Help needed

Right, I have a major stething fetish and my boyfriend knows, he has even let me use it on him during foreplay and sex. The problem is lately I am feeling really embarrassed to even pick it up or say the word "stethoscope" the worst part is he keeps mentioning it and has even expressed an interest on using it on me, I just can't get passed this. Everytime he takes off his shirt I just want to hold him down and use it.

I know its a weird one but if anyone has a suggestion to help me get my confidence up with this I would appreciate it;

Start with talking about it with him when both of you are dressed and not in a sexual mood.

Azalealake You have the perfect opportunity to really sit down and talk to him about your sething fetish as you said he:

keeps mentioning it and has even expressed an interest on using it on me, I just can't get passed this.

This would indicate to me that he is very receptive to the idea of participating and accepting this activity. I know it can be difficult to bring up this topic but as he has been asking about it , as Jds4med has suggested "Start with talking about it with him when both of you are dressed and not in a sexual mood.". You could always ask him if he has any activities that he would like to explore. That way you wont feel as you are the only one that may have a fetish/kink and may lessen the feelings of embarrassment that you mentioned. Its always beneficial to talk and discuss things openly in any relationship, that way things can get resolved before it becomes a problem.

There is a similar thread about telling a partner about your medical fetish that may offer a good prospective and give you some insight into solving your dilemma. Hope you find a solution http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=5636.

Just talk to him. Be honest. I'm sure he will be very understanding. He obviously loves you very much and wants to make you happy.

Men are usually very eager to fulfill a fetish from a female as long as it does not involve them being anally penetrated with a big object. Men don't get as many requests to make a woman happy. If they are smart they will do whatever it takes to please you.