Spanking and dominance

I do not enjoy pain but I was a s a boy submissive and so sought dominance. As for spanking only once did I find that arousing when a school whipped me lighltly with a piece of cord which was lying around in a a old shed where we used to go and chat, that gave me an erection. One of the other boys knew that it would and told the others which led to something like serious dominance.

When my mom spanked me as a boy, the pain became less of a factor as I got older. What impacted me more was the embarrassment and humiliation of baring my bottom and genitals to be spanked.

My first experience with another guy was spanking. Always interested and before internet I answered a box in Forum magazine in UK. One thing led to another and while on holiday in Bournemouth arranged to meet this guy who happened to live there. It was fantastic . I well remember being over his knee when he undid my belt and took my jeans down. I was hard then, but when he took down my blue briefs and I was bare arsed over his knee I nearly came! But it is the thought of being naked displaying all. So humiliating. Not so much into the pain but of course you have to endure to get the excitement.Also love taking guys across my knee. Just hope they get same experience, although I'm always careful to put towel over knee in event of premature ejaculation!

Sorry but I'm not into pain one bit. I guess I'm just a wimp. The only thing that attracts me to spanking is the embarrassment of being butt naked. I like the idea of having a woman over my knee but I would lose interest pretty quickly in favor of further sexual activity.

I enjoy the pain to a certain extent but prefer to endure a painful spanking that is realistic... this leaves me hard for a good long time. One who has a low pain tolerance can still enjoy domination without pain... Although the dom may still spank you the important part of a good spanking is that it seems harsh to you... I can take spankings that other men would never be able to take tied down. We are all different. I hope you find someone to dominate you and fufill your needs.