Valentine's Day Plans

I'm kind of looking for some feedback and/or ideas. My husband and I are going to the beach and will be there for Valentine's Day.

A little background. We are both in our mid 50's been married for almost 25 years and the spark and desire just isn't that great anymore. He needs some help from the little blue pill and I've got the post menopausal slowdown. Sad to say I now get more pleasure from an enema. Back when we were still dating I told him about my love for enemas and he was excited to get into it for enjoyment and we both did share the experience of giving and receiving for a number of years. As time went on he was less into receiving, but still gives them to me when I asked. He probably hasn't had an enema in 8 years+ but gave me a nice one about two months ago. Also I'm a morning person and he's a night person which is great as it gives me the quiet time I love. You can probably guess what I occasionally do during my weekend quiet time while he sleeps in.

This is what I'm thinking about doing on Valentine's Day. At 9 AM I will bring him a cup of coffee wearing only a shear black teddy and wake him. I will sit on the side of the bed next to him and tell him since it's Valentine's Day I have some plans for a sensual day. I will tell him that I'm going to give him an enema so he is nice and clean and then he will shower after he expels. After his shower I'm going to give him head and massage his prostate with my finger (I've fingered him before but never massaged his prostate) and tell him this is why I want him cleaned out, but in reality I just really want to give him an enema. Then I will give him a warm oil full body massage. I'll also tell him that I will give him time to wake up and enjoy his coffee but he must give me an enema before I start his and then the rest of the time I will pleasure him. I've also just purchased an electric wand massage for me and a massager masturbator sleeve for it for him.

Any feedback and or suggestions would be great as I'm excited but very, very nervous about my suggestion.

What you describe sounds great to me!

Would that my wife could greet me in similar fashion...

A beautiful gift for your husband. He should love it. The black teddy is a lovely idea. Do you think some red accents for Valentines day might work? Listick, a flower in your hair, jewelry or high heels. Something that will go with that red rubber bag.

Sounds marvelous to me. You seem to have it all planned out wonderfully. I really don't have any suggestions to improve what you've already planned. I'm sure the greater majority of male enema enthusiasts on this forum, myself included, wished it was them. You wouldn't have any objections from me about giving me an enema(s). Good luck, good enemas and good sex. Please report back to us as to how is goes.

Theeny,

I hope your husband realizes how lucky he is to have you. I hope you both enjoy the day. I only wish it was me!

I think you have everything planned perfectly. Hope it all works out for you both!

No plans for any enemas.

We plan to take it a different direction completely.

I'll stick to reading my novel thanks.

We're having relatives come in from Boston. Our daughters will join us in the orgy, I mean eating, drinking and hanging out for the weekend. On Valentine's Day the girls will also have their boyfriends over for an early dinner with us before they go back to school. "The mouth" will have to leave earlier because she has a longer trip back to school and Princeton doesn't get off Presidents Day. Our other daughter, "The adventurer" gets President's Day off at NYU.

My boyfriend won't be able to come here (New Delhi , he is in Pune and distance is 1242 miles ) He has his semester exams on Monday and I have my clinicals even on Sunday i.e on valentine's day.

He sent me a courier. It was supposed to arrive on 14th but yay to fast courier service I got it today .

He has sent me platinum bracelet with someone's name embedded on it. That person died years ago of breast and bone cancer when i was in grade 8. I was very close to her.

Next thing ,he has sent me 5 letters .

1)"The letter when you think this relation is falling apart . Be a superhero and save it."

2) "The letter when I'm angry on you "

3) "The letter when he is angry on me "

4) The letter when I (me )think I have had enough.

5) The letter when you have doubts if we deserve each other . On the front page he has written in big letters that WE DO then inside he has explained ,why :'-)

And I have made him an oil painting on a big canvas. What I have painted is something very special for him.

Other then all these ,I am going to be working in Post-operative care from 8:30-5:30........

~Cookie

If he didn't enjoy this there is something really wrong with him. Care to share how it all worked out?

Ditto to what water wetter said,,,,,sounds like an amazing v-day,,,,my g/f and i both do enemas once in awhile but we have yet to give them to each other