Blood during catheter use

I have been sounded many times no issues every time I use a catheter I end up with bleeding. I'm talking about blood on the end of the catheter and some dripping out of my urethra afterwards. The dripping stops after a few minutes but continues after peeing. The first couple of times I saw that I got little scared because everyone says it should not bleed that bad. It always stops after 15-20 minutes just some blood in the pee. It seems to be coming from the prostate area that is where the sounds don't really go past only used a straight sound. I even tried a small catheter FR10 to see if that made a difference it didn't. Not sure what I'm doing wrong I use lube. Should I stop using them no pain is felt during the catheter.

Satirpha, you definitely should not have ANY blood associated with catheterization. My advice to you is to stop what you are doing until you can better understand your anatomy. First and foremost, you should never use any force, either with a catheter or a sound, during insertion. I can't stress this enough. Although it might seem counterintuitive, you are more likely to cause bleeding and damage with a smaller catheter or sound, such as the 10FR catheter that you used. A small catheter or sound will more easily pierce the urethral mucosa, the prostate, or even the bladder. You are much less likely to cause damage with a 16 or 18 FR catheter (or larger) than something smaller, especially if it does not go in easily. I also want to point out that when you get the kind of bleeding that you described, the damage to the urinary tract can scar resulting in a stricture which is very serious and can lead to acute urinary retention or an inability to fully empty the bladder which can cause a UTI. Some mild strictures can be dilated in the office (not pleasant), some might need to be cut through in the operating room with you under anesthesia, and in the worst cases, the urethra needs to be repaired by cutting out the stricture and replacing the damaged tissue with a skin graft taken from the inside of your cheek. Bottom line is that you are doing something very wrong and need to refrain from causing additional damage.

That is why I'm asking so I can figure out what I'm doing wrong the FR10 I used my self had far less blood and bleeding then the FR16 which a mistress used on me both times lube was used and there was nothing forced other then the normal pushing in of the catheter. The FR10 I moved in and out some as it felt really good sliding though the prostate I only saw tiny amount of blood on the tip of it. Now another mistress I visited felt after she used some sounds on me that the bleeding was actually coming from the tip of the penis she said it looked like I had a narrow tip and might have not used enough lube at the top of the catheter. She worked different sizes of rosebuds and was able to stretch it some without any bleeding or pain. I would like to try a van buren sound in the prostate but little bit concerned. Maybe I should see a urologist to have it checked out.

Good idea to have it checked out. Better safe than sorry.

Now how do I explain why i'm at the doctors they will think nuts. I do have an over active bladder maybe that would get me there. I checked my insurance there is a woman Urologist in town could see her that would be fun.

I would suggest not to overthink how to explain this. Doctors (and I am one) have heard and seen just about anything you can imagine. An honest discussion will get you a correct assessment more quickly than any other approach and there should be no judgement by the doc. Male or female urologist makes no difference other than your personal preference.

I recommend you see a urologist, and be honest up front about the problem. If you're lucky there won't be anything unusual and she'll tell you to stop sticking things in the urethra. On the other hand maybe there's something in there that the catheter is jabbing and causing to bleed--something that needs removing before it gets worse. Maybe there's a treatable reason why the surface bleeds so much.

Me, I've catheterized myself a couple hundred times with 20-24 Fr catheters and gotten blood only once.

As Clint said I guess you've got to ask yourself one question. Do you feel lucky? Is it worth it?

Please see a urologist

I would set an appt. with your doc asap, it could be so many different thing going on.