Was anyone forced to wear diapers? At friends, relatives

Yes, I was once at a sleepover in 1986 see my reply to has anyone been diapeered other than for bed wetting, for more information.

The word forced is a strong adjective but when my wetting returned my wife left no room to wiggle been in them about 30yrs.

I always hear about the “forced to” and really do wonder what that must have been like. You are wetting, can’t help it, in grade school, and before bed, begging them not to, your clothes were to come off, lay on bed, and diapers with powder went on you no matter how you felt about it. Then, you are roaming around in diapers in front of everyone till morning, Wow.

However, not with diapers, but I had something else back then, really happen to me, that I was 100% forced to do, that I never really got over.

Parents traveled for about 5 days. Summer I had just turned 10!, 10!, starting 5th grade in the Fall. Usually, stayed with grandmother when parents were gone but she went with them. So, I stayed with aunt, uncle, and my cousin, Sean, who was only a year younger, was about 9!

Did not realize my aunt and uncle were real strict. Here it comes.

After dinner, NOT JOKING, my uncle announces, boys get upstairs and get ready for YOUR BATH. I froze. Turned to my uncle, “oh uncle Rick, I don’t take baths, I always take showers. He replied in a very direct voice, “NOT IN THIS HOUSE”

Like a stream of electricity went through me. Me and Sean, at age 9 and 10 years old!, marched upstairs into his bedroom, both striped out of all our clothes, and both walked completely naked at 9 and 10 years old, into bathroom with running bath water, where both aunt and uncle were standing next to tub, and we were instantly instructed to both climb in to the tub naked together. We were given the bath. My aunt watched, standing watching quietly, as my uncle pretty thoroughly bathed the 2 of us boys. We were both, one at a time, towel dried by my uncle. Then, both walked completely naked back to his room to get on our underwear and PJs.

H U M I L I A T I N G. We were both several years waaaaay too old to be given baths together like that. Even if we were both half that age at 4 1/2 and 5, it’s still could be considered too old! We were 9 and 10!

Now looking back on it, I’m surprised I was not marched into a room and Pampers put on me. Something tells me had this possibly happened just a few years earlier, that might have been an actual possibility with my aunt and uncle. Hmmm..both me and my cousin at 6 and 7, definitely a chance. My cousin and I roaming around there together in Pampers. Now, could totally see that for real staying THERE at the time. Never got over it. Sorry, not the norm, even for back then. Plus, the very few I admitted that story to over the years, and obviously, it has not been many, are shocked when they hear it. Not normal.

Something like this happened when I was just newly potty trained. Although it wasn’t forced. I went to stay with my aunt for a week. She had two kids a one year old and a 3 and a half year old. Both of them were still in diapers.

I remember my aunt would sometimes change their diapers at the same time. She would always joke with me and tell me I was next. Then she would say oh I forgot you are a big boy now. I would joke with her and say I’m not a big boy I’m a baby, I need a diaper. This was a running joke with us, but I was really jealous of my cousins. I really wanted to wear diapers.

The first few days I really amped it up. Every diaper change I was telling her I wanted to wear diapers. Also every time I went to the bathroom I was telling her too. Even telling her while she wiped my bum for me. I’m sure she got tired of hearing it, but she played along. She would say oh you do, do you? Stuff like that. I never would have been so persistent with anyone else. This aunt kind of spoiled all of us kids and I was her favorite.

After a few days we went shopping. I think we were at Kmart or some similar store. She bought us each a toy and let me pick out some snacks. We grabbed some other stuff then ended up in the diaper isle.

She grabbed diapers for my two cousins and put them in the cart. Then she looked at me and said something about do you really need some diapers baby? Of course I wasted no time saying yes over and over again. She laughed and grabbed a small bag of xl huggies. We checked out and went home.

After dinner she gave us all a bath. After we dried off she grabbed our jammies. I noticed that she had three diapers when she brought them over and I got so excited. After she diapered my cousins it was my turn. As she was diapering me she told me that this was just for play and I still had to be a big boy. I said ok. We played for a little bit then went to bed. I couldn’t believe I was wearing a thick crinkly diaper again. It was so loud and bulged under my pjs.

In the morning when we woke up I had to pee. I soaked my diaper while I played with my cousin. When my aunt changed my cousins diaper she asked me if I had to go to the bathroom. I said no and she came over and checked my diaper. She saw what I did and said these are just for play. I told her that I must’ve wet the bed. She just laughed and reminded me I was really a big boy while she changed my diaper. When I got dressed I remember my shirt being short and my diaper plainly hanging way out the back of my pants.

As I said my aunt spoiled me and was definitely out to please. So I pretty much just peed my diaper when ever I had to go and was changed with my cousins. She even stopped reminding me I need to be a big boy after a few times. I ran around like a big toddler with a diaper on. This went on for a few days.

I was only brave enough to poop once though. I was pooping before bath time ever day when my diaper was taken off. I think this is part of the reason she didn’t care that much. She was changing two other diapers anyway.

Towards the end of the week. The diapers were pretty much gone. It was only one small pack. I decided I might as well take advantage. My cousins were playing together on the floor. Me and my aunt were playing a bored game sitting across from each other.

I think we were talking about our favorite cartoons or something. It was almost bath time and I really had to poop. I got up and stood next to my chair. My aunt was still talking to me while I started to poop my diaper right in front of her. I kept talking to her trying to play it off. Eventually she noticed something was wrong. I guess I was making a weird face and let out a little grunt while we were talking. She asked me what was wrong and I said I’m pooping. She said oh you have to poop? I said no I’m pooping my pants. She just shook her head and let me finish.

Well she was not too happy about that. She told me weren’t playing any more baby stuff, this was too far. She did change me into a new diaper until bath time though. I think it was just because my butt was stinky and I needed a bath to be truly clean. I was disappointed but we were out of diapers anyway. I did briefly ask for more, but she said no, no more. The rest of my stay was normal and I gave up asking for diapers.

She gave me plenty of talks and big boy reinforcement the rest of the time. I still had fun, but wished I was still in diapers like my cousins. I don’t think she told my parents and I know I didn’t because I thought I’d be in big trouble. I was starting school soon a was supposed to be a big boy.

Reading some accounts on here I prob just should have started having accidents to get put back in diapers. I didn’t think of that at that age with my aunt. All I had to do was hound her a little though! I think she thought of the whole thing as a game, but I loved it! That was the last time I wore diapers before I started borrowing /stealing or making them.

In a previous post I talked about the year from 7-8 and my bed wetting this post brought to mind a couple of times right around then.

One of them was when I was at my aunt's and I was around my cousins who were all older than me and that first night my aunt, who probably was told by my mom, that I had just recently stopped wetting the bed told me that I was going to have to wear diapers at night. I was mortified, I just knew that my cousins were going to tease me.

I have always loved this aunt, she told me that she would come into my room after I went to bed and put the diapers on me and not tell the others. So for a whole week I would say good night to everyone and in a little while my aunt would come into my bedroom and lay out the diaper put some baby powder on the diaper and put some rash cream on me then I would sit down on top of the diaper and have her put the pins on then pull up the diaper pants.

I must admit that I did feel much better for this, because I still once in a while wet my bed and I'm sure that my cousins would have know about that. So my secret was safe and I got to wear diapers again.

Another time was not as fun. I was at a friend's house for a sleep over, there were 4 or 5 of us and just before bed time my friend's mom came in and told 3 of us, me included, that it was time for us to get into our diapers. I turned red and said that I no longer needed to wear diapers but she insisted and so there i was being put into diapers in front of my friends. I was teased afterwards but not by the friend who invited me to sleep over.

It was just as well that I was in diapers because I woke up soaked, and that would have been far worse than being in diapers.

When I was in the hospital in a DD Ward as a kid if you wouldn't shut up they put you in isolation and there wasn't a toilet or anything so you had to wear a diaper.