My wife does not approve my diaper wearing

My wife knows that I wear diapers, but does not want me to. Yesterday, ( My Birthday) morning she asked if I was wearing a diaper, she had already caught me drinking from my baby bottle. When I replied " Of course" she wanted me to take off my diaper right away. Her reason is that if I have a stroke / heart attack, how will she explain to the EMT people that I am wearing a diaper! ( I kept the wet diaper on for another 2 hours)

My wife has no problem with me wearing nappies. I wet the bed every night yet she still happily sleeps with me. As long as I don't wet her she doesn't see it as a problem.

Maybe you should work out some responses for when you have your stroke / heart attack(not wishing one upon you anytime at all). Something like "He was having some issues with his bladder and it worked out best to wear the diaper."

Have you discussed her reasons for not wanting you to wear(besides the above)?

My wife know i'm cloth diapered for bed every night.i have woren with her for over 30 years.she never objects and even ask am I going to wear diapers tonight?she doesn't want any wet beds.

My wife has never seen it as a problem. I undress, change my nappy etc in front of her and she never bats an eyelid.

My soon to be wife l9ves that i wear diapers..... she cant see me any other way...... yes my vrotch and ass gets stinky from wearinf but she 8s used to it ad i just make sure to clean uo and make sure i get all odor off before we make love....... ever since i inroduced her to diapers she has been hoomed and there is nothing sexier in the world than watching my petite 100 lbs fiance walk around the house in her diaper with nothing else on......... i love this girl and will give her the world..... if you dont believe me look at ly pics.

Emt's have seen every thing and a lot of people (My self included) have to wear 24/7 for medical reasons. I could see if you were in a crib with a bottle in your hand might be an issue for her but just plain adult diapers should be a non issue.

No one in the medical field will even blink an eye about some one in a diaper as diapers are becoming common place for medical needs as people choose them over the meds with really bad side effects.

I really want to be blatant & bring her morning coffee to her, just wearing my diaper, plastic pants & my onesie! But I know her reaction would be less tolerant, instead of more tolerant!

Its a bit like my granny asking if my vest and collar is clean just in case I got knocked down in a traffic accident. It's well known trauma induces vomiting and loss of bowel/bladder control.

Tell your wife that she's talking out of her backside.

Then tell her she has no choice but be in diapers for a day or two - and a laxative the second day.

Every time she needs changing give her a reward - an orgasmic massage as you clean her nether regions.

She'll soon come (cum) round to the idea of associating diaper use with pleasure.

Please - will both of you live happy ever after.

I feel i should chime in ad and agree with Nappiednow... My princess loves her diapies at night and she is well reward for her wet diapers in the morning. she will walk out and let me check her then i escort her to the bedroom and change her very wet double diaper. This is often fallowed by a beautiful orgasm on her part using toys and my mouth servicing her. I will focus on her entirely to make sure she is well cared for.

My wife doesn't approve of me putting my snibbs diaper on occasionally. However, I have to have an internal medical examination every year and this involves using a powerful laxative, so I have the perfect excuse to diaper up without any objection. I prefer a bikini style diaper cover and pads which fit in this. I can then feel snug but also warm and dry and I can keep adjusting the tie sides if the snibbs diaper cover. What a turn on!

Perhaps she is getting more tolerant, after all! She mentioned to me," no more diapers for the next 3 days, until you see the doctor". ( I do have one diaper rash mark, that she was referring to). So ( I presume) she does know that I wear a diaper every morning, under my pants when I bring her coffee to her!

Did she know about your diapers before you married her?

Yes my wife knew before we were married, however she now said she did not. (44 years ago, She caught me in my bed diapered, it did not bother her)

Well, good for you that you made sure she knew before she married you. I made sure my wife knew everything, and that I'd never give it up, before I asked her to marry me. She accepted it up front, and so far (about 30 years) she has known that my diapers are part of who I am, and she participates when possible.

But I can also relate to telling your significant other, having them accept it, then having them change their mind after a while. Back in the 1970s I had a girlfriend who initially accepted my diapers. She did not want me in her pants! Said she was "saving it for marriage." However, she compensated for not letting me have that by accepting my diapers.

At the time it was "you can't have this but you can do that." But then after two years she finally decided to let me into her pants and it was "well, now that you have this, you no longer need THOSE."

So, yeah, sometimes even when you do everything you can do to let them know up front that you love wearing your diapers, and they accept it--they can still later change their minds.

Fortunately that's not the case with my wife.

Anyway, good luck on this.

BBH, Older women like your wife do worry about their husbands having strokes or heart attacks. Those things happen when we guys get older. But as others have said, in a cardiac emergency your diaper doesn't matter one bit to EMS or ER staff.

But you and your wife need to talk, really talk, about this. Hope the two of you can find a resolution.

My wife has decided that if I am wearing diapers and some emergency occurs, she will simply say, "He needs them."

My wife isn't really opposed to them, but thinks it's weird and is very unenthusiastic about participating. But she knows I used to wet the bed, and have even had intermittent accidents at night since we've been married. So recently, as a result of working out, losing weight and drinking more water, I've been sleeping more deeply and started having more frequent accidents again. So I may end up back in diapers at night regardless if this keeps up.