First-timer!!! Advice on toys please!!!

I can fit a slim cucumber in my cunt. But I don't know how to stuff my ass. Can someone give me advice on that? Also, what kind of toys can you get from around the household? I want to start stuffing my cunt more, but I'm not sure what's safe. Lube is hard too. I usually read Zity Biz things until I get wet and everything slides in. I live with my family, so I can't be too suspicious!

The first, and most important thing is to lubricate your ass well. Put some KY or other lube on your finger and stick it inside of you and work it around. Do this two or three times to be sure you are totally lubricated. You can, and probably should, lube the object going in, but lubricating the hole is where to start. Then, depending on how large it is, proceed slowly, pushing it in the direction of your naval, and relax your sphincter and try to push against it. Again,the secret is to go slowly. Start with small objects that are not difficult or terribly uncomfortable and work your way up from there. Always remember that this is supposed to be an enjoyable experience and have a good time.hankb

So i want to start using anal toys for extended period of time. like when im going shopping or at work. basically like an all day thing. but i just dont know which one to get that will be comfrotable for all day. any specific toy reccomendations. looking for one with a small base i guess.

I think a good all day plug is either an nJoy plug or I like the Mood Naughty plug by Doc Johnson. Both fit nicely in your bottom crack and don't fall out easily. I'm sure others will weight on this, but those would be good choices for all day wear, even at work.

Try a Platinum Premium Silicone "Mini's Spade" (also by Doc Johnson) - in the medium size. Not too big, and certainly not too small.

Nina, my plug, the one in my profile pic, has a ball end and is curved. I've never found a more comfy plug. I found it on etsy. Yes really! Its from Luscious playthings. Great stuff!

In my opinion, the best plugs for long time retention have a long, thin area before the base. My fave for wearing for long term is a tantus ace - large size.

My altogether favorite is a devi prizm glass anal plug. It is about 2" in diameter at its largest, so it might be uncomfortable going in and possibly out. However, once in place, it is comfortable and I wear it for hours. Look around for the best price. I recently found them from $41 to $17, but $20-25 seems a common figure. Again, use lots of lube in your hole and be sure to aim it toward your belly button. I wiggle it around a bit to find the most comfortable position for insertion.

Enjoy it.

hankb