Help and Advice.

I have some water based lube and latex gloves. I tried fingering myself last night, but I couldn't get it in. I tried again today from a different position and it was better. it went in, the sensation was a little scattered but the sensations I felt were

1. Weird

2. Okay

3. Nothing

Keep in mind this is my first time fingering myself though not my first time period "it's my second".

My first was at a doctors office getting a checkup, and she just shoved her whole finger in there, I was really shocked actually. That again was a weird but somewhat okay feeling. Thing is I want it to feel great.

Now it's harder to finger myself than it is to have someone else do it, but I don't have anyone else right now, so just me.

Is just a finger not enough too feel a great sensations, just alright or meh? How do i perform better, make it easier, and make it far more pleasurable?

I do want to buy some but plugs at some point too, would that help?

I definitely recommend getting some butt plugs/dildoes. You can find some that are quite small at your local adult products store or on the net, and they worked really well for me getting started. I tried fingers, but the position is awkward at best, and it's hard to get your sphincter to relax because your body is in sort of a contorted position anyway. I bought a set with three sizes--make sure they have an indentation at the base so that your asshole can grab onto it once it's inside (you don't have to hold it there). Then you can leave it there for a while as you go about your business. Your asshole will gradually learn to relax as you keep it in there. I got to the point where I couldn't tell I had it in, so it was time to go to the next larger size etc. I would never have believed that I eventually could get a 2-inch diameter dildo in my ass, but I can do it now and I love the full feeling and the push against my prostate. Hope this helps. Good luck!

Thanks a ton. These are the pair of but plugs I planned on ordering.

http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Silicone-Butt-Plug-Kit/dp/B0020MHKFO

Will these work?

Explore your curiosity. You may really enjoy it, or it may not be your thing, you never know until you try.

Being nervous and a bit unsure the first few times is normal, because this is an activity that's new to you.

Be safe, use lots of lube, and wash up everything including your hands when done.

Those butt plugs should be perfect. Start small and work your way up when your sphincter is so relaxed that you don't notice pain or pressure. Remember to use a finger to lube inside before you insert the butt plug, and use plenty of lube on the butt plug itself. I hope you have as much fun as I do--good luck!

Thanks, as for the lube thing. I got this

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0052Z8VAE?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=ox_sc_act_title_2&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER

1. Weird

2. Okay

3. Nothing

But still something that trigger you mind to keep going on and even post an issue here. Just keep exploring and listening to all the good advices in this site.

Agree with others. Get good lube - sounds like you've done that. Masterbate for awhile, tease your hole with the plug while you masterbate then slowly insert. You'll soon find nirvana!

So I finally had my first go with my but plugs a few nights ago. I played it safe and used the smallest size of the three (2") the largest is 3".

1. I actually wasn't planning on using them at all, I just put on a glove and tried fingering myself with my middle finger this time, and ran into a similar problem, with the positioning and all just being awkward, so I decided to try them out that night.

2. I took my enema bulb and then used it to clean myself out. I'm surprised it took only a little bit of warm water and I was empty after that. No problem. The only slight issue is that the end of the bulb feels kinda sharp against the anus and it kinda hurts to put in, but once it's in it's fine.

3. Use lube launcher too apply lube deeper into myself and on the outer rim too.

4. I used the smallest but plug and I stayed on my side, it went in easily.

So how was it? Well it was just sort of there. I'd say ok at best so far.

To be fair it might just be the size of the but plug, and maybe I just need to keep practicing so I can get that real sensation that everyone loves. I played around with that for a few minutes before I finally stop. That enema worked extremely well, because I didn't find a trace of feces anywhere (I stilled washed it though).

Anyone have any more advice to get that great sensation?

I get more pleasure from bigger plugs. Just keep at it till you can get the bigger ones in there!

So I just did it again. i think the problem is that I might need a bigger size. The 2" just doesn't go in far enough. So I guess I'm going to use the 2.5" in order to go far enough and stretch enough to get the real sensation.

Just to be sure, is this the right thing to try to feel the pleasure? Or is there something else i'm missing?