Restraints to be used on a king size bed

Can someone suggest what might be the best way to restrain someone laying on a king size bed, so that there is very little to no movement available. The genital area needs to be accessible for play and intercourse while restrained. We have tried the post on each corner thing but that still allows for a great deal of movement.

Thoughts and experience is appreciated.

Http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=under+the+bed+restraint+kit&tag=googhydr-20&index=aps&hvadid=71726734346&hvpos=1t1&hvexid=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8527497348536915429&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=b&hvdev=t&ref=pd_sl_6f8bkqb4ed_b_p3

They're not heavy duty, but so long as your bottom isn't really trying to get loose, they're fine - and adjustable.

I bought a 4 point restraint system from the Lyon's Den in Ohio. It is a strap with 4 other straps that come off of it. The arm straps come up over the head part of the mattress and the ankle straps come up over the foot portion of the mattress. There are then cuffs that hook onto the clips on each strap that are very comfortable actually. But the straps tighten to as tight as you want them. And because they are coming up from under the mattress from the top and the bottom you can't move at all if the straps are tight. If I have him on his belly I stick a wedge under his belly which elevates his tush and allows his penis and balls to hang over the edge of the wedge giving me complete and total access. We both love this system and we always get a king sized bed. It will fit on any bed because the straps adjust to fit every bed. The system was dirt cheap too. I think it was less than 30 bucks, and it will last forever. Also, because of the way the clips work and what not you can do a thousand different things with it. Also all 4 cuffs come off so you can use them alone or with other things too. It really was a great buy and in our top 5 favorite pieces of equipment. I can't remember the name of the product manufacture, but the last time I was there they still had it, and I believe they probably have an online website that you can order from.

Okay, I just looked at Jds4med's link that he sent you. The third one down that is like 18 dollars is the exact set we have. It even says in the ad that the cuffs are soft. And they are. They are made out of the same durable material as the rest of the straps, but the are lined with a soft material. You can sort of see that in the picture. But for people that are not hanging from hooks or doing the really hard core stuff, this is the set you want! I believe it's from Hiti? We love it and for 18 dollars if you don't like it, you are not really out anything. But you can trust me on this, I would not steer you wrong. This is the set you want for the needs you have.

Hope this helps?

Mashie

Pretty much the same thing as those in the Amazon list.

BTW, I bought the same thing years ago from Spencer Gifts at the mall.

Thanks a bunch. We'll give it a shot.

You know Jds4med, not that this is on topic but you mentioned Spencer Gifts. I grew up remember in a very conservative Amish community and when we went to the mall we were never allowed to go into Spencers, or Water Beds and Stuff either for that matter. You know both of those stores carry naughty things. I'm 45 years old as of September, I'm kinky as hell, more than a lot naughty, and I still have not been into either one of those stores. I have no problem walking into a sex shop and I'm one of those customers who is vocal in there. It doesn't embarrass me one bit, lol. But I was also never told I couldn't go into sex shops because they were not mainstream stores in the mall either I'm guessing.

Aside from that little voice in the back of my head telling me my parents wouldn't approve, those two stores also sell drug paraphernalia and as a nurse I am totally against that sort of thing. Funny though how things from your childhood can still influence you as an adult, lol.

Mashie

Drug paraphernalia? Not recently. Spencer's sells tee shirts and novelties. I guess if you consider black lights and posters to be drug paraphernalia, OK.

Jds4med, now that I think about it I think you are right. Spencer's doesn't sell drug paraphernalia, but they do sell very naughty things and they have an "adult" section. Many of their things have very naughty hidden meanings and what not. I do know that Water Beds definitely sells drug paraphernalia, at least here in Ohio. Someday I will go in because I am a bad girl like that, but having so recently lost my mom, I think it might be a bit longer for me to be able to bring myself to walk into either of those, lol.

Mashie

I'm not familiar with the Water Beds store. Spencer sells mostly cheap beginner toys in the adult section. If you're into heavy bondage, the stuff they sell ain't it. If you want toys to experiment with, they are an inexpensive choice. They also sell things like sexy party games. They can be entertaining.

Yes exactly, Doc and I are light years past Spencer's items, lol.

Mashie

I've used it for kinky secret Santa.

Jds4med, lol, that's a brilliant idea. I will keep that in mind this holiday season, hehehe. Nothing better than a naughty Santa no?

Mashie

I've seen a rather intimidating head board with several well space opening and some rather heavy reinforced hardware for keeping someone from jumping of bed. Or doing anything else but take it and endure it. It was pretty sexy and exciting.

Some where in my "toy chest" I have a thing that you put between the mattress and box spring, is is laid out like # but much more I I I I and cross pieces then every so often one is extended so it hangs out and has a metal ring on it, they are long enougn to come up over the mattress so one could easily attach wrist or ankle restraints and then do as one would like with one's willing or unwilling playmate.

I found it especially usefull with a rubber sheet on the bed and two pillows in the middle and putting one's female playmate on the pillows face down arse up, wrists and ankles attached and everything one could want to play with easily accessible! :-)

I'm surprised I haven't seen this thread before.

Here is the best way to restrain someone laying on a king size (or ANY size) bed so that there is very little to no movement and keeping the genital area accessible for play and intercourse while restrained:

Two words: SCREW EYES.

The Amazon stuff is a TOY and will not fully restrain you. With no fixed fiduciary points of attachment, the restrained person will be able to move around by causing the straps under the bed to slide.

Our bed frame has six small screw eyes (three on each side) drilled into the frame. I think 3/16" diameter. They don't need to be big. You can pull on those all you want and you will not get loose. Two near the head of the bed for holding down the shoulders, arms extended or attaching to a neck collar, two in the center of the bed frame for attaching to a waist belt and/or wrists and two at the foot of the bed for leg or ankle restraints. I used those a few weeks ago when my girlfriends and I mummified my husband in Full Metal Jacket. You can use a spreader bad for additional restraint of the legs if you like.

You can use the screw eyes for running rope through them or attaching quick release snap hooks.

Screw Eyes: NO movement, NO possibility to escape.

For the DIYer and the Road Warriors out there, I like two simple pieces of rope that are a few feet wider than a typical mattress is wide. While traveling, you can slip the two pieces of rope between the mattress and box spring of hotel room beds. We simply start at the foot of the bed, we each have one end of the rope, and slide the first rope to the head of the bed for arms and the second piece near the foot of the bed for the legs. Wrist and ankle straps are nice to have but not necessary. You then simply tie the ends of the two pieces of rope to the hands and feet as deemed necessary as tight or loose as either party feels.

I custom built my head board so I have several anchor points. But you need to really stretch your partner to restrict the movement with that large a bed. Also rolled pillows under the hips help for access as well as the restricting of movement.. Just a suggestion.

I know someone that kept four lengths of rope always tied to the legs of her king size bed, always ready for when they were needed. She was going to Spain for a week and took them off. Her father was going to be checking on the house while she was away and did not want to have to explain what the ropes were for. 😉

I know someone that kept four lengths of rope always tied to the legs of her king size bed, always ready for when they were needed. She was going to Spain for a week and took them off. Her father was going to be checking on the house while she was away and did not want to have to explain what the ropes were for. 😉

My father has known I was a pervert since junior high school (I left ropes in places where they were obviously used as restraints) and my both my parents have known my husband and I are perverted deviants almost since we were married. They don't care and have never said anything to me. Of my two parents, I think my mother is the real sex maniac, and my father like most men was only too happy to satisfy her.

In a past life I had one of those "under the bed restraint" systems, but now have new a virgin queen size bed frame in need of an idea, and I've been considering mounting deck-type rings along the insides of the rails and head/foot boards. Out of sight, but there when wanted.

. . . . now have new a virgin queen size bed frame in need of an idea, and I've been considering mounting deck-type rings along the insides of the rails and head/foot boards. Out of sight, but there when wanted.

Have you read this post:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=788735

I don't think screw eyes will work on an IKEA frame made from soft core wood "material". That's why I was thinking of plate mounts.

Screw a steel plate 1 x 72 x 1/8" plate to each side and one 1 x 60 (or 72) x 1/8" to the head and foot of the bed. THEN drill holes in the plates and attach the screw eyes as I described above.

OR, if the Ikea wood frame is more than 2 x 2 inches in cross section, you could drill 3/16" holes through its center and place long screw eyes through it with no effective loss of frame strength.

For me when I get restrained in bed I don't know when I'll be let out . From the moment of being told bed time I know for many hours I'll be in bed unable to move . Toilet will be taken care of by nappy use and plugged for discomfort. While led there the only thing not bound is my imagination .

I've learnt to put myself in places where I'm free as to counteract my situation in bed. Only sometimes somebody has to come in & remind me of where I am normally with a face slapping or to make sure I'm stuck secure tight in bed . Often put in bed during daylight hours I lay there thinking when will darkness descend . If I wake when dark i tend to be disorientated as to where I am but reality soon let's me know .

I don't have any idea of when I'll be released but I'm normally greeted by somebody looking down at me with a stern look in their eyes. If I'm lucky the bedding gets pulled out from under the mattress and the procedures of my release is started. On some occasions that does not happen . She has come in with her strap on then I know it's nightdress up bloomers off nappy ripped off me as my bottom is made ready for drilling. What a way to be woken up !

This method totally immobilizes a person on a bed without attaching the person to the bed.

1. Get a sheet of ¾ inch plywood.

2. Have the person lie down on it with arms and legs outstretched in the desired position of immobilization.

3. Trace the outline of the person’s body on the plywood.

4. Cut out the outline with a saw, sand it, and paint it.

5. Put the plywood piece on the bed.

6. Put ropes, strips of tape, or preferably leather belts or restraints at various points under the plywood piece.

7. Have the person lie on the plywood piece, face up or face down.

8. Secure the restraints, tie the ropes, or tape the tape securely to bind the person tightly to the plywood piece.

For absolute immobility, secure all these body points: ankles, calves just below the knee, thighs just above the knee, thighs just below the crotch, hips, waist, chest (not too tight), arms just below the shoulders, arms just above the elbow, arms just below the elbow, wrists, neck (if desired and using a collar with rings), and forehead, (or the rings of a head harness with bondage rings.)

If you make the arms longer than actual length, and drill holes in their ends, you can bind the person to the plywood, and hang the person up on a wall. Fun!

Laying bound on a sheet of plywood sounds... Ouch

You could try some of Posey's Bed Restraint products. I think they can be adjusted to a large bed. These are what the professionals use to restrain patients. Some of their items will restrain the patient to the bed but still allow "access" . They are not cheap to buy though.

Laying bound on a sheet of plywood sounds... Ouch

Glue a sheet of high-density foam or memory foam to it...

My father in law and one of his colleagues went to a national dental implant meeting in Washington DC that ended yesterday. He drove home today with a colleague of his to share the driving, dropped him off at his house and came to our house to pick up his wife and to have dinner with us later. My mother in law came to stay with us for a couple of days since he wasn’t home. Yesterday, my husband. mother in law and I went into Manhattan, met up with our older daughter who lives there, saw a play, did some window shopping and had dinner. While we were there I bought a new ruffled bed skirt because the edges of the one we had were getting frayed by being sucked into the vacuum cleaner bristles.

The three of us came home around noon today and my mother in law went right upstairs with the new bed ruffle to see how it looked and I thought she just wanted to see how the colors looked in the room, but this was about to turn into one of those “memorable moments”. Being the great and truly helpful mother in law that she is, she pulled off the old ruffled bed skirt so she could help me put on the new one and she apparently got a good clear look at our naked bedframe and box spring. I was in my dressing room putting away my purse when I heard her say in a curiously slow, serious voice, “Suusaaan???” I said “what?” and it hit me what had just happened. She saw all the screw eyes drilled into the bedframe. She said, “what are all these things?” I couldn’t contain myself. She is a pathologist and no dummy. I said. “you know what they are, you just want to hear me say it.” She laughed and said “just don’t hurt each other” and “do the girls know about this? I told her, they knew since they were about 11 and 14. I asked her if she wanted to take a couple of ropes home. She declined my offer and then we put on the bed ruffle.

I’m curious to see if anyone says anything when the four of us have dinner later!

“Suusaaan???” I said “what?” and it hit me what had just happened. She saw all the screw eyes drilled into the bedframe. She said, “what are all these things?” I couldn’t contain myself. She is a pathologist and no dummy. I said. “you know what they are, you just want to hear me say it.” She laughed and said “just don’t hurt each other”

I'm only surprised you didn't give her a demo. Most people would at least blush, somehow I'll bet you didn't.