Should a slave or sub have shaved genitals?

What's the general view on this?

I think they should, it makes them more under the control of the master or mistress. Well that's my opinion.

Some may say it makes them look more like a child and, naughty children get punished!

Yikes I never even thought of this!! To me shaved pubic hair is unbecoming but that's merely my own personal preference.

I like a good pubic bush. To me it's just more manly. That said it's certainly a way of asserting yourself shaving it off a guy, and doing his crack too

To me, it depends on what you're trying to achieve. A look that will please you but you know the slave/bottom will dislike? Or rather a psychological reaction to humble or humiliate them? We all have our reasons for wanting a look/feel or another, and because of that, a good bush or shaved genitals can have the same effect!

Your sub should have what you want...you can do the deed or let him or her do it while you watch. I do not like to shave so I have my pussy and bottom waxed. I have been waxing so long that I'm not very hairy now. Love a nice smooth vagina. It makes everything feel better.

To me, it depends on what you're trying to achieve. A look that will please you but you know the slave/bottom will dislike? Or rather a psychological reaction to humble or humiliate them? We all have our reasons for wanting a look/feel or another, and because of that, a good bush or shaved genitals can have the same effect!

BINGO.

You hit the nail on the head.

Having hairless genitals is an act of submission if that is how your Mistress or Master wants you to be. Your feelings on the matter shouldn't be a part of the equation. You are there to submit and do as told. You should consider any request to be command and you should make sure to keep it that way until told to do otherwise. If you really want to be submissive, you should suggest to your owner that perhaps they would like to accompany you to a waxing salon to have it done or that they send you to one to have it done. Maybe they know a kink friendly place or maybe they will let the waxer know that you are their slave and need to be waxed a certain way. The possibilities are endless for some subtle humiliation being sent your way.

The presence of pubic hair leaves many more opportunities to torture the sub....

How one views shaved or hairless genitals is very subjective. I chose to have my pubic hair and all the hair from the shoulders down removed with a combination of laser and electrolysis. My decision to do so was a strong aversion to body hair. I really feel I look much better hairless when I see myself in the mirror. I am married and we definitely are not in a sub/dom relationship sexually. I really don't care what others think of hairless genitals or even how they may view myself being hairless- they are entitled to their own opinion.

I just like the look and feel of being hairless and I have never regretted getting rid of my body hair.

Always do anyway

I always ask my subs to keep their privates and any other part of their body that I might constantly manipulate hair-free. It just feels much nicer to handle soft smooth flesh and I guess the age-play and embarrassing side of it also turns me on. I like a nice full head of hair though....nothing beats grabbing and pulling on it while ramming them hard.

Both!😃

My wife keeps me shaved and i sleep naked, so whenever she wants access to me she has it. I've woken up during the night a few times to my wife giving me a BJ. Other times, when I sleep too late I am woken up with her sitting on my shoulders spanking me awake.

Hi quincy, I read your post and I'm not sure I read it in the proper context. Are you saying that a Dom who requires his sub to shave should face legal action?

I understand that ultimately, every submissive is in control of whether he/she wants to be in a D/s relationship. Yet, this is also true for the Dom. This creates the consensual D/s relationship I conjure up when in the context of most of the postings on Zity.biz. Once both have agreed to a consensual arrangement and established hard limits (this is where to shave or not would be decided) then as a Dom I feel it is reasonable to require the sub maintain shaved genitals if that has not been established as a hard limit.

In my opinion, if the sub were to file assault or other charges then obviously the two need to terminate their relationship but to bring the entire legal system into whether genitals are shaved or not...seems a bit much to me, but that's just the way I roll and your mileage may vary.

Peace,

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Quincy , I know I have a ton to learn about the dom/sub lifestyle but your post has me very confused . Isnt one of the the main points of that relationship is that the sub gives themselves freely to the dom ? No questions asked ? ( of course with prior aggreement to such a relationship ) The whole point being that the sub trusts their dom with what ever pleasure, punishment , rules , well being , expectations etc.

My wife is the dominant and controlling force in our relationship, Long before marriage she was very clear on her dislike of any form of body hair. Her first gift and requirement for me was a laser hair removal package, Two years into our marriage I'm still getting treatments every three months fro the neck down, She had me waxed when we dated every five weeks, I excepted her requirements out of love and respect, Presenting a total clean package is high on her list. As far as people relating a hairless body to a child like appearance, LOL, A fully developed body in no way resembles a child, This has never entered my mind or hers as I was surprised when I read this here and showed her that some members felt it child like in appearance. She has told me on many occasions having me hairless is like her own secret stamp of owenership and control. Our relationship works and were a good match.

That depends on the dynamic of the D/s relationship and the two people involved. If that's whats ask for, or agreed upon, then that's whats done. No two D/s relationships are alike, therefore there is no "should be".

My sub has shared that he wants to begin transgender therapy. He's a perfect candidate. He's very pretty, very submissive and loves wearing lingerie. For some time I have made him shave his genital area and his legs. He has great looking legs especially when I put him in nylons. I believe any male sub should be feminized and this necessitates shaving body hair if for no other reason than the fact that he will look much better in his panties and nylons when he wears them.

"Should a slave or sub have shaved genitals?"

I read this out of the blue (didn't see it coming) and laughed my ass off.

As if doms want to have a rule book somewhere, or as if subs are complaining "Do i HAVE TO ? "

I think it would be embarrassing to be that way during an exam or doctors visit.

Imagine if the doctor was familiar enough with a mandate that BDSM subs be clean shaven, and makes assumptions upon seeing a clean shaven patient. Imagine being that patient, and you know the doc knows or suspects......

Yes. My wife thinks so.

I am a sub and I have been clean shaven / waxed since I was 20 years of age. I personally feel clean and fresher. I have my annual check ups and never once have I been embarrassed. I later became a sub to a Daddy Dom. He explained that keeping smooth was a sign of respect and need to Him. Just as a child respects her Daddy and needs him so does a sub. I am no longer a brat sub but still a submissive and I still keep the grass manicured very nicely by keeping the grass cleared and the playing field fresh.

If the Dom wants the sub trimmed or shaved, there's something to be said for the Dom doing the shaving or trimming..

Doc

I'm shaved down there because I'm diapered full time.

It definitely makes me feel more submissive but mostly because with no hair to get into, my baby lotion and powder stay slippery on my skin, and so seeing as I'm essentially permanently lubricated down there I'm a lot more sensitive and it makes me easier to persuade and control.

I am shaven completely from the neck down. Not one hair is to be seen when I appear before my Dominant Wife; or I face severe consequences. There is no doubt that I feel even more submissive, more compliant, and more humbled when I stand or kneel naked before her. I am required to be naked and completely shaved at all times in her presence.

As a sub, I'm completely shaved down below so you can clearly see everything. I think most tops prefer their sub to be that way..............

I've been totally smooth for 15 years and am ready to take the next step, having my head shaven (forcibly and in restraints) and wearing wigs when in public. My naturalbrows will also be removed and then tattoo'ed

I prefer bare, Constant reminder that they are not in charge. Plus, I like both look and feel.

I prefer bare, Constant reminder that they are not in charge. Plus, I like both look and feel.

Are you in charge if they want to be bare but they don't tell you that?

Then they are just mocking you, thinking you are a fool.

Submissive here. Although I enjoy being shaved, I do believe it's definitely a form of domination. Someone telling you to keep it that way is different than wanting it that way. I use to shave all the time, but always let it grow back for doctor visits or when I wanted to date someone (younger days). When you have a dome, you don't have the option of growing it back. Once had a dome who knew I had a physical coming up. He made sure I was completely shaved for it (genitals, legs, arm pits) and made me wear a string panty for the exam. Of course you wear a gown for that, but I was told to put the panties on top of my clothes so it could be seen. My doctor at the time was an older female and didn't say anything about my condition, but she had to see it with the various poking and inspections. It was very humiliating but I survived and actually kept going until my insurance changed. She never said anything, just business as usual. But that was an example of me liking to be shaved, but not controlling it while seeing a dome.

Shaved, waxed, depelated, lasered, plucked, ripped, is not important how, is important to be hairless. On male or female. I have described in a lot of my stories.

The reasons are many, various, multiple.

Cleanliness, submissivity, hair does not bother when playing games, practicality, especially when washing, erotic, aesthetics, feeling... When shaving or denuding a partner is a form of game, play, eroticism, supremacy, ... A consequence to a partner is a long-term feeling, and he, or she remembers who is in charge. A hairless state is a permanent evidence for a sub about his position.