Couples: During a session with you partner, do you play a role or yourself?

For married or long time partners: when you play together, do you assume a role (fantasy person) or do you play yourself?

No. But we do assume attitudes that we do not have outside of play, in the same way that in vanilla sex people do things they would not do in normal circumstances (for instance my wife never uses vulgar words like "cock" outside of sex).

Usually my wife and I are just ourselves - but not always.

There are times when we pretend to be a couple meeting for the first time and act like we are having a one-night stand. Actually it's an idealised version of a one-night stand, and not very realistic having been together as a couple for years and knowing each other so well in every way - but we do enjoy the chatting, the flirting and pretending we are just getting over the introductions.

Thanks Pecan nutjob. I like the explanation of the additional activities/attitudes you take on when you are playing, and the analogy with vanilla sexual behavior!

Dr Z: thanks for responding. Just another question to better understand how you play: for what purpose do you invite her for a medical session? Have fun, checkup, sexual pleasure, anything else in mind?

Just another question to better understand how you play: for what purpose do you invite her for a medical session? Have fun, checkup, sexual pleasure, anything else in mind?

It's a little bit of all of those things. There is a serious side to it though. Although I never studied medicine formally, I do know how to properly perform a breast exam on my wife. I think my background makes me very tactile, and my familiarity with how my wife's breasts should look and feel means I am well placed to notice any changes, anything that doesn't seem quite right. She routinely does the same with my testicles, so it works both ways.

It depends. Sometimes yes, we pretend to be someone else in a role play. Other times we're just us playing.

This is a very fun question and thanks for asking it.

For Doc and I it's a bit complicated, sorta kinda but not all that much, lol. Because Doc and I are real medical professionals we do roll play but we roll play by being our true medical selves and or either a younger version of ourselves or as the submissive patient.

For us whoever is the one doing the exam they are the Dom. And whoever is the patient is the sub, naturally. When we play the Dom he plays the doctor and I play the nurse. This is what we do for a living but in play we are a lot more stern than we can be with our real patients, lol. And when we play the patient again we are still ourselves but we are either younger or play a bad patient that needs to have the doctor or nurse put them in their place.

Either or we love both roles because both of us are complete switches. Again after this post I think I need another cold shower. Boy I have been taking a lot of cold showers lately, lol.

Mashie

Once in a while when the spirit moves us we agree to have one go to a bar and later get picked up by the other. Then we go to a motel and act as though we are first timers. Not always realistic as we have been together for a long time but still a nice variation.

Realblueyes, I think what you do is so so so sweet and romantic. We have talked a time or two and you are always such the gentleman.

Mashie

[color=#000000][b]Once in a while when the spirit moves us we agree to have one go to a bar and later get picked up by the other.[/b][/color] Then we go to a motel and act as though we are first timers. Not always realistic as we have been together for a long time but still a nice variation.

[color=#000000]I have always loved this scene.[/color]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7rLLZ5tTdU

Oh that was a classic, Susie. I loved it. Thanks!

Nice scene, never seen that movie! But interesting suggestion... :-)

Ha. This sort of scene is actually quite similar to how my wife and I pretend to have a one night stand. Sometimes I will approach her in a bar, and other times she will approach me.

Just as in this 'Four Christmases' scene, sometimes she will play hard to get but won't be quite as fiery and rude as the girl here. She likes to be a little unpredictable, sometimes making me work harder to win her over.