PRESUMING YOU ARE MARRIED
Me and some friends found this phrase to be best way define things that the bible has no say on. Nor does it have restrictions placed on the individual in the setting of privacy things like masturbation, sexual positions, and sexual fetishes.
The first means self pleasure: i do not see the harm (or sin) in this if it is to let sexual desires with out harming yourself or others nor your marital relationship.
Sexual Positions: are between you and your spouse and what you are willing to try. the marriage bed is defiled. As long as you are not out to hurt or demean each other it is ok no matter what you try
Sexual fetishes: are thing that we attach to sex to enhance or gratification. condoms, lingerie, toys, diapers, feet, breasts, butts, hair etc... are both things we add to the body or parts of the body we prefer to look at or turn us on so to say these are merely ways for us to enjoy sex with our partners
So Bedroom Religion are tings we keep between our partners and god the rest is nobodies business. We should not feel bad or condemned for the things we enjoy with ourselves and partners behind closed doors
These are some thoughts that i had that i would like to share