GF agreed to spank me, how should it be done?

I'm not sure if this is an allowed post, but please help plan this, she can't decide how to do it.

My current girlfriend has agreed to spank me (I'm usually the dom but like a good spanking regularly, so I suppose I'm more of a switch) after I kept her awake the other night when she had work the next morning. Normally she's in bed by midnight, but I kept her awake talking until 3:15 am. She thinks that one stroke per minute past midnight is a fair punishment (I tend to agree), so it looks like I'm to receive 195 strokes. My question to the community is this: how should these be delivered? OTK, tied to bed (we have restraints), holding knees, or some combination? Also, with which implement? We have her hand (obviously), a riding crop, a ruler, a small wooden paddle, and I can get a short OTK cane if necessary. Should I be made to count the strokes? Blindfolded? Gagged? How should I be punished after? Corner time?

She gets spankings from me quite often, usually for burning dinner or forgetting laundry. I used to just give her 25 (on each cheek) otk with my hand, but lately shes been bratty about it so she gets 20 otk with my hand, then 10 with the crop and 10 with the paddle.

Thanks

There are so many variables here there is no way anyone can give you a meaningful reply.

The number of spanks, the hardness of spanks, bindfolded, gagged, restrained, etc., make it impossible to give a meaningful answer.

One of the things I like to use on my husband are sail battens (thank you again, West Marine). They have a constant width over their length, but their thickness varies from thin to thick on opposite ends. The thin end stings, the thick end hurts like hell and the pain goes deep. This just an example of why it is hard to tell you what to do.

As Susie said, this is a big subject. There are entire books about erotic spanking. You could research those books on amazon, and perhaps buy one from amazon or wherever you prefer to get books.

I just think it is interesting that you have been spanking your girlfriend and never looked into "how should it be done" until now, when you are the one getting spanked.

I know how I normally spank her, but I usually vary how it's done with her based on what I feel, but she doesn't want to decide how to spank me specifically so I wanted to seek community input on this situation. Thanks for the tips! I welcome any other replies as well!

To make it interesting you could put the names of the different objects to spank you with on a piece of paper in one hat. Then put the different positions on you could be spanked in on pieces of paper in another. Draw a piece of paper from each hat to get your spank on.

Sounds like you guys broke it down well. Just tell her to put on cute underwear and grab an implement. She is a smart girl,, she will work it out

It is your spanking, do it how you want. Or how she wants.

None of us here can tell you what you want. By the simple fact that you posted the question here says you are not fully on board with her idea. The sub runs the show, so just do it.

I would start with otk..it is very intimate.

Have her spank you with her sandals or flip flops 😃

I'm usually the spanker in my house. But, once a month I get a spanking. The role reversal is challenging. But we finally made it work (and it has for years) with a bit of trial and error. First, we found a paddle that is effective for her to use (we actually ended up with a bathbrush). Second, we found a color in a paint chart that seemed proper for a well spanked butt (it's actually quite red). And third (and most importantly and most difficult) I've shut up while she'd spanked me to the agreed upon color... not offering advice, not whining, just shut up (we keep a bar of soap handy as a reminder of the need to not interfere). It has proven very, very effective.