I have another thought on this issue and here it is. We seem to have two separate classifications of writers here on this topic.
Classification I - Some of us, many of us, perhaps most of us, and those posting here that want to have this issue, were bed wetters from (shall I say) day 1 of our lives. I am in this classification. I can't remember not having urinary incontinence issues (and, as I posted a day or so ago, I define incontinence simply as a urinary voiding event that one is simply unable to stop, can't post phone, can't avoid, you just empty your bladder having no ability to control the event). So my quote, normal life has been dealing with this issue end, quote. I have always all of my life had diaper issues. It simply is my norm. I can however, to some extent, avoid this drama IF I closely watch my liquid intake, etc et al. That is to say, I can go periods where this is not a major drama in my life. No liquids after 5pm in the day. I can make it through the night without wetting the bed. If I have carefully 'toilet mapped' a venue (knowing where the toilets are so I can rush there IF I sense a voiding about to happen) I can get-away without a diaper.
Classification II - Totally normal (never had serious bed wetting problems) people who, because of a life event, an accident, have become incontinent. People who basically NEVER EVER had diaper issues. Those contributors are the ones who write, quote, be careful of what you wish for, end quote.
From day one of my adult life, that is, from that day in my life that I, and only I, made the decision(s) do I wear a diaper or don't I wear a diaper, I have been aware of the cost(s), the inconvenience (YES it is a real issue to change ones self in a tiny airplane toilet !!) etc et al of wearing and using diapers.
But, and I speak totally and only for myself here, my life is infinitely better when freely using diapers. YES I have a wife. YES I am married. YES, I have actually had three wives. Yes they all have known of my issues. Yes my doctors also know. YES my friends know. All things considered, my life is better when I go to an athletic event wearing diapers so I can sit and enjoy the entire event. YES it is difficult to take a spare diaper. YES boarding an airplane it can be an issue when the security people find my diapers and plastic over pants in my carry on luggage. When they pat-me-down and can feel I am wearing diapers and over pants. Yes I fly long haul, 15-hour, flights over the Pacific Ocean. YES it is NOT always easy or convenient. It is a mess to change in a toilet somewhere. NO it is NOT always fun but it is what it is.
So, IF you want this, be careful certainly, because you may get incontinence. It may not be for everyone but it certainly seems to be for me.
Make it your most important thing in your life. Decide you are going to wear diapers and do so. IF someone doesn't like it. So be it move on. Over and Out. Well at least for now. My life is much better wearing and accepting diapers as a necessity.