Punishment Ideas

I often use: https://www.sadomaso-chat.de/default.asp - but is mostly in German

What exactly is a DD relationship, a Dom and a sub living together or married? Where the sub agrees to a certain number of punishments and reasons for them? Or are punishments just meted out at will without cause? Are the punishments intended to be erotic or not? I'm just curious as I'm a Switch and like to do certain things alike enemas mixed with other kinks as a sub to my Domme switch, but everything's intended to ultimately be erotic. Thanks,

Eric

A DD relationship is similar in some ways to a Dom/sub relationship but is based at least in theory on Domestic Discipline and not Kink.

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My husband and I do spank each other depending on the scene, but I will tell you if he ever tried to pull Domestic Discipline shit on me because of something he thinks I did or did not do, I would punch him in the face as fast as I could get a good swing out. My father taught me "no-rules" fighting when I was around ten years old, and I would not stand for any Domestic Discipline shit. If he wants me to change something, he can talk to me.

Lucky for him, he is smart enough to know not to pull such a dumbass stunt on me.

I'm a believing Christian, Episcopal, and have been all my life. And I have no real knowledge of the tenets of DD practice in supposedly Christian households. But I have a very skeptical view of some things I read because it sounds eerily similar to a male bully making up excuses for infractions every time he gets angry and wants to take it out on his wife or kids.

My ex-wives x2 and I had plenty of arguments and kinky sex which we enjoyed, and my 2nd ex wife frankly told me completely by surprise one day that she wanted to be sexually submissive to me and especially to give her enemas. But neither ex-wife nor I would have tolerated the notion of her being corporally punished every time I thought they needed attitude adjustments. I would have probably had even faster divorces and maybe jail time. Spanking as part of an enjoyable D/s evening with enemas would have been fine, but none of us ever expressed an interest in erotic spanking.

Eric

Love Switches way with words 😃

I enjoy a sound spanking as much as the next girl if not more so but as a consensual part of play /sex not for everyday rules in a relationship.

I'm a believing Christian, Episcopal, and have been all my life. And I have no real knowledge of the tenets of DD practice in supposedly Christian households. But I have a very skeptical view of some things I read because it sounds eerily similar to a male bully making up excuses for infractions every time he gets angry and wants to take it out on his wife or kids.

Yeah, personally if I was doing this it would have to be laid out in advance and would have to result in possible consequences for both of us. I don't have any clue how it could legitimately work with only the wife being beaten. If it were happening honestly with me I'm sure I'd be getting it much more often than my wife.

I could see it as a "reset" for me as well, but that is somewhere between discipline and fetish. Also definitely as fetish.

I just came across this thread . Interesting , I'm in a sub / Dom relationship, and have been for a lot of years. But from what I'm reading here most of the subs are women, I'm not. My wife is in charge. She is strict but fair . This is a seconded marriage for both of us. She had come out of a abusive marriage with the help of her mother. She let me know right away that she was not going to be abused ever again, and is I was interested in marriage there would be rules. She explained that I would be punished for miss deeds , and that was that. That I would have to trust her judgement in any disciplinary matter, and cooperate, or the door was there for me to leave.

It started off fine, we do love each other. At first when I miss behaved it was a otk hand spanking on the bare behind. She did hurt, but not bad enough to cry, I would lay there and submit. But as the years passed the punishment got more intense . My wife teaches art. On day in her art studio/ class room there was derived a antique spanking block. you have seen them, a solid box that is lower in the front then the back with four stout legs that have straps attached to hold a bad boy securely in place as he was bent over the block with his ass high in the air. I found myself strap and laying over the box many times. Then one day she brought in a friend to witness my punishment.

I don't know where it will go from here, but I will cooperate.

I don’t understand the whole idea that punishments need to be corporal, physical impact punishments. This may just be me - corporal punishment isn’t really a kink of mine beyond the loss of control element.

The other thing with corporal punishment is that once it hurts it just hurts. Yeah, you can break skin and cause savage welts if you want, but once you have reached that stage there is nowhere else to go without really doing permanent damage. What is 200 cane strokes if you’ve already taken 100? (I’m being extreme to make my point)

Punishments can be much more creative. Enemas have been mentioned already. The variables available there make for much more interesting punishments: solution type and strength, volume, retention time, number of enemas. Each infringement could lead to a change of each variable. A stronger solution. A longer retention. A bigger enema. The possibilities are much greater and for that reason the sub can be much more intimidated by the prospect of the punishment.

One of the toughest ‘punishments’ I receive is a daily cock edging. I’ve been in chastity for over two years with no orgasm. Every day I get restrained before my cage is removed and then my girlfriend edges me as many times as she wants, or just teases me and plays with me. She has had me literally crying with desperation and frustration many times. Absolutely no physical pain is involved in this but it is brutal on so many other levels. Denial can be much more effective than giving something.

I guess my point is, there’s many, many creative ways to punish someone and it really needn’t involve corporal punishment.

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Good punishment-ideas??? Well, first you´d get a thermometer into your rectum without cream. After that 2 dulcolax-suppositories, slowly, very slowly, so that each suppo is melting a bit in your anal channel. It will burn quite well. After that the finger of the master/examiner/treatment-actor fully into you, to push up the suppos very high/deep. Then you get an enema with 2 Liters of soap-solution slowly into your belly. If you need a very hard punishment, you get some air combined with the enema into your colon. That will do it, for sure!! And at the end you become a big, fat plug. -- After this prcedure , I think, you will be punished very very successful!

Did you ever become air into your colon in combination with an clyster or enema???

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I've been wondering about the same thing, I love creative and elaborate punishment ideas.

Punishment is psychological, so you have to get into the recipient's head.

What you say frames it. The same simple spanking for pleasure can be made into punishment if the mood is set right.

Rectal temperature, Figging, Mouthsoaping, Cornertime naked holding coin to wall with your nose and having thermometer registers in your bottom..while having a very sore striped bottom…the focus is insane. Writing lines, Kneeling on rice, Castor oil.

Some ideas that my Mommy/Mistress uses on me.

Due to being in a LDR with Sir, my typical punishments are time out in the corner, writing lines, or certain poses/photos that I despise (but agreed to do as as a form of punishment). For me punishments mean that whatever I did wrong, is over and forgiven and have found it easier to move past the transgression. One time I realized I hadn't taken my meds-I usually take them in the morning and it was now early evening. I texted him about it. His response was if I felt like I should be punished I was to do a particular pose. He also wanted to know what I was thinking about, what was going on in my mind (I had been very stressed). I immediately sent him the photo. And now typing this has me realizing it's 9:17 am and I haven't taken my meds yet. LOL. You can guess the next thing I'm going to do.