What makes us have this fetish?

What makes us have this fetish?

I like the life when child...no stress,no tension,no worry.

The main thing is the way it makes us feel. Just helpless, the letting it all go- plus the feel itself so thick between the legs - that alone could make you come. I do know that it is so addictive...the feelings are much stronger now than when i first discovered I liked them...I wear them 24/7 - just for pleasure more than anything...not that I don't need them sometimes... 😄

For me, I was always into female domination and being submissive so when I came across this fetish, it really turned me on. At first I couldn't get enough, but after awhile I started to feel guilty about having these feelings. However, since discovering there are so many other people out there that share this fetish, through such sites as this one, it has only helped me in realizing their is nothing wrong with this fetish and to enjoy what turns me on.

I really don't know why myself.

For me, it's really a sexual thing; I'm not into the helplessness stuff. I've always grown up associating diapers with feeling good. When I was a kid I always thought diapers felt really good. A friend and I actually found this out when we were like 6 years old and found some Huggies in a closet in his house. We both dared each other to put them on and we found that they felt really good so we would go down to the basement and put diapers on occasionally.

So you know over the years I figured out masturbation and tried it with diapers and found out how good that felt. Now that I'm a ton older, it's just a combination of a lot of stuff: the fact that I'm using a baby diaper, the fact that it feels really good, and all the other things about the diaper (like its smell and the noise) are all turn-ons.

For some reason, baby diapers are the only diapers that really work for me. I think it's because I've grown up around them and using them, and I also think of them as more "clean" than adult diapers. I kinda look at adult diapers differently; it kinda grosses me out when I think about them (sorry adult diaper people! no offense to you at all!) because I think of really really old people with bladder control problems when I see them. But that's just me.

Having just started wearing diapers, I have yet to have an erection while wearing them. It's after taking them off is when it becomes a sexual thing. My only regret is that it took so long to start wearing them. The reason I love wearing them is the wetness and how they feel when they are full. 😁

Wow!

I saw myself in so many of your comments, this one in particular...

"That's how I got started. I've had times, like a lot of us diapers lovers, where I throw all my diapers out and swear I will never put them on again. Then a week or month or maybe two months I get the urge again. I tried to fight it but to no avail."

I went at least a month without diapers, then I bought some and

started again. My fabulous wife, who doesn't know, will be going out of town for a week, and I am sure I will got through the entire pack.

warm wet wishes to all.

By wearing and being able to use your diapers/nappies leads to feel that you are accepted the way you behave and that you do not have do comply with other peoples wishes relieving a lot of stress

I'm not incontinent so I don't need them, but at the same time I don't use them for a sexual purpose so I'm not sure I even have a fetish so to speak, I enjoy looking at girls whether they are wearing a diaper or not but a diaper is a plus so I guess that counts for something. I cant really say what made me want to wear diapers, I just always have. I never wanted to stop wearing them as a kid but it was never sexual I just prefer to wear and use diapers as opposed to toilets. I cant really explain why diapers are more appealing to me than toilets but its just what I prefer. I'm not sure how I fit into the normal AB/DL crowd but I do love my diapers.

It was always the sexual arousal issue for me once found out my desire to wear diapers was a wonderful outlet for my sexual desires been hooked ever since. but have always enjoyed the feeling of the diapers as well.

I like to be controlled in a loving, tender, and strict way. i also like the bulk between my legs and when my boyfriend touches my butt with the diaper on gets me really wet. sometimes i like to just lay in my stomach and let him rub my diapered butt! 😘

Having the deep desire to wear diapers for about 50 years of my 55 year life I just do not ask the question,I just enjoy my diaper and all the enjoyment it brings me.

My diaper wearing started with my sisters. They use to put me in them when they would dress me up. I started seeing my identity connected to wearing diapers. I didn't feel complete unless I was in a diaper

For me it bieng forced to toilet train way too early at around 18 months old and the harsh measures that my parents took. Also feeing like I wasn't allowed to be a baby/toddler. So I was jealous of the attenion my baby brothers and sister got as well other babies from their mommies or big sisters and the way women just went gooey all over babies.

Personally I think I like having someone to give that kind of attention to rather than have the attention directed at me

Have yu tired to keep a jounrnal about what's going on in theat head while your wearing your diaper? I went through the same thing and slowed took some time to explore this feeling and what was up.

I think we all have gone through some thing like this. And there is more , have you hit the part where you throe every thing out and promos yourself that you will not do this ever again?

I've done this and I've heated myself and felt guilty and like damaged goods, it all settles down with time but you will need to fiend your own way to become "good" with wearing diapers . Yes you should talk it over with others who have been or are going through it but ultimately, you will have to make your own peace with it.

In my opinion diapers seem a bit more logical than toilets, i mean you can catch so many diseases from sitting on a public toilet, however if you change a diaper after an accident, urine is an anticeptic, so it's ok until it gets cold. Fecal matter is toxic, so i wouldn't reccommend sitting with that for too long.

My theory.

I think for most males, it is an attachment that forms as an infant. Typically, as an infant, you associate your mother with all pleasurable experiences - food, warmth and emotional security. These are often gratified at the same time by breast feeding - I believe this is why the attraction to breasts is normally so strong in adult males - we are simply trying to repeat the pleasurable experiences of infancy.

For some of us, this attachment may be skewed for a number of reasons e.g bottle feeding which can result in this attachment being transferred to an inanimate object associated nevertheless with those feelings of security. For us, those feelings of security arose when we were being changed, you only have to watch a mother with a young baby to see the intimacy at change time, second only to breast feeding.

Simply I was the oldest baby of any of my parents friends and they wanted me toilet trained long before I was ready to be and the harsh measures that they took to toilet train me like all the toilet training books advised against they did and of course it backfired on them and just made me even more resistant to toilet train and then came my younger brothers',each three years apart and a sister one year later,So there were always plenty of cloth diapers and plastic panties around. I first pinned a plastic crib sheet on like a diaper at three years old and then I would steal my brothers' plastic pants and when I was alone I'd pee and poop in them and wash them out and hide them so that I could put them on later and rub myself in them while looking at myself in my mom's big bedroom mirror and on her bed and pretend that I was my brothers.

I think asking myself "why" is important to my personal growth, in any topic, not just with my diaper wearing. Part of the reason is, in pure Pavlovian fashion, because I associate diapers and wetting to the best romantic relationship I ever had.

The emotional element behind diaper wearing usually does begin in childhood. I hear stories, some in this thread, that talk about really cold, unnurtuing maternal figures and the feeling of safety gone from childhood. Diapers are a way of reclaiming that lost feeling of safety and security.

The reason I had asked if you ever asked yourself this question is I feel that it does a person good to have a little understanding , some insight to ones own make-up. I know for myself that as my answer come to me I was more able to accept my diaper fetish and able to like me for who I am and it lifted most of the shame and guilt and self disgust. I was better adjusted and found a woman that even thou I told her I wear womens panties and diapers, not at the same time, she still fell in love with me we have been together for 15 yeas now. I also took her out to clubs when I was dressed as Laura and , if I may brag a bit , looked as good as her as a female. I don't think I could have found happiness in life if it weren't for becoming happy with me first. Think about it ! If you are a miserable person , then how the hell are you going to make some body else happy.

For those of you how don't need an answer , I say great , I'm glad you are happy . For the rest of us . I strongly suggest you give it a try and see if it doesn't make your life a little better. I know it worked wonders for me.