Home made restraints

Having a liking for bed bondage i decided to make my own . I went to my local DIY store and purchased the following

1 - chains long enough to go under the mattress and two attached to the sides for my wrist

2 - a broom handle this would be cut down to make a spreader bar to which my ankles are attached to

3 - metal eye hooks that were stewed in to the ends of the cut down broom handle to which i could use attachments on

4 - cotton ties attached to the head end to which i pull from under the pillows under my arm pits and then over my chest and tied in place this stops any upward and down ward movement

5 - a set of pad locks same keys to operate all locks one each for wrist and ankles

i can say with this set up i have no chance of escape as is the point of course

Yikes bedsheet,

Wow,you have really done this? so cool😃

That's what I love about Biz one doesn't have to be into another persons kink to enjoy reading and learning about others,

Peace. Caz

I happen to really like rope bondage.

We don't have a boat, my husband has other hobbies he uses as money pits, but we have found that marine stores have the best, prettiest, strongest, widest selection of ropes and great stainless steel hardware for suspension devices.

My husband gets off whipping the ends of the ropes with gorgeous patterns.

I like rope bondage too!

We have no boat eather, but my first "dirving licence" was a sailing licence with 16.

Since those days i know a lot about ropes and knots and i used that knowledge at all of my partners.

Meanwhile we charter motoryachts aroud Berlin or on the Baltic Sea. That gives us a lot of privacy in the middle of nature.

For the end of the ropes i use heat shrinkable tubing in different colours, one colour for each length ;-))

Thanks for the great replies always nice to see what other kinksters get up to !!

I'm into sailing more than B&D, but just a word of advice for those going to marine stores for rope...

There is such a wide selection of rope available, that you may be overwhelmed by all the pretty colors and styles. However, I believe it is important that you ONLY buy nylon rope. Nylon stretches a bit, whereas dacron and most of the newer synthetics (dyeema, etc) are specifically made to NOT stretch.

Nylon is usually sold as mooring and anchoring lines. You can still get a variety of colors, diameters, and styles (twisted, single-braid, double-braid...), especially in mooring lines. The bonus is that it's usually the 2nd-cheapest rope, after [slippery and mostly useless] polyethylene.

In another thread I recently read about using cat and dog collars to attach to thighs, arms, ankles, and bed frames. I though that was pretty clever.

I created a spreader bar worth mentioning. If I can figure out how to post a picture I will. I wrapped small rope around a broom handle in such a way that it is easy to clip a snap hook to the rope anywhere along the length. Hard to explain in words, but will try to get a picture up soon.

I'm into sailing more than B&D, but just a word of advice for those going to marine stores for rope...

There is such a wide selection of rope available, that you may be overwhelmed by all the pretty colors and styles. However, I believe it is important that you ONLY buy nylon rope. Nylon stretches a bit, whereas dacron and most of the newer synthetics (dyeema, etc) are specifically made to NOT stretch.

Nylon is usually sold as mooring and anchoring lines. You can still get a variety of colors, diameters, and styles (twisted, single-braid, double-braid...), especially in mooring lines. The bonus is that it's usually the 2nd-cheapest rope, after [slippery and mostly useless] polyethylene.

Interesting that you feel that way. We have plenty of nylon rope, but I really like the high tech rope used for sailing that doesn't stretch, in fact, if you pull the rope tight horizontally and let go of one end, it will not droop--it will stay up in space. I wish I remembered what material that was. EDIT: 10/1/18 -- I just found the spool and it says "Yale Cordage Racing Braid"

Regarding stretch, it is unlikely a human will get 1/4" or larger (we have up to 5/8" diameter rope) to stretch once they are restrained. I probably use 3/8" the most often. We have about 600 feet of rope in different lengths of braided and double braided rope. I don't like twisted rope because it isn't smooth.

A word about rope hygiene: since it frequently rubs against the vagina and anus, especially when formed into a harness, it should be washed in the washing machine if it becomes soiled with vaginal secretions, blood or feces.

Dog collars that have adjustable snaps .

I have nylon dog collars on my head board for hand restraints. The "locks" are plastic things that "click" loudly when you latch them. They are adjustable and can be quickly unlatched when done. There is rope running under the end of our mattress with larger dog collars on the ends for ankle restraints.

A dog collar should be the pinching choker type with prongs.

Like this http://www.amazon.com/Coastal-Pet-Hs-Prong-Collar/dp/B00HYEUA64/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1456453573&sr=8-1&keywords=pinching+choker+dog+collar

After all, there should be consequences for resisting or not staying still.

An idea I got many years ago and those who are good at sewing can make one of these. It fits under the mattress and out of view til needed and gives you 4 tie points.

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=gallery;ox=showalbum;ax=6755

There are many types of rope out there and rope people have there favorites but I disagree on using Nylon rope. I know some people are going to disagree but I learned about this from a rope expert and have used it myself and love it. This is a marine rope but feels like a cotton and is soft on the skin and holds knots very well and easy to undo the knots.

Sta-Set X

https://www.ropeinc.com/sta-set-x.htm

A lot of our rope is in the sta-set group. Very pretty too!

Two months ago my husband tightly tied me up with a harness made of red and green sta-set and said I looked like a wrapped christmas present. He played with his toy!

My Dom just made us a cross. It's just two 2x4x7 pieces of wood that he bolted together. He put bolts through the top so that he can use the soft rope that he uses on us to tie us to it. There's a bolt through the two pieces of wood that allows the wood to slide together to close so we can lay it down out of the way when he isn't here. We have wood floors, so he pulled the rug out from under the bed a little bit more so the bottom of the cross wont slide when we are tied to it. He also has mentioned making spreader bars for us as well, but he hasn't done it and I haven't about them for a while. Right now, I am the only one that he can tie to the cross right now because my friend had a total shoulder replacement done in December and she is still healing from that. That doesn't mean he goes totally easy on her though! 😄

A word to the wise on your friend's shoulder replacement--DON'T FUCK IT UP.

It will NEVER be anywhere as strong as a real shoulder. Don't abuse it and avoid undue tension on the joint. This includes hanging and even lifting or carrying heavy objects. It is different from replaced hips and knees which are weight bearing and are under compression when they are loaded. A shoulder is usually under TENSION when it is loaded and the tendency is to dislocate it.

I got all my homemade bondage items from the hardware store. Round wood dowel rods for spreader bars, various clips, straps etc for wrist and ankle cuffs. Always fun making new toys.

I think everything you need for a good (ie, nasty/kinky) sex life you can get at Walmart or Home Depot. You'll probably save a lot of money, too. Walmart should change their slogan to "Save money. Cum better."

You know those nice braided belts with the two rings sewn at the end? I got four matching ones at Old Navy for $2 each on close out a couple years ago.. You can do some very interesting things with those.. The least complicated being wrist restraints. Figure 8 ankle stirrup restraints are another easy possibility with these..and you can wear one as an actual belt as a reminder during non-kinky times of the kinky fun we had.

Hardware stores are great. Rope by the foot and Velcro can be so handy. Small dog collars can be transformed into cuffs...