

Ive gotten plenty of erections before, during, and after spankings both growing up and as an adult. But only one time I actually ejaculated from it.

My wife was spanking me as punishment (a fun punsihment, we spank each other when we are naughty). So we're in the living room. I'm completely naked, knees on the floor, upper body on the couch, legs spread, ass sticking out. So I'm very exposed, all the goods on display.

There's a knock on the door, she looks out the window and sees its our friend (well really it's her friend, but we've all hung out alot and I like her, plus she's hot).

My wife tells me she's going to let her in and watch the rest of my spanking. At first, I was like hell no. Way too embarrassing. She asks me please, she says it would be so hot. Says she would owe me one. For some reason, I agreed. (part of me wanted to do it anyway).

So her friend comes in, sees me naked and very exposed. Red ass, asshole, balls, dick, everything. Wife explains how im getting a spanking. Friend is interested and wants to watch. At this point my dick is so hard and the friend comments on how I seem to be enjoying it. Which makes me even harder knowing that she is looking at all my goods.

Anyway, wife continues to spank, my dick is throbbing. Rubbing on the couch every once in a while from the movements during the spanking. I feel it coming and I say oh shit… oh shit… I bend way over, pushing my ass all the way out. My hard dick pointing down and start shooting cum all over the floor (on the carpet. Oops)

Super embarrassing, super hot!

Sorry for the long post. One of my favorite experiences. Horny and hard playing with myself while writing it. Going to go finish the job now hahaha

I would always get hard when I was over my girlfriend's lap getting spanked. Many times I would ejaculate because she would jerk me off while she spanked me. Sometimes it would happen from just rubbing on her thighs. Always enjoyed those intense feelings.

@LameUsername ,

I like very much your story

As they say in Italian, ''Si non e vero, e bene trovato''.

I guess I experience the opposite phenomenon. My Master uses to spank me right into ejaculation. He believes that pain and desire go well together, or at least I should learn to behave like a pain slut. So often and only short before orgasm he intensifies his spanking in order to make it come true: my milk and my tears dripping down on his leather apron.

Whenever I am spanked by someone male or female an erection always happens. As I am stripped naked for my spanking there is always pre-cum dripping from my penis. Once I am taken over the knee and the spanking starts my erection only firms up. Then anywhere between 15 minutes to an hour I can have an ejaculation while being spanked.

This is a very thoughtful insight by John Fessée, writer of the popular blog goodboyspankings on blogspot.

“Making a spanking humiliating for any particular person means that you have to focus on what that person finds humiliating. If someone is fastidiously clean, they need to be shown to be dirty, for instance. For a teenager, it means you need to play off their fears and especially those fears surrounding body image, social acceptance, and their likely very confusing sexuality. Remember that embarrassment is the psychological feeling of wanting to hide a fault or trait. Humiliation is the sociological experience of having others notice, comment or otherwise negatively draw attention to real or imagined faults, traits or characteristics.

In all of this, one needs to be subtle. The spanking is the direct assault; the humiliation is a glancing blow. Think of that time when someone pointed out a stain on your shirt after you spilled on yourself at lunch. Their intent was merely to comment on a fact or perhaps be helpful but you internalized the message to mean that your were clumsy and unkempt. Let the imagination run.

That said, a teenager is going to be very body conscious so, of course, they should be naked. My favorite justification for nudity is that the spanking ritual is about purification of revealed sins where sin is the body revealed when clothes are removed. Few comments are required. Perhaps a, “you look so grown up,” or “wouldn’t think we would have to spank someone so grown up anymore.” Really, all that is needed is to let the eyes linger on key body parts for just a moment too long.

Playing off the teenage fears of being socially damaged is frighteningly easy. The mere fear that what is happening would be found out is enough. The spanking should involve a lengthy ritual involving being paraded naked through the home to the place of punishment that is far from the most private location. There should be constant fear of not just the spanking itself but that it might not remain a secret. The longer the ritual (go get undressed and come back, let me finish this chore, fetch the spoon, stand in the corner and think about what you did,…) the more opportunity for discovery and the more humiliating the experience.

Lastly, one does not have to sexually assault the teenager to play off their insecurities around their sexuality. Anyone that has passed through puberty will be conflicted about their genitalia and erogenous zones. The goal here is to merely toy with that confusion.

Keep the genitals displayed as much as possible and when they aren’t displayed, allow for stimulation with the careful placement of pillows, towels, arm rests, or other objects against which the young person can possibly grind. Then, it comes down to merely commenting, “enjoying this, I see,” followed by a few prudish tsk-tsk sounds.

It is, of course, a trap. Remember first that spanking will create blood flow to the buttocks and genitals causing reactions similar to those of arousal and which, conveniently, can facilitate arousal (and erect penis is more sensitive than when flaccid, for instance). Spank more gently when you suspect that the teenager is being stimulated so that they can experience arousal. Then, call attention to that and redouble your spanking efforts as you feign anger and disappointment. If male, reposition them after they achieve an erection so that it is prominently visible (standing, bent over a counter, on back/legs up diaper position). Young women are trickier but there are more subtle signs of arousal: lubrication, clitoral/nipple erection, vocalizations. However, regardless of whether there is or isn’t arousal doesn’t entirely matter; ask if there is or speculate that she is aroused regardless.

The idea here is that you want the teenager to have a sexual experience but you want to pretend that it is inappropriate and that you completely didn’t intend for them to feel that way. The ultimate humiliation would be if they achieved an orgasm during the spanking but it is enough that after the spanking, they be given some time alone in private to satisfy their erotic needs. In other words, any time a teenager is spanked, an orgasm should occur during or shortly after it happens.

I feel that the strong sexual response should itself not be punished unless the orgasm or ejaculation occurs during the spanking in which case, the spanker should again feign disgust, disappointment, and anger as an excuse to spank harder and faster, you know, because he made mess or wasn’t appreciating the spanking. Be sexually positive but perhaps judgmental about time, place, and context. Comments like, “glad we got that out of the way,” “maybe now you will appreciate your spanking,” or “oh, what a mess,” cut to the bone. Add a little ritual around cleaning up after an accident or preparing for one “just in case.”

All of this, of course, will definitely traumatize a teenager. Much of it is part of the storyline behind my spanking fetish not because any of this happened to me but because I was and am deathly afraid of this or the non-spanking/nudity/sexuality equivalent.”