What were the main reasons you proposed to your wife, or husband

We have been together for 44 years, married 38 years. When I first met my wife she was like no other 22 year old woman I had ever met.. Head strong,, outspoken, " no filters" & independent. Of course the sex was great, and she could "Cook in the kitchen as well as the bedroom"!

The came the spankings! I brought home a paddle and asked her to spank me, she took to it " like a duck to water"! That was when I knew that I wanted to marry her, we both get very sexually excited when I am spanked! Soon after this ( it was my first "Sex Spanking" she proposed to me!

The rest as they say is history. I also get spanked as punishment, or just when she decides that I have not been submissive enough.

Great story. Lucky you.

Oh, another thing, My daughter is also a take charge woman, my wife mentioned to me her husband is "afraid" of her, "She married her father"! She knows that I get spanked by her mother...........................

38 years ago yesterday we were married, I am sure I will get a reminder spanking soon to keep me in line, and or as foreplay.....

When I was 14 I asked my father who was married to mom for 24 years at the time, when do you know you have met the right woman.

He told me "When you meet a woman that you feel you can't go through the rest of your life without and she feels the same way it is time to get married."

I knew my wife for three weeks when I asked her to marry me. We have been married through thick and thin for 39 years.

I guess Dad was a wise man.

We got on well. She had gorgeous legs; since I was 14, I loved girls with good legs, she loved me to watch them and gave me nice leg tease shows. She suggested I smack her bottom, I had always been fascinated by spanking, but never tried it. She had a nice pert bottom, perfect for spanking. How could I not propose? She was not interested in spanking me, which I would have liked, but there you go.

I had been married before to a lovely woman, but I could never tell her I like to wear diapers and rubber pants, because I was sure she would never approve and more likely kick me out. As you can no doubt guess, the urge to be diapered only became stronger since I was seldom able to wear them, basically when I traveled on business. After 25 years we agreed to divorce, although diapers was not the main reason. Once we separated I started wearing diapers and rubber pants more and more, and try to meet girls who might accept my diaper life. I finally met a girl at a bar and grill and after a couple of dates, told her about long history with diapers. She ended up being fine with me wearing diapers and rubber pants as much as I wanted, and wetting them. Truthfully she also reminded me a lot of my mother who diapered me until I was 17. She was about the same age as my mom was when I was a teen bedwetter and had to be diapered. Similar build, shapely, boobs on the larger side and big nipples and areolas. Over time our marriage has only gotten better and I get to wear diapers as much as I want.

I readily accepted my husband's marriage proposal when he got down on one knee. When we started to get serious, his sister told me that he was on the submissive side. I then got to witness had a few strappings that she gave him over his white briefs. After we got engaged, I informed him that all of his strappings and other spankings would be on his bare behind, whether or not his sister was present! It has continued this way for over 30 years!

Sounds like a dream life.

We had been dating for a year or two. We had become good friends, I did not think anyone else would want me.

Despite sex only being once week or so I thought it would increase.

I do need to add that we were living together for 6 years before we were married!!! She asked me “Are we getting married, my ”Clock is running out" and I want to have a baby? I answered YES! ( I previously had my heart broken when my fiance broke our engagement to marry my ex best friend)