WOMEN: What kind of tongue action do you like?

This is for the women.

Sorry guys, I'm only interested in what women want.

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What kind of tongue action do you like when having oral?

Do you like a thin, pointy fast darting tongue concentrating on your clitoris like in so many porno flicks? Do you like slow lingering rubbing localized to your clit, a fat broad tongue that rubs across your labia majora, slithers across your clit, licks the labia minora and makes occasional vaginal penetrations? Do you want your entire vulva to be licked or concentrated stimulation on your clitoris? Should your partner use their wet lips to rub over your labia? Do you want your partner to suck on your clitoris? ? ?

TELL US WHAT KIND OF TONGUE ACTION YOU LIKE!

BE SPECIFIC, GIVE DETAILS so the men can learn what women like.

I love it when my husband pulls back my clit hood and makes my clit come out and gently sucks on it and flickers his tongue on it and when he licks it with a firm pointy tongue, I also like when he just licks my lips up and down and sucks on my inner lips, I love having my clit licked kind of fast and his fingers inside of me rubbing my g spot

I like my husband to start on me with long and slow licks all the way up and down my pussy. He must keep the pressure light. When I want it I tell him to stick his tongue in and tease me or I might want 2 fingers in me but whatever he does I want his lips and tongue to keep touching my labia and not move away. I like it when he licks me up and down inside my inner lips. He can send me crazy when he circles the tip of his tongue around my clitoris. Some times I want him to suck right on it so I tell him that is what I want. He always knows when I am ready for more pressure and he licks me quickly up and down across my clitoris and makes me have my orgasm by doing that. Before I have got my breath back he kisses me on my clitoris and because I am sensitive he makes me jump but I like it. He is a teasing b*st*rd. :-)

Susie, why have I not seen this question before? This is a most excellent question.

I am simple, very simple. First of all, I like to hold myself open for a few reasons, one so his fingers can do other things, and because if I am holding myself open and he isn't quite in the right spot I can sort of manipulate that a bit. I know this sounds crazy but because he's a doctor when he sticks his fingers in me, no matter which hole it's so freaking hot for me. I like it when other men have done that, but when Doc does it with his bare fingers its just so very naughty. The only reason I can think of is that because he is a Doctor and he doesn't ever stick his fingers in a pussy or a butt without gloves on.

But like many others, he needs to go slow at first because I am so sensitive. At first I like him to lick me all over, slowly and with light pressure until I get used to it for a bit. When I want him to give me more pressure I often will grab his head and pull him into me harder. Then after a few minutes I get even easier to please. I want him to paint the fence. Do not move off my clit, apply steady pressure, do not stop, lick exactly the same way the entire time once he is to this stage. In order for me to really cum I need this with no variation what so ever. I want basically the tip of his tongue only. And again, do not stop painting the fence, do not suck on my clit, do not go around in circles, do not stick your tongue in my pussy, none of that. Because the second you break from painting the fence I instantly stop climbing that orgasm mountain and you have to start all over again. Then we both just get frustrated. LOL.

Mashie

Really light tongue tip on my clit. Flick back and forth with short strokes. Repeat :-)

(I just have a question for Mashie. I am not answering the original question that began the thread because I know that I am not allowed to.)

Wow Mashie your description of your preferred tongue action is exactly like that of a woman I was with a while back. Uncanny. One question for you, does the "paint the fence" technique consist of up and down strokes with the tip of the tongue? I am curious because the woman I mentioned was into just short down strokes on the tip of her clit.

H.C. Are you sure that woman wasn't me? Naw, just kidding. I like the short strokes up and down on my entire clit, just doing the tip I think is to touchy for me if I remember correctly.

When I cum through oral it is hands down the strongest orgasm I can have, and it's also my favorite. I wish it happened more often. It's hard with Doc's beard because sometimes I get sore and rubbed raw from his beard. That wouldn't happen if we were together more than we are, but it is what it is for now because that's the way it has to be.

Mashie

H.C. Are you sure that woman wasn't me?

Hah! One of us had to say that sooner or later! Nice one. I am never surprised to hear that a woman has her strongest orgasm through oral. It seems an unbearably exquisite experience, and I will never forget the first time that happened when I went down on such a woman. As for my first time fucking, I could do without that memory. Well, it really wasn't that bad. I survived haha.

I don't know what to tell you about this Doc fellow's beard. Maybe use some gentle sandpaper on yourself to get used to it when you don't see him for a while? (I'm kidding, of course!) Seriously though, maybe it would soften up his beard some if you put some thick coconut oil or something on his face right beforehand. I have never heard of anyone trying that, so maybe it is just a dumb idea. Only one way to find out, if you have not tried that already.

Hey guys thanks for all of the advice. I would have never known anything would work, or that there was even a product out there to do such a thing. You guys rock! Thank you so much. Now I just have to gingerly discuss it with Doc, lol. He does love that beard of his.

Mashie

I was just about to say beard oil! Failing that, he could try using one of the super moisturising leave in for 3 minutes then rinse out hair conditioners. I'd also suggest that he doesn't trim his moustache parts, or the bits around the sides and lower lip just before you see him as it makes the hairs blunt, sharp, and frankly nasty on sensitive lady bits. Manshape has, for the last few years grown a moustache for Movember; he's usually clean shaven. Given he has quite possibly the softest, smoothest skin I've ever known a man to have, it took us a little while to adapt and find a way of coping with the prickles!

Hello Mashie, my husband found this topic and he said that only one woman had answered the question. So he said I should.

It depends on my mood. Sometimes I like his tongue to be ever so gentle so I can barely feel it, other times hard and rough, and other times I variation. I love him to focus on my pee opening, and sometimes will release small amounts for him to lick and taste. (I always drink lots of water so my pee is mostly clear.) Sometimes I also like him to lick and suck and do whatever to my clit and tell me that it is getting hard and that it has become a tiny penis. Also thrusting his tongue into the vagina and sucking my juices.

I like it to start slow and light just above my clit with an occasional lick inside and back up. As it progresses then sucking and spitting my clit in and out, faster and faster. You will know if you are doing it right. After I have an orgasm back to slow and light. Then stop for a minute. It is fine to restart after a minute.

Anything and everything he does, because afterwards he has to peel me off the ceiling. Yes, he is that good at what he does.

I guess it's time for me to say what I like.

I love a broad flat tongue rubbing over my entire labia majora, minora and clitoris with occasional vaginal penetration.

The clitoris should be sucked intermittantly, but not too hard. I also enjoy having my husband rub his lips over my labia and clitoris. The lips (of the mouth) have the same type of tissue as the inside of the labia and vagina, so it gives a nice smooth feeling as he rubs his wet lips over my labia and clit. Inserting a finger into my vagina and sometimes one or two into my vagina and one into my rectum gives a really good sensation especially when I have my orgasm.

This question is brilliant! I plan on studiously examining all the answers.

Thank you Susie, for posing this.

You're welcome!

I enjoy all aspects of pussy massage, but when I start to go, I want a consistent thing. Sometimes he will start to go faster and change things, but I want the same to continue. Steady up and down over the clit, or steady circular motion, but the fingers in an out make a big difference too. Doesn't matter if it is pussy or rectum, but I need the fingers. Sometimes I can really pop with something in the rectum even more so that the pussy.

Making circles over my clit and moving up and down

Oh my soooo many options ! Well it might be easier to list the do-nots Haha

Dont poke ! That would provoke an immediate " wtf" moment . If your buddies told you to trace the alphabet with your tongue on our clits ...they are idiots ! We are going to wonder what the heck you are doing .

First explore every inch with your tongue , stay away from the clit for a little while , or just tease it a little every now and then , build up to it , make her anticipate it. when you finally focus on that sweet spot it will be that much more yummy for her . Alternate between soft and slow flicking , licking , and sucking to using more pressure and being a bit more vigorous. Use your tongue and lips.

Pay attention to her breathing , her body movements , her wetness ....you will be able to tell what she likes . Get her close and even if she begs not to stop switch it up a little ,it will make her orgasm that much more intense . ( she will thank you in the end ) And dont forget use your fingers too 😉

Oh my its getting hot in here ?

@bridgette - Very good, descriptive post, and full of sound advice. I hope many will learn from it.

DrZ , and hope just as many reap the rewards 😉

DrZ , and hope just as many reap the rewards 😉

B the rewards are for us! 😜 😜 😜

Amethyst......exactly !

Thank you SwitchableSusie for this topic! Cunnilingus is my second most favorite sexual activity. I am enjoying reading all the posts and learning how to better my performance. Again thank you for the opportunity to further my sexual education.

Oral sex is the most satisfying type of sex I have experienced. And the most frustrating. One of my woman lover's would just flick the tip of her tongue up and down on my clit, which pretty quickly just got uncomfortable and irritating. But, when I asked her to do something different, she just got angry. So, speak up ladies if you have to, and don't let an idiot ruin anything as wonderful as oral sex for you! I love the whole ball of wax. Especially when I open my legs and my partner begins by using their fingers to spread my labia and "examine" me for a few minutes, even going inside with a finger or two and giving me a good "pelvic". Ha! Then their tongue should softly slip into there too and start working their way up. Just licking at first, with a little more pointed pressure at the urethra. And over the clit and hood. And . . . Then back down but now the whole mouth and tongue should be getting involved with intense sucking too. A really good partner for me will know how to edge, but when they have their mouth on me and put two fingers in my vagina, BOOM!

. . . . Then their tongue should softly slip into there too and start working their way up. Just licking at first, with a little more pointed pressure at the urethra. And over the clit and hood. And . . . Then back down but now the whole mouth and tongue should be getting involved with intense sucking too. . . . .

I can tell you from experience that what you described is YOUR preference. I know several women who do NOT like intense sucking on the clitoris.